The greatest luck in a woman's life should be that she has the ability, the children are outstanding, and she has a good husband.
Although such a complete life is difficult to meet, there will always be a few women who are favored by heaven, such as Wang Tiyi.
Lived to the age of 99, had a successful career, four daughters are excellent, only loved one person in their lives, and happened to be loved by this person for a lifetime.
First, be caught by three men at the same time
Wang was born in 1910 in a small village in Jilin Province, where her father died when she was very young, leaving her mother alone to raise her.
The Queen Mother is also a relatively stoic and enlightened woman, although life is very hard, she still insists on sending Wang Tiyi to school, so that she can understand right and wrong and understand reason in the future.
Wang Tilian has been very intelligent since she was a child, and she can read and write faster than other students, so her academic performance has always been very good.
At the age of 17, she was sent to Beijing Women's Normal University by the Jilin Provincial Government Fei Bao, which was the highest level of school in China for women at that time.
When she entered the new campus in the big city, Wang Tilan's knowledge was suddenly opened, and her thinking was raised to a new realm, and Wang Tilian was completely transformed in Beiping and became a new woman in the new era.
In addition to studying, she also occasionally goes out with her classmates to swim in the lake, participate in networking, and learn progressive ideas.
In a flower viewing, Wang Tilian was photographed by a male classmate, and this photo was later posted to the newspaper, causing quite a stir, and she became famous as the first flower of the Women's Normal University.
It is also because of this photo that she has been married for a lifetime.
At that time, Wang Tilian had just turned 20, young and beautiful and talented, and naturally attracted the attention of countless men. Among them, there were three most outstanding suitors, one Ye Qisun, the other Chen Daisun, and the other was her later husband Zhou Peiyuan.
Although Ye Qisun was very talented and handsome, he was slightly smaller, and Wang Tilian wanted to find a husband who could give her a sense of security, so she politely rejected him.
Chen Daisun, on the other hand, was Zhou Peiyuan's classmate and friend, and he also had secret feelings for Wang Tiyuan at that time, but considering that Zhou Peiyuan was also pursuing Wang Tiyuan, he let go of this feeling and became friends with the couple for a lifetime.
Only Zhou Peiyuan, 27 years old is the teacher in the school, young and handsome, tall and mighty, talented, but also very romantic, at once captured Wang Tilan's heart.
The acquaintance of the two is as mentioned above, all by a photo.
At that time, Zhou Peiyuan had just returned from studying abroad, and his career was in a period of rapid rise. But it is also a little embarrassing that I have reached marriageable age and cannot find a suitable partner.
When he went to his friend's house as a guest, his friend's wife, Liu Xiaojin, joked that he was now ready for everything and only owed a good person. He also asked if he needed to introduce his girlfriend, saying that the female classmates at her school were all talented and beautiful.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Peiyuan really nodded his head and agreed. So Liu Xiaojin took out a dozen photos of his classmates and handed them to Zhou Peiyuan, asking him to pick out the photos first, and see who told her.
And Zhou Peiyuan took a look at Wang Tiyun in this pile of photos.
Liu Xiaojin directly teased Zhou Peiyuan, saying that he had a good eye and actually picked the school flower of their school. Within two days, Liu Xiaojin really arranged a party, and Zhou Peiyuan and Wang Tilian were among them.
However, at that time, Zhou Peiyuan knew that this was the object of the meeting, and Wang Tilan thought that this was just a simple gathering.
She was arranged to sit with Zhou Peiyuan, who was not very familiar with him, so she had some restraints. Zhou Peiyuan saw that Wang Tilian was so shy, so he took the initiative to talk to her, and even took the initiative to help her pick vegetables.
It was precisely because of these actions of Zhou Peiyuan that Wang Tilan was impressed, and he accepted Zhou Peiyuan under the facilitation of his classmates and fell in love with him.
Later, she recalled that the dishes that Zhou Peiyuan clipped to her that day were all the leeks she didn't like to eat the most, and the leeks in the bowl were piled high, but Zhou Peiyuan didn't find it at all.
Although this seemed to Zhou Peiyuan was very stupid, she was so moved. So sometimes love just comes so inexplicably.
Second, without hesitation, choose a husband, from spoiling for a lifetime
During the love period between the two, most of the time it was Zhou Peiyuan who took the initiative to ask Wang Tilan, and every time he came to the dormitory, he would bring a small gift to Wang Tilian. Moreover, he will ignore the teasing of his classmates and bring more gifts to Wang Tili's classmates, so that they will not make fun of Wang Tilian.
Wang Tilian felt more and more that Zhou Peiyuan was a man worthy of trust, so the two officially held a wedding in 1932 after two years in love, becoming a couple.
After the marriage, the two were very affectionate, Wang Tilan became a teacher at beijing normal high school after graduation, and Zhou Peiyuan attended classes at the university.
The two go out to work together every morning, find each other to go home together after school, go out for a walk after dinner, talk about school, and the little day can be called honey oil.
Although Zhou Peiyuan is very rigorous in academics, in private he is a very romantic person, in addition to often bringing small gifts to his wife, he will also take his wife out to walk out to enjoy the flowers, and when he goes to a crowded place, he will tightly wrap his wife in his arms, hold her hand, afraid that she will be squeezed.
This kind of care did not stop until his death.
The two married for three years and gave birth to two daughters, it was when the family of four was happy and harmonious, but Wang Tiyi accidentally contracted tuberculosis and was forced to separate from his family and isolate at a hospital 50 miles away from home.
At that time, having this disease was almost equivalent to being sentenced to death, and few people could survive it.
