A man's real failure is not that he has no money, but that he has treated his wife badly

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As the saying goes: "Husbands are honored and wives are precious, and wives are virtuous and husbands are safe." ”

More than half of a man's success is the credit of his wife. It is only the wife who is in the Lord and does not show her face, so the credit is often overlooked.

Many men, thinking that with their money, they can be uncles, even if their wives are lost, they can also find a younger woman, which is a good thing.

There is a way that success is also Xiao He, and defeat is also Xiao He.

Men who have been managed by their wives continue to prosper in their careers and do not worry about having no money to spend; halfway, men who have treated their wives badly and even driven away their wives will have their careers come to an abrupt end, and the second half of their lives will be worrying.

Therefore, a man's real failure is not that he has no money, but that he has treated his wife badly.

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First, men slammed the door on their wives, and the family's money was not guaranteed.

When a man knocks on his wife, he is generous to people outside the family. He kept the money and kept it to himself, mostly for ulterior motives, but he didn't say it explicitly.

In the sixth volume of "The Surprise of the Second Moment Shooting", there is a man named Wang Balang, born in the Song Dynasty, who lives in Tangzhou. Usually, he did business in the Jianghuai area and made a lot of money.

Idle, he went to the Qinglou to drink, and also spent money to redeem a Qinglou woman as a concubine.

Ever since he had a concubine, Hachiro hated his wife more and more, and did not take money to spend on his wife.

The wife was fierce, sold all the family wealth, and asked the county grandfather to be the master and handle the divorce. Afterwards, take the children to rebuild their homes in the next village. Thus, the days of Hachiro were miserable.

There is a folk proverb: "The mother-in-law manages the man, and the gold and silver are full of jars." ”

Men are rich, don't forget the wife of the chaff. Otherwise, his money would not have been managed seriously.

To see the fact that men have savings, behind which is the wife cutting back on food and clothing, keeping savings, not because men have great ability and earn endless money.

Everyone needs self-discipline, but in addition to self-discipline, there is also a need for "other disciplines". The wife's tight control is that the "other law" has the power to constrain the gap in the family's spending.

In terms of money, men who are very critical of women will lose money. If he finds another woman who worships gold, the deposit will "plummet".

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Second, men are cruel to their wives, and the family is intolerable.

On the "Gaoping Public Security" platform, there is such a message: Zheng Mou, who lives in Xiaolong Street in Gaoping District, is very unfriendly to his wife, Ms. Zhao, after drinking. In desperation, Ms. Zhao asked the local police station for help.

In front of the police, Zheng was also very angry, trying to get rid of the control of the police and bullying Ms. Zhao.

In the end, Zheng was duly punished.

With regard to internal conflicts in the family, we can often encounter and understand them. As the saying goes, every family has a difficult scripture to read. But a very ruthless man cannot be tolerated, after all, everyone has their own bottom line and dignity.

Once bullied, women will tolerate, but again and again, women will leave or long-term entanglement. A family, because the husband and wife turn against each other, lead to long-term unrest.

In a noisy family, men do not have the heart to make money, and they will naturally become poor. Over time, everyone will chill.

There is a way that an outside needs an inside.

A harmonious family is the best support for men and the source of motivation for struggle.

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Third, men are not filial to their in-laws, and their parents are helpless.

Around us, there are often such men: as long as their wives honor their parents and ignore their in-laws, they do not have the attitude of "son-in-law is also half a child".

Some women who marry far away may not return to their mother's house for several years, and the second half of their lives have nothing to do with their parents. For rich women, at least their parents can afford to eat and wear; women without money can only treat their parents for a lifetime.

If you think about it from another position, you will find out that men will do this to their parents-in-law and women to their in-laws. No one is a fuel-efficient lamp.

A good relationship is "you respect me a foot, I respect you a foot." No one can enjoy the care of the other party for granted.

There is a way that filial piety comes first. A man who is not filial piety, no matter how rich he is, that is, he lives a dashing life, but his parents do not get any benefits, in front of outsiders, the man is a selfish person, not to talk about success.

Therefore, a man treats his in-laws badly, that is, he treats his wife and his own parents badly, for a cause and a consequence.

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Fourth, men abandon their wives and children, and their descendants go into decay.

There are always some men, after their wallets are bulging, and as soon as they open their mouths, they say, "Let's get a divorce, nothing remarkable." ”

Behind the divorce, how men think, it is not known.

There are also some men who do not talk about divorce, but have not returned home for a long time, and do not know his whereabouts. Over time, a family is torn apart.

There is a saying: "From a child, you can see the mother's upbringing." ”

The mother is sloppy, the child is also sloppy; the mother is clean, the child is clean. Between mother and child, there are many similarities. If the mother is cold to the family, she will not be able to manage the child.

Children who lack parental discipline and want to become a big instrument are estimated to be difficult.

Those children who grew up with grandparents and grandparents, and whose parents did not pay attention to them, also had a contentious, but children who did not compete accounted for the majority.

Good woman Wang three generations. This is a phrase that men need to keep in mind.

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The ancients said, "A virtuous woman makes her husband noble, and a wicked woman makes her husband lose." ”

No matter how good a man is, he also needs the support of a good woman. Women in the family, can not sit and wait for men to care, need to learn to take the initiative to love.

In this life, money is a necessity, but money is not omnipotent, at least it cannot buy true love. As a man, either don't love or love for a lifetime; as a woman, either don't respond or respond for a lifetime.

The poet Fan Chengda said: "May I be like the stars and the moon, and the night and night streams of light and purity." ”

A good couple, no matter how bitter and poor, can also live a poetic life, poor and happy, but also happy.

Don't want your husband's money, just your husband's affection.

Author: Cloth coarse food.

Follow my words and go into your heart.

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