People's lives are inevitably full of thorns and ups and downs, and the people who choose to help you when you encounter difficulties are rare nobles in their lives, of course, there are also many people who fall into the well. In those difficult years, accompanied by relatives, trying to overcome difficulties and face difficulties can see a beautiful scenery that is different in life. But not everyone can have the company of love, the same bed, different dreams, and the occurrence of flying separately in the face of great difficulties are not uncommon now.
Zhou Ruming and Liang Congzhi, who were in a difficult situation, also made this choice. Does she have any grievances? Two small no guesses, happy marriage to talk about Zhou Rumei, many people probably don't know who she is, but everyone will not be unfamiliar with Zhou Peiyuan. Zhou Ruming's father is the famous mechanician and theoretical physicist Zhou Peiyuan, who served as the president of Peking University and made outstanding contributions to the cause of modern Mechanics in China. Zhou Peiyuan has a strong patriotic spirit, and when he studied in the United States in the 1930s, he resolutely refused the high salary in the United States and chose to return to China during the special period of the motherland.
Zhou Peiyuan's family once said that "revitalizing China is a heavy responsibility entrusted to each of our Chinese by the times, and no matter where we are, we must always think that we are Chinese and what we can do for the motherland." Zhou Ruming's mother is Ms. Wang Tilian, who has been teaching at the Affiliated Middle School of Tsinghua University. Zhou Rumei was born in such a family of scholars, and is also the couple's first child, the two love Zhou Rumei and attach great importance to her education and cultivation. Zhou Rumei not only had a good family, but also was born in the era of female awakening. Women in the context of war and chaos began to dare to break through the shackles of feudal etiquette and dare to live for themselves and freedom.
Zhou Rumei's family situation and the era of life paved the way for her to become a translator. When she grew up, Zhou Rumei not only stood tall, but also had poetry books in her belly, made money with her own pen, and was an independent woman. The family is good, Zhou Rumei is also very well married, and her husband is Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin's son Liang Congjie. As we all know, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin are both professors of ancient architecture at Tsinghua University, and the husband and wife have traveled to many places from the period of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression to the founding of New China, making indelible contributions to the protection of ancient buildings. Lin Huiyin is not only an architect, but also a very talented poet, and "You Are the April Day on Earth" is from Lin Huiyin's hand. Such a family, such a mother, and the children raised are naturally not far behind.
Although Lin Huiyin and his son died of an early illness and Liang Sicheng's second wife, Lin Su, denigrated her, Lin Huiyin's achievements are indisputable facts. As the child of two people, Liang Congjie has benefited a lot. His parents not only taught him knowledge, but also personally demonstrated "what is love, how to love, if love". Zhou Peiyuan and Liang Sicheng had known each other when they were students at Tsinghua University, and then worked together at Southwest United University and Tsinghua University, and the two talked happily and made friends. The Liang family and the Zhou family are neighbors, and Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng often invite academics to their homes, including Zhou Peiyuan.
Due to the relationship between the fathers, the younger son Liang Congjie and Zhou Rumei often played together, and Lang rode a bamboo horse to get green plums around the bed. When they were young, they had feelings for each other. When he grew up, Liang Congjie graduated from the History Department of Peking University, behaved elegantly, devoted himself to environmental protection research, and Zhou Rumei devoted himself to research work. The heartbeat of my youth was the wasteland of midsummer night, which could not be cut and burned endlessly, and when the long wind blew, the weeds became the sky. The two people who have a friendship often exchange ideas in their leisure time. From the trivialities of life to the ideal ambitions, the two are very compatible. In everyone's eyes, the two people are also talented women, very right.
So under the mediation of the parents, Liang Congjie and Zhou Rumei became husband and wife, and the story of love became a good story. Loving husband and wife, but failing to keep the love story of the older generation, there are not too many sweet vows, and there is no "I love you". There were no flowers, no chocolates, no diamond rings, no substances, just foaming at each other. Zhou Rumei is a memory that Liang Congzhi's heart can't linger, and his love for her is deep and deep. So much so that when the elderly Liang Congzhi recalled the past, he also frequently said that his first real love was with Zhou Rumei, and Zhou Rumei was his first love. Soon the two had a love crystallization, and Liang Jian was born in 1932. The world of two people has become a family of three, Liang Congzhi works harder and looks forward to a better future, and their feelings envy others.