But Wang Tilian looked at her beloved husband and well-behaved daughter, how unwilling to give up, no matter how painful it was, she cooperated with the hospital treatment.
She wants to survive, to continue to accompany her husband, to spend countless spring, summer, autumn and winter with him.
On the other hand, Zhou Peiyuan took care of his two young daughters while attending classes, and often rode his bicycle alone for 50 miles to see Wang Tiliang.
He was afraid that Wang Tilian would think that he had given up on her and lost hope for life, so no matter how tired he was every day, he would always come to see his wife on time.
Once Zhou Peiyuan came late and could not enter the hospital. Zhou Peiyuan sneaked out of the window of Wang Tiliang's hospital room and told his wife in sign language outside the window that she must take her medicine well, and they were all waiting for her to come home.
During the treatment, the pain and suffering on her body never made Wang Tiyi cry, but looking at her lying outside the window, with dust on her hands, describing her as haggard, but her eyes were full of loving husbands, she couldn't hold back her tears at all.
Perhaps it was the heavens that took care of the couple, and after a year of treatment, Wang Tilian was miraculously cured, and she could return to the family and accompany her husband and children.
In 1936, Zhou Peiyuan wanted to go abroad to participate in academic discussions, but Wang Tilian did not accompany him, but took his eldest daughter Ru Mei and his second daughter Ru Yiyan to stay in his hometown to recuperate.
It's not that she doesn't want to go out with her husband, it's that she has to stay home, and she wants to let others know that as long as she's still in the country, he will definitely come back.
It is also true that although Zhou Peiyuan was coerced and lured by many American parties after going abroad, Zhou Peiyuan did not accept their retention and resolutely returned to China.
Because he knew that there were still wives and daughters waiting for him to come back at home.
Later, after the family of four moved to Kunming, Wang Tilan gave birth to a third daughter, Ruling, for Zhou Peiyuan. Wang Tiyuan's health has not been good since the serious illness and can only rest in bed, And Zhou Peiyuan has shouldered the heavy responsibility of taking care of her and her daughter.
While holding my little daughter, I was thinking about tomorrow's lesson content in my mind. Sometimes in the middle of the night, he still had to continue to do the courseware.
Wang Tilian saw the pain in her eyes, and although she could not do anything else, she silently stayed up late with her husband. Hand him a glass of warm water when he stops to rest, then look at him again and give him a warm embrace.
In those years in Kunming, life was very hard, and Wang Tilan's health was not particularly good, but Wang Tilian never said a word of bitterness, taking care of her three children while taking care of her husband.
As long as she is with her husband, even if she eats chaff vegetables, she feels happy.
Their good friend Chen Daisun has also been helping their family, sometimes helping to take care of the children, sometimes helping their family with a little money and food. The children directly called Chen Daisun Daddy Chen and liked him very much.
Later, Zhou Peiyuan went abroad again, and Wang Tilian still chose to stay at home to take care of the children and wait for her husband to return.
When the two are separated, they remember each other in their hearts and never drag each other down, and when they are together, they are as sweet as their first love, and they snuggle up to each other. The two of them almost never had a red face quarrel, until the elderly Wang Tilian was often held by her husband to enjoy the flowers.
For this reason, he was also teased by his younger daughter, saying that the two were so old and so tired.
Zhou Peiyuan smiled and said that their mother and daughter were the 5 golden flowers of their Zhou family, and his favorite was the biggest flower.
Third, accompany each other in old age and support each other for each other
But within a few years, Wang Tilian was paralyzed in bed, and Zhou Peiyuan, who loved to enjoy flowers the most, never went out to admire the flowers again, but stayed at home every day to take care of Wang Tilian.
Even because he was worried that Wang Tilian would lie in bed all day and think about it, the first thing he did every morning when he got up was to confess to her and say loudly that he loved her.
Because Wang Tilian's hearing was a little bad, Zhou Peiyuan needed to roar loudly every time he confessed, and the family laughed up and down.
Wang Ti, who was already in his 60s, blushed and blamed her husband, asking him to whisper a little, saying that he was so annoyed. But everyone could see that her eyes were clearly full of smiles.
Later, during that turbulent time, Wang Tilian survived because she was paralyzed in bed, and she asked her daughters to take her husband out and hide, determined not to let her husband come back.
Again, she was alone in the house, facing the insults and intimidation of those people every day.
Still like her husband left home twice before, Wang Ticheng knew that as long as he was here, he was the best support for his husband.
Finally survived those difficult years, the two lived a peaceful life. Her husband pushed her for walks every day, chatted with her, and treated her like a day for decades.
On November 24, 1993, her husband, Zhou Peiyuan, suddenly couldn't sleep and left Wang Tilian early.
Wang Tilian did not cry, but kept muttering in her mouth that her husband did not talk about credit, saying that he wanted to accompany her to the end, but now he abandoned her first and left alone.
Finally, with the help of her daughter, she wrote a confession letter to her husband, saying that he was the love of her life and would live forever in her heart. And put this confession letter into the pocket of her husband's clothes and buried with her husband.
In the next 16 years, although Wang Tilan did not have the company and care of her husband, she could meet her husband in her dreams night and night, and the bits and pieces with her husband were enough to support her daily memories.
On June 22, 2009, Wang Tilian, who was already 99 years old, suddenly told her daughter that she dreamed that her husband was going to accompany her father, and then she closed her eyes and passed away.
This long-lived old man, this happy woman, finally finished her life. Although it is a little regrettable, it is still exemplary.
References: "All Walks of Life", "Modern Reading"