Text/Flying Fish
Watching "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds", it hurts Yao Mulan, because Zeng Sunya did not love her at first.
Especially on their wedding day, the groom left in the middle of the night, leaving Mulan alone in the empty room, which was a big blow to the newlyweds.
The candle was only half burned, but it was not perfect, and if the disheartened Mulan, love was given to a person who did not love himself.
So Mulan looked at the burning candle so sadly, she blew out the candle and put it away, not expecting to be thrown away by the maid.
When Mulan found that the candle was missing, she was very anxious to find it, and later heard that she was picked up by a couple of newlyweds as a newlywed candle, so Mulan's heart was no longer anxious, and she also wished the couple happiness and happiness.
Mulan, who may still be frustrated in the love field, can understand the preciousness of being loved more, because she understands, so compassionate.
Marrying someone who doesn't love you is really hard to be happy.
In this world, two people can meet, in fact, it shows that there is a fate, and if you want to get each other's likes, you actually need a way.
Maybe the other party did not fall in love with you at the beginning, it is because the other party has not yet seen your good, as long as you learn to use skills, know how to manage themselves and feelings, in fact, men will soon be conquered by you.
If you want a man to love you to the bone, don't have to please, do these points well is enough.
1, do not take the feelings as the whole of life, leave a self.
In fact, in the relationship, the most taboo is that love is too full, there is no self.
Women want to get the love of men, they must first learn to take part of the time to love themselves, do not put all their energy on a man, only first learn to love themselves, in order to win the love of others.
Sometimes in the relationship, in fact, it is quite unreasonable, there is no reason to talk about, the more a person loves too much, the more he pays, the more disappointment he may be exchanged for.
How many women regard feelings as the whole of life, all day long around men, all for men, but do not know how to live for themselves.
It's like Zhang Youyi loves Xu Zhimo too much, loses herself, and is just relying on Xu Zhimo, so Xu Zhimo has not liked her, but liked Lin Huiyin.
Because Lin Hui is independent, insightful, and has ideals, so Xu Zhimo likes such a woman, and Zhang Youyi, on the one hand, will only listen, on the other hand, will not be independent, and there are only children and him in their hearts, without any ideas, so after women take their feelings as the whole of life, it is easy for men to be disgusted, when men one day take back their love, then women have nothing.
On the contrary, after the divorce, Zhang Youyi became strong, independent, and became a great entrepreneur, Xu Zhimo admired her, saw her change, and also changed her.
In the relationship, in fact, men are more realistic than women, even after marriage, they will not treat feelings as all, they should still do their own things, just do it.
Therefore, women must learn to be independent, so as to win the admiration of men, so that he can love you to the bone.
2, do not always think of relying on men, at any time can not lose the ability to be financially independent.
In fact, in real life, there are always some women who are in love, and once they are in love, even the IQ is gone, and what men say is what they are, and they have no opinion at all.
When the man sweetly said: "You don't have to work, just stay at home, responsible for beautiful flowers, I am responsible for making money to support the family." ”
Women sound so happy, but the reality is so cruel, when men love you, they are very enthusiastic, and when they don't love you, they are also very desperate.
The so-called "I raise you" is a lie, women must remember that if you want to get the real love of men, you can't give up the ability to make money at any time, and you can't give up the ability to maintain financial independence.
When you are financially independent, you can truly look beautiful and do not need to expect him to support you. The love he can give you is from the heart, and it must always be there.
Only a woman who is financially independent can make a man love it to the bone.
3, women must have their own specialty or hobby.
The reason why some women will bring their own light is because there is a trait in the body that will unconsciously attract men and make men love them to the bone.
And women with their own aura, either have their own strengths, or have their own interests and hobbies, when a person concentrates on doing a thing, it is actually the most charming.
So no matter how good-looking women, when they have their own strengths and hobbies, they are actually adding sparkle to their own bodies, which will continue to attract each other.
Women are in love, or married, do not give up their work and likes, constantly improve themselves, do not spend all their energy on men, but also spend some time to make a promotion for themselves, so as to enrich their souls.
Therefore, if you want men to love you to the bone, don't deliberately please, don't be jealous, but do yourself.
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