If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan. Waiting for idle changes but the old people's hearts, but the old people's hearts are changeable. In 1969, Liang Congjie was forced to go to a rural area in Jiangxi. He had difficulty accepting his situation, but when he told Zhou Ruming this bad news, he did not expect that Zhou Rumei would directly file for divorce. The human heart is always ever-changing, and only fate remains unchanged. Liang Congzhi was momentarily grief-stricken and did not know how to face life. Within a few days, Zhou Rumei drafted a letter of divorce and handed it to Liang Congjie, who could only endure the pain of divorcing Zhou Rumei, and what was the use of the wind to go and stay.
Later, Zhou Rumei gave Liang Congzhi a deeper harm, she resorted to the law, won the custody of her son into her own hands, and Liang Congzhi became a lonely person. When Liang Congzhi's life fell into a desperate situation, Zhou Rumei resolutely chose to divorce, and the degree of decisiveness was jaw-dropping. Later, there were two different rumors about Zhou Ruming's choice, one voice believed that because of the special era, Zhou Rumei chose divorce in order to save his family. There are also some people who believe that Zhou Rumei chose to divorce because the husband and wife had already had a contradiction, and this contradiction was also caused by the different academic positions of the Liang family and the Zhou family.
Liang Congzhi so people speculate, it is because of the reasons of his father's generation, Zhou Rumei chose to divorce, everything has long been traceable, Liang Congzhi went to Jiangxi is just a fuse. What is true love, perhaps only time can make people recognize. In any case, Zhou Ruming's decision will undoubtedly cause a fatal blow to Liang Congjie, and it is difficult to imagine how Liang Congzhi survived that period of time. Seeing each other is like not seeing, how merciless, sad and sad, and how many days and nights can be forgotten. Liang Congzhi often missed Zhou Rumei and their child Liang Jian when he was working, and he tried to write a letter to contact Zhou Rumei, but was afraid that he would not reply. Zhou Rumei returned to her mother's house after the divorce. Her father, Zhou Peiyuan, thought that his daughters were married, and was afraid that he would not have anyone to take care of him in his old age, so he hoped that Zhou Rumei would change Liang Jian's surname when he was childless.
After Zhou Peiyuan Zhou Rumei considered it, he did not want Liang Jian to have anything to do with the Liang family anymore, so he renamed Liang Jian Zhou Zhibing, so Liang Jian has been growing up in zhou, as if completely isolated from the Liang family. After all, love can not withstand reality, once frothy, now it has become the opposite. Regardless of whether Zhou Rumei has an unspeakable secret or has already changed his mind, everything is difficult to harvest, and it is difficult to break the mirror. Although Zhou Rumei and Liang Congjie have divorced, the Liang family and the Zhou family still have contacts, perhaps the bones of the literati, not because of the length of the dispute, or perhaps only to maintain a superficial harmony. In fact, during the existence of the relationship between the two people, Lin Huiyin spoke highly of this daughter-in-law, and repeatedly said that Zhou Rumei was a gentle and talented person who dared to pursue freedom. Probably at that time, Lin Huiyin never thought that his daughter-in-law, who he valued so much, would abandon his son.
In any case, Liang Congzhi did not complain about hatred because of Zhou Ruming's choice after divorce, but understood her and talked about Zhou Rumei was always full of admiration. The days of each encountering a wise man will always go on, and time will not stop flowing because of one thing or one person. After the divorce, in order to make ends meet, Zhou Rumei started his old business: translation. When Zhou Rumei was struggling to manage his life, he met Xie Rong by chance. Xie Rong is the pioneer and founder of modern anesthesiology in China, and he has also experienced a turbulent and displaced life, and can personally appreciate the situation of Zhou Ruming.
Xie Rong and xie rong talked happily from lifestyle to their different career fields, and the funny and humorous Xie Rong could always make Zhou Rumei laugh. Xie Rong was influenced by new ideas, relatively enlightened, and did not mind Xie Rong's divorce and a child at that time, and soon Xie Rong expressed his heart to Zhou Ruming. Zhou Rumei has also become timid in the face of feelings after experiencing a marriage, and she does not know whether she should start a new relationship, a new life, and whether this relationship will end as innocently as before. For countless days and nights, Zhou Rumei also asked his soul whether it was too desperate to leave Liang Congzhi when he was deeply mired in the quagmire, and he did not know what Liang Congzhi's current situation was.
