After the pregnant mothers gave birth to the child, they thought it was over, but in fact, after childbirth, it was the test for the mothers. On the first night after childbirth, novice mothers will encounter many tricky things, and because they have just given birth, they are really more than enough and insufficient, at this time they can only let others deal with it, and who will take care of the mother's night is also a very critical issue.
Some people may say that it is more appropriate to let the mother-in-law or the mother-in-law take care of it, because after all, they are all people who come over and know how to deal with it better. But in fact, even if they are the same women, most of them and their mothers-in-law, or even their mothers, will still be very embarrassed in the face of some more private issues, so the most suitable candidate should be the husband who is closest to the new mothers.
My friend mentioned this problem earlier, when my mother-in-law offered to take care of her and sleep with her at night. At that time, after returning home from the hospital, my friend was bedridden, because it was a caesarean section, so my friend could not move a few days ago, and I was afraid of pulling the surgical incision, so lochia and other issues could not be dealt with by myself. When the friend's mother-in-law wanted to help her deal with the lochia, the friend felt extremely embarrassed, and later let her husband deal with it. It can be seen that there are many things that are more appropriate for the husband to come.
On the first night after giving birth, the husband needs to do these things for the new mother, and it is easy to be embarrassed by someone else
The first is to deal with lochia, whether it is a vaginal birth, or a caesarean section, new mothers will have lochia problems after childbirth, even if they have experienced the process of stomach pressure, lochia will still be very serious, may have to deal with it once in a few hours, and the treatment of this problem is more private, but also need to clean up the hygiene of the reproductive parts, bao moms feel that it will be very embarrassing to let the mother-in-law deal with it, so it is still recommended that bao dads do this for new mothers.
What fathers need to pay attention to is that before taking care of the mother, it is best to systematically learn the nursing knowledge and understand what problems need to be paid attention to in this process, so as not to make mistakes and bring secondary harm to the mother. Take the treatment of lochia, after the treatment, we must also do a good job of hygiene work, rather than simply wiping and replacing it. It should be known that if you do not pay attention to hygiene and cleaning problems after childbirth, it is likely to lead to the growth of a large number of bacteria, resulting in serious infection problems, which is extremely unfavorable for the recovery of new mothers, and may even leave many permanent disease problems.
Secondly, the husband also needs to wipe the body of the new mothers at night, because during childbirth, the mother will sweat a lot, if the postpartum is not cleaned up in time, it will not only affect the mother herself, but also affect the baby's breastfeeding. Moreover, the cleansing of the skin will also promote the metabolism of the skin after childbirth for new mothers and accelerate the speed of recovery.
Therefore, the fathers need to carefully wipe the body of the new mother, and it is inevitable that they will feel a little embarrassed if it is someone else. It should be noted that when wiping the body, you must use warm water, otherwise it may cause new mothers to be invaded by cold. At the same time, if the new mothers have surgical incisions on their bodies, they should not touch the water, prevent infection, and do a good job of drying.
In addition, some of the clothes that the new mothers have changed are not suitable for washing in the washing machine, and some new mothers are not embarrassed to wash these clothes to the mother-in-law, and they always feel very embarrassed, so at this time, the fathers can help clean and avoid embarrassing problems.
In fact, it is the most suitable for Bao Dad to take care of new mothers, on the one hand, to avoid a variety of embarrassing problems, on the other hand, Bao Dad's strength is greater, whether it is for new mothers to turn over, or to help help up to go to the toilet and other trivial things, and may need to wake up frequently at night to take care of the baby and new mother, which requires more physical strength, so In these aspects Bao Dad has more advantages.
Dads take good care of their new mother and baby after childbirth, and can also enhance the relationship between husband and wife, and can also cultivate a sense of intimacy with their baby. New mothers are inherently more likely to collapse in postpartum emotions, on the one hand, because of the large changes in hormones in the postpartum body, resulting in new mothers having difficulty controlling their emotions, and some subtle things may make them feel broken. On the other hand, after childbirth, most people's attention is transferred to the baby, and the attention to the new mother is less, which will make them have a large sense of gap, so it is easy to become emotionally bad, at this time, if the fathers can actively help and take care of the new mother and baby, the new mother's heart will be soothed, and the emotions can be better controlled.
It is recommended that fathers systematically learn postpartum care and nursing knowledge about newborns, only in this way can they make fewer mistakes in the process of nursing, otherwise they may have a lot of impact, which is also the responsibility that fathers should bear.