Dear readers, love and marriage, these two words, play an important role in our lives. However, many times, we don't really understand the meaning of these two words, let alone how to run them. Today, I'm going to share with you a secret about marriage that may give you a whole new perspective on marriage.
We often say that love is directly proportional to giving, and if you want to get love, you must first learn to give. However, in marriage, it's not that the more you give, the more you get. On the contrary, sometimes, not only does your effort not go in return, but it can backfire. This is because, in love and marriage, there is a key factor, and that is balance.
In marriage, the more a woman hands over these 3 things "all", the less a man will love you! First, all the energy. In marriage, women need to have their own space and time to pursue their dreams and interests. If you put all your thoughts on your family, then, you may feel tired and dissatisfied. A man also needs to see your independence and self-confidence so that he will cherish you more.
Second, the dignity of all. Everyone has their own dignity and bottom line, and you don't need to give up your dignity in order to please a man. If your dignity is trampled on, then your marriage will be out of balance. A man should respect your opinions and choices and not bend you to his will.
Third, all good tempers. Although a good temper is a virtue, in marriage, if you don't care about all the mistakes of a man, then, he may think that you are too talkative and even ignore your feelings. A man needs to know that your good temper has a bottom line, so that he will cherish you more.
So, dear readers, have you ever given too much for love and marriage, but you didn't get the reward you deserved? How do you balance your efforts with your needs? Leave your story in the comment section, and let's explore the true meaning of marriage and find that balance.
In this challenging and changing era, each of us is trying to find our own place and find our own happiness. However, happiness does not happen overnight, it requires us to feel and experience it with our hearts. Every detail of life is worth cherishing and reminiscing.
So, dear readers, have you ever felt the pressure of life, or have you ever been stuck in memories of the past? How did you find that happiness? Leave your story in the comment area, and let's explore the true meaning of life and find your own happiness.
Life is a journey, and every journey has its meaning. Sometimes, we feel that life is tiring, as if the burden on our shoulders is too heavy to bear. At this time, you might as well calm yourself, talk less, and give yourself a little space. When you can't bear it, go for a glass of wine and let the alcohol temporarily anesthetize your nerves and let you get a moment of relaxation. Calm down and think about what you really want and find that reason to keep going.
It's always easy to dwell on the past, clinging to memories that are no longer irretrievable. However, if we hold on to the past, how can we embrace the present and meet the challenges of the future? People are more fragile and strong than we can imagine, and sometimes, we may burst into tears because of a word, and sometimes, we find ourselves gritting our teeth and walking a long way. This is the charm of life, it allows us to grow in pain and become stronger in the face of setbacks.
Language, this magical thing, sometimes warms us from head to toe, and sometimes it can make us cold from our feet to our hearts. It can make us so happy that we don't want to sleep, and it can make us so sad that we can't sleep all night. Life's surprises and losses, encounters and nostalgia, are all an integral part of our journey in life. No matter what the outcome is, we must learn to live well, accept life's imperfections, and cherish every moment.
We have to get used to anyone's hot and cold, and we have to get used to anyone's drifting away. Time has taught us to bear it alone, and we have slowly become laughing without saying a word, and pain without saying a word. The pain and stress in life, like poison, has no antidote, but we can find painkillers through food, loved ones, scenery and old people to rejuvenate ourselves.
May the time be shallow, and the old people will not be separated. In this fast-paced era, we often lose sight of our own inner needs. So, let's slow down, feel the beauty of life, and cherish the people and things around us. Today's topic# If you could go back in time, would you choose to be 8 or 18 years old? #, let's explore together that if we could go back in time, which age would we choose to relive that time. Leave your answers in the comment section and let's share that fond memory together.
In this challenging and changing era, each of us is trying to find our own place and find our own happiness. However, happiness does not happen overnight, it requires us to feel and experience it with our hearts. Every detail of life is worth cherishing and reminiscing.
So, dear readers, have you ever felt the pressure of life, or have you ever been stuck in memories of the past? How did you find that happiness? Leave your story in the comment area, and let's explore the true meaning of life and find your own happiness.