Introduction: On the road of life, the most fortunate people meet three people, the people who wake you up, the people who understand you, and the people who help you.
"The Little Prince" is one of the most famous fairy tale novels in France and even in the world.
The little prince is the master of a small planet, and after coming to Earth, he continues to grow and finally returns to his planet.
Growing up, he had the privilege of meeting three people. May we be as lucky as he is.
One, awaken your people.
The little prince was arrogant in his heart, and could not bear the only little rose on his planet to "toss". He decided to leave the planet and travel to space.
As his horizons widened, he realized his own ordinaryness. He felt lonely. Then he met the fox.
He invited the fox to play with himself, but the fox said, "I can't play with you, I'm not domesticated."
The little prince did not understand the words of the fox, who said that "domestication" is to establish emotional connection.
The fox said: It takes time to build feelings, to use patience, and to dress up this heart, to let the heart move for "love" - full of passion and expectation for the upcoming date, to make ordinary days full of ritual, to make "this day" different from "that day"...
You and I in the world are ordinary people, no different from other people, but the heart and the heart have established feelings, and the seemingly ordinary you are the only one in my world.
Like a flash of light in the vast night, the little prince's ignorant heart was illuminated and awakened by the fox's words. He realizes that the little rose who always "tosses" him is building feelings with him in her way, and all the "tosses" are the transmission of her love.
The little prince understood the little rose and got rid of the loneliness in his heart, he knew that in this vast world, there was a heart that belonged to him.
Awakening is a magic wand that can make the barren land lush with grass in an instant; it can make the cloudy sky bloom with sunlight in an instant.
Around the Western Jin Dynasty, the townspeople regarded him as a pest like a fierce tiger and a dragon, and celebrated his "death". Zhou Fu was deeply stimulated, wanted to reform, and felt that when he was older, he would not achieve anything. At this time, the literary scholar Lu Yun woke him up with a sentence: The ancients yun, "Towards the Tao, death can be done at night." After that, Zhou Fu was inspired and energetic, and eventually became a famous minister of the Western Jin Dynasty.
Mo Yan read Márquez's "One Hundred Years of Solitude" and exclaimed, "It turns out that novels can be written like this!" He studied Márquez's magic realism and wrote his brilliant works.
The famous host Martin failed the college entrance examination that year, self-abandonment, his mother knelt on the ground, "bang, bang, bang" - the world's most shocking three heads, awakened his conscience, his self-motivation.
In life, a book, a sentence, a look... Both may be valuable awakenings.
Awakening, the sign leading to the Sunshine Avenue in confusion; awakening, the steps that first ascended to the dangerous peak when wandering; awakening, the deafening cry in the mud.
Have a sense of reverence for those who awaken you. Zhang Liang picked up shoes for the old man, Yang Shi lixue at Chengmen, and posterity built a monument for Wang Yangming...
"Heaven does not give birth to Zhongni, eternity is like a long night", Confucius was revered by posterity as "the master of all ages".
Ordinary us, when we meet a awakener like a fox, it is a blessing, a gift from heaven to take care of you and me. The heart is awakened, the heart is enriched, and life is brilliant.
Second, the person who understands you.
The pilot and the little prince are aimlessly searching for a well in the desert without boundaries. The little prince said: The desert is beautiful because there is a well hidden somewhere.
The pilot immediately understood the meaning of this sentence, saying that when he was a child, he lived in an ancient house, and it was said that there was a treasure buried in the ground, and no one had ever looked for it, but the whole house had a charm.
This is true of the desert, so is the old house, and so is the people. The human heart is noble, humble, tolerant, rational, knows how to give and love, knows how to understand and accept love. All this is a well hidden in the desert, a treasure in the ancient house, the beauty of the desert, and the embodiment of the charm of the ancient house.
The pilot said to the little prince: Yes, whether it is a house, a star, or a desert, beautiful things are invisible.
The little prince was very pleased to hear the pilot's words.
In the course of life, how fortunate it would be if we had friends like pilots who understood and affirmed our ideas.
Understanding and affirmation can strengthen our understanding of the beauty of the world, and it is like a well in the depths of the desert, nourishing life and moisturizing the soul. In the lonely desert, such a heart-to-heart dialogue makes the color of the desert become "honey".
