Marriage, the most important choice in life, often determines our happiness in the second half of our lives. It's like a long-distance run that requires two people to walk hand in hand and face the ups and downs of life together. However, in this long-distance race, we often ignore the essence of marriage and how to choose the right person.
We spend a lot of time and energy to improve our professional skills, to learn English, programming, etc., but we ignore how to approach, understand, and understand marriage. We think we know everything about marriage, but we don't know that it is this arrogant thinking pattern and the inertia of not wanting to learn how to choose marriage that makes us drift away from the road of happiness in life and cannot feel the true meaning of happiness in life!
We have studied Chinese, mathematics, English and other subjects since we were young, but we have not learned a compulsory course in life - how to choose marriage, and this is what we should diligently pursue and study with our hearts. After all, the quality of your marriage determines the success or failure of your life, and a good marriage can make you grow in your marriage, and vice versa.
So, how should we choose our partner? This is a question worth pondering. When we choose a person, we choose the direction of our future life. We must restrain the instinctive impulse of love, communicate more with each other, communicate more, and understand each other's original family, observe and pay more attention to the thinking style and behavior pattern of each other's parents, so that you will most likely have a clearer judgment, so as to make rational and comprehensive decisions, and choose your own marriage path.
The marriage between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang provides us with a good example. Together, they have walked through the ups and downs of their 63-year marriage. Their fidelity to their marriage is still talked about, and many people are puzzled, what is the secret that keeps them in love and love forever? Their marriage is the best interpretation of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "falling in love with each other and forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "growing old together and spending a lifetime together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "a lifetime and a couple". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "you have me, I have you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "never leaving each other, life and death depend on each other". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "the years are quiet and good, and you walk with you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "love each other for a lifetime, be happy for a lifetime". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "walking hand in hand and weathering the storm together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "sharing joys and sorrows and getting through difficulties together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "love each other and never give up". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "growing old together and spending a lifetime together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "falling in love with each other and forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "a lifetime and a couple". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "you have me, I have you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "never leaving each other, life and death depend on each other". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "the years are quiet and good, and you walk with you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "love each other for a lifetime, be happy for a lifetime". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "walking hand in hand and weathering the storm together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "sharing joys and sorrows and getting through difficulties together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "love each other and never give up". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "growing old together and spending a lifetime together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "falling in love with each other and forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "a lifetime and a couple". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "you have me, I have you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "never leaving each other, life and death depend on each other". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "the years are quiet and good, and you walk with you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "love each other for a lifetime, be happy for a lifetime". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "walking hand in hand and weathering the storm together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "sharing joys and sorrows and getting through difficulties together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "love each other and never give up". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "growing old together and spending a lifetime together". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "falling in love with each other and forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "a lifetime and a couple". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "you have me, I have you". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "never leaving each other, life and death depend on each other". Their marriage is the best interpretation of "the years are quiet and good, and you walk with you". Their marriage is a pair of"