Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng's love makes us envious, in order to protect ancient buildings after marriage, the two people often go to the distant barren mountains together for field investigations, hand in hand through 15 provinces, more than 190 counties, mapping 2738 ancient buildings.
Liang Sicheng asked Lin Huiyin on the wedding night, "Why did you choose me", Lin Huiyin said that she would use her life to answer, Lin Huiyin used her life to answer why she chose Liang Sicheng, even when Liang Sicheng lost power and did not leave him at the most difficult time. Lin Huiyin can accompany her husband to move forward in the same boat, but it does not mean that her daughter-in-law Zhou Rumei can also do this, Zhou Rumei not only left Liang Sicheng at the most difficult time of the Liang family, but also changed her son's surname.
Zhou Ruming was an early English translator in China, who translated for national leaders on many important occasions, she was born in a famous family no less than Liang Congjie, her father Zhou Peiyuan was the founder of modern Chinese mechanics, a famous fluid mechanicsian, who returned from studying in the United States in 1929 to Peking University as president. Zhou Peiyuan and Liang Sicheng are classmates of Tsinghua University, and Zhou Rumei grew up with Liang Congjie, the youngest son of Liang Lin and his wife, because of his father.
Zhou Rumei and Liang Congzhi have known each other since childhood, and have had a long-term relationship with each other in the days when they grew up, and in 1954, Liang Congzhi immediately married Zhou Rumei as soon as he graduated from the university, and had a son Liang Jian a year after marriage. Zhou Rumei and Liang Congzhi spent 12 years together, the relationship has always been very good, Liang Congzhi recalled this relationship in his later years and said that this was the happiest time in his life, but it was almost 1966, the relationship between the husband and wife was affected by the situation and broke.
The change in the feelings of Zhou Ruming and Liang Congzhi began with the two parents, Liang Sicheng and Zhou Peiyuan tore their faces first because of different ideological concepts, Zhou Peiyuan also personally opened a conference to criticize Liang Sicheng, the Zhou family was anxious to clear up the relationship with the Liang family, Zhou Rumei did not accompany Liang Congzhi to tide over the difficulties, but divorced Liang Congzhi, returned to his mother's house with the child, and changed Liang Jian's name to Zhou Xuebing, as if to declare that the child was no longer the Liang family but the Zhou family.
In 1969, Liang was sent to the farm, and the year before, Zhou Rumei married someone else, married Xie Rong, an anesthesiologist, and gave birth to Xie Rong's daughter Xie Lan in this year. Liang Congzhi also remarried after a long time, the remarriage object was his lover Fang Jing who was studying in the Yanjing Affiliated Middle School, Fang Jing Middle School transferred halfway, he broke off contact with Liang Congjie, the two met again and were already adults, met by chance at a party, and were reunited under the mediation of Liang Congjing's cousin.
Liang Congjie's career did not inherit his father's business, nor did he inherit his parent business, went to a new field, engaged in China's environmental protection cause, founded China's earliest batch of non-governmental environmental protection organizations "Friends of Nature", all his life with his own actions to do environmental protection, never use disposable supplies, put things that others do not use in the office for their own use, every day with bicycles, he lived until October 28, 2010 died, at the age of 78.
His ex-wife, Zhou Rumei, died of illness as early as 1980 at the age of 49, and her daughter Xie Lan was only 12 years old. In 1990, Sheran went to the United States to study, and has remained in the United States, where he started a family and became the first Chinese mayor of Montgomery.
This may be a person's life, there must be a loss, Zhou Rumei was not implicated because of Liang Congjie, but her life expectancy was not very long. There is a saying in China: "Husband and wife are in the same heart and their interests are broken", as long as the heart is in one place to make any difficulties can be overcome, but there are very few people who really do it, if you meet such a person, you must cherish it.