Liu Liangcheng wrote in "Smiling at a Flower": I am lying on the slope of the earth thinking about things, whether I think of things - strange thoughts in a person's mind make the grass feel funny, laughing forward and backward in the breeze. Some laughed, some half-covered their lips, and couldn't help but smile. The two flowers close to me, one of which opened its thin pink petals toward me, seemed to have a groan and laughter in my ears. The other turned its head to cover its face, still unable to hide its smile. I couldn't help but laugh too, first smiling, then laughing.
Have a friend who understands you, probably like a writer and the grass on the slope, no language, no expression, no sharp mind, no need for "point" that is, enjoy the quiet environment, feel the pure state of mind, body and mind, full of joy.
There are such friends in life, not the Jinling people's clan that Zhang Dai met when he went to Huxin Pavilion to see the snow, but just to help us live.
Even if it is not Bao Shuya to Guan Zhong, no matter whether Guan Zhong takes more silver, becomes a deserter, or assists the king in defeat, Bao Shuya can understand him, accompany him all the way, appreciate him, promote him, and promote him to succeed.
This friend, without any utilitarian heart, has a tacit understanding with you, like the spring wind when the grass sprouts, like the spring rain that floats over the flowers, like the flowers that bloom and the butterflies fly.
It should be Yu Boya and Zhong Zi period, and the mountain flowing water is the eternal music in their hearts.
Three, the person who helps you.
The little prince realized that the rose on his little planet was the only thing in his life, that he was responsible for her, that he was going to return to his planet. But how do you go back?
When the little prince first set foot on earth, he encountered a snake, a fierce character, and he could send anyone on the road to come when he met, but the snake was wise.
He saw at a glance that the little prince was a delicate and pure man, who must not be able to adapt to the hard and stubborn earth of granite. He said, you made me feel compassion, one day you really miss your planet, I can help you.
The little prince wants to return to his planet, and the snake comes to help him fulfill this wish.
But the snake was not welcomed, and in the eyes of the pilot, the snake killed people within 30 seconds.
In the words of the little prince, the snake "has a bad heart and eyes, and it will bite people when nothing happens." But only the serpent is willing and capable of helping the little prince to return home, although his ability is questioned by the little prince- is your venom magical?
The snake is still obsessed with helping the little prince, and even though the liquid that can make the little prince's soul soar is called "venom" by the little prince, the snake has not changed its original intention.
In our lives, it is our teachers who can help us like snakes. It seems harsh, but it is always not understood by us, and even makes us afraid. They can always reach out and help us out when we are most helpless.
Fu Lei was notoriously stern to his son Fu Cong, but when Fu Cong encountered career and family problems thousands of miles away, it was Fu Lei's family letter one by one, full of fist and fist love for his son, licking deep affection, dispelling depression, giving advice, and pointing out the mysteries.
In life, we are grateful to those who help us, and when we are capable, why not be the one who helps others.
When we have the ability to help others, we are also helping ourselves.
The famous Peking Opera "Suolin Capsule" tells such a story.
The kind rich lady Xue Xiangling gave the jewel-filled suolin bag to the poor woman Zhao Shouzhen when she got married. Later, Xue Xiangling was stricken by floods and went to the rich Lu family as a nanny, and found that the lu family's main mother was Zhao Shouzhen, a poor woman at that time. When Zhao Shouzhen learned of this, he treated him as a guest of honor and married him as a sister.
When encountering difficulties, the most fortunate thing is to meet noble people, regardless of cost, regardless of gain or loss, not for return. Heaven also cares for those who help others, "The house of good deeds will be celebrated."
How do you meet people who can wake you up, understand you, and help you?
On the road of life, there are fox friends to wake us up, pilot friends to accompany us, and snake-like division commanders to help us, how lucky.
How to meet them?
The reason why the little prince met these friends is because of his own character, he is pure, friendly, heavy on feelings, and constantly improves his realm - heaven will open a skylight for your beauty.
When Huang Yongyu was young, he was financially supported by friends, and his friends devoted himself to guidance in art, benefiting from Huang Yongyu's own upright character and the spirit of pursuing art assiduously.
If you bloom, the breeze will come.
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