Full of guilt, she could not open her heart to accept new feelings for a while. Thoughts of remorse, wandering, and sorrow always creep up on her bed in the dead of night, unable to sleep at night, but all this will eventually have a result. Love, in itself, is a gamble. In the end, Xie Rong impressed Zhou Ruming with his humor and perseverance, and Zhou Rumei finally accepted Xie Rong, and also accepted his former self, bravely entering a new life. The two soon entered the palace of marriage. Soon after the marriage, Sheran was born, and Xie Lan was well-behaved and sensible, and the family was more happy. At this time, Liang Congzhi still missed Zhou Rumei all the time. After Liang Returned to his homeland, his income was difficult to maintain, and he had to work hard but also insist on research.
After Zhou Rumei was married for many years, Liang Congjie finally found his partner, that is, Fang Jing, whom he had met in high school. Fang Jing is a classmate of Liang Congjie's cousin in high school, and the three of them went to school together in high school, practiced the piano together, and shared memories of youth. Liang Congjie did not expect that after more than twenty years of missing contact with Fang Jing, the two came together again. Perhaps going around is the beginning of romance, he and Fang Jing walked through the rest of their lives hand in hand, and the two grew old with white heads. After a marriage, Zhou Rumei finally achieved happiness in the second choice, Xie Rong not only had a successful career, but also was loyal to love and kind to love. Life is full of the sweetness and romance of love.
But the good times did not last long, and Zhou Ruming suddenly fell ill in his forties. Her husband Xie Rong took good care of her, hoping that she would get better, but her condition deteriorated rapidly, and Zhou Rumei died at the age of 49. At that time, Sheran was only 12 years old and lost his mother at a young age. Zhou Ruming's life was so short and full of regrets, but let her not regret that the second marriage was full of happiness, Xie Rong was loyal to him, and he cared for him slightly. Although life is short, I have already lived out myself, and I have also chosen to harvest love that can be mixed with each other for the second time.
After Zhou Rumei's death, her sister also died one after another, Zhou Peiyuan and his wife were deeply saddened by this, Wang Tilan also fell ill, and the sadness of the white-haired people sending the black-haired people was known only to them, and the two often relied on each other in their later years to miss their children. Perhaps for Zhou Rumei, who has passed away, the past is no longer important, and she should be most relieved about her daughter who is not yet an adult and her parents who are already old. The future generation is fearful of the dead, and the living are like this. Zhou Rumei's descendants have been influenced by their fathers and have also made many outstanding achievements, which may be the only thing that Zhou Rumei can feel comforted. Liang Jian, the son of Zhou Rumei and Liang Congjie, is an expert and collector of bronze artifacts in China, although he changed his name, but he could not give up his blood relationship and did not let him forget his biological father, and his daughter Liang Zhouyang comforted his elderly father for him.
In his later years, Liang Zhouyang also followed his father's surname Zhou at first, but later learned of his own lineage, and often heard his grandfather Liang Congzhi say that she should be Liang's, so he decided to change his name. She wrote the surnames of the two families together, fulfilling the wishes of the two families and maintaining the relationship between the two families. In addition, although Liang Zhouyang grew up in the United States, this did not affect her patriotism. After accepting Western culture, she used her leisure time to learn Chinese culture and became an exchange ambassador between Chinese and Western cultures. He also adhered to his father's research field, devoting himself to green development and environmental protection, cultural heritage restoration and protection.
Liang Zhouyang Liang Zhouyang is a rare talent, he set up his own Jiang company, attended various big occasions, and became a celebrity by himself at the age of thirty. Although she did not continue to engage in architecture like her ancestors, she also used her own efforts to raise the height of her life. Zhou Rumei and her second husband's daughter, Xie Lan, transferred from the Department of Foreign Chinese And Literature of Beijing Normal University in 1990 to study American history, became a bond analyst after graduation, and became the first Chinese mayor of Montgomery in 2007, settling in the United States. People's lives are busy and busy, and looking back on what happened in the past has become a story.
Lin Huiyin's family and friends look back at the crossroads of a certain life, different choices may bring different lives, we may regret a certain choice, but time can not be repeated. What is love? Can spend the dark years together, can enjoy the highlights of life together, can eat squeezed vegetables together without complaining, can also eat a big meal together without forgetting the shape, can be happy with your happiness, sad your sadness, white heads are not separated, and foaming with each other is the real love.