If you are experiencing the struggle of divorce, the misfortune and pain of marriage, after watching this woman's "tragic marriage", it is estimated that you will feel much better.
She was China's "first divorced woman", but what was even more admirable was that in that era, as an old woman, after her divorce, she turned gorgeously and lived out what a modern woman should look like.
She is Zhang Youyi.
Zhang Youyi: The misfortune of marriage has created a legend in her life
The seven-year marriage between Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo can definitely be described as "tragic".
7 years of cold violence, husband Xu Zhimo would rather chat with the maid than bother to take care of his wife's words;
Personality degraded but still does not prevent him and his wife from practicing the truth of conjugality, regarding his wife as a tool for succession, a proper "scumbag", placed in the current society, it is estimated that he has long been beaten to death by his sisters;
Obviously, he has long been disgusted with the wife of the chaff to the extreme, and is fanatically infatuated with the talented girl Lin Huiyin, but he still wants to call Zhang Youyi to France, just so that she can wash and cook for him;
The wife was pregnant with a second child, and the husband Xu Zhimo threw down a cold sentence: "Hurry up and beat the child." "Turned around and walked away, never to show up again. Leaving behind his pregnant wife, he is unfamiliar with a foreign life.
In order to pursue Lin Huiyin, after his wife had just given birth, he immediately asked Zhang Youyi to sign the divorce, and even the 5,000 yuan of divorce compensation promised at that time was finally gone.
Zhang Youyi: The misfortune of marriage has created a legend in her life
After the divorce, in order to express his own freedom, Xu Zhimo issued a divorce notice in China, and put his wife in the name of freedom in a message of slander.
After the divorce, Zhang Youyi, who was isolated and helpless abroad, once again suffered the pain of losing her son.
If all of Zhang Youyi's pain comes from Xu Zhimo, then the indifference of her brother and brother as a relative to this marriage change is invisibly giving her huge psychological pressure and harm. The second brother even used "such as mourning a concubine" to describe the Zhang family's painful loss of Xu Zhimo. How can blind worship have a clear view of right and wrong?
The internal wounds of feelings, the incomprehension of family members, the pain of heart-wrenching loss of children, and the public hurt again, like a sea of mountains and mountains, pounced on an old-fashioned woman.
However, a failed marriage is sometimes like a sharp dagger, bringing her a sharp wound and opening up a new life for her.
Zhang Youyi: The misfortune of marriage has created a legend in her life
She did not sink, but against xu Zhimo's light, she turned her eighty-eight years of life into a legend.
She is the first female manager in China's banking industry and the first female boss in China's garment industry.
Detached from the dependence of men, break out of their own piece of the sky, and sharpen the excellent character and independent personality of women. I have lived my life as a "sonorous rose" of great pride. Such a woman deserves to be remembered and worthy of being written.
Kudos to you for being brave enough to be yourself!
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