Times are different now, and this can be seen very intuitively when you are in love. For example, before the love between men and women is the need for both sides to introduce, after the meeting between men and women will not take long for the two to meet the parents, and then get married, a series of matters progress very smoothly, but now between men and women seem to be just enjoying the time of love, when it comes to both sides to meet the parents, many people will retreat, and even some people agree on the surface, in fact, this is to appease each other, seize the opportunity and run away.
For example, an incident that happened in the parking lot of a hotel in Jiangsu, a girl wearing black clothes did not wear pants and was still crying and jumping in the cold wind and shouting at her boyfriend's name, but no one responded to him, the reason why the girl did not wear pants to stand in the parking lot is likely to be because she was too anxious to chase her boyfriend, according to people familiar with the matter, the girl's body still emits a smell of alcohol.
The insider also said that from the girl's words, he and his boyfriend originally planned to meet the parents, and said it was good, but at this time the boyfriend proposed to drink the last single wine with his girlfriend, when the girl did not think much about it, she agreed, but the boyfriend ran away alone after getting his girlfriend drunk.
After that, the two returned to the hotel because the girl was drunk, and fell asleep after returning to the hotel, until the girl woke up to find that the boyfriend was not by her side, and even all the contact information with the boyfriend was blocked as the boyfriend. Although the time between the two is very short, but it is also two people who have been painstakingly operating for more than half a year, the girl may not be willing, even the pants are not worn, directly put on the coat and run downstairs, the family shouted in the parking lot.
From the video, it can be seen that this girl may not have sobered up, even when she cried, she almost fell, the shoes on her feet did not know when to throw them away, standing on the uneven ground and crying and jumping, it may be that the pain on her feet can't catch up with the pain in her heart.
Before there was a very classic buzzword on the Internet, that is, love that is not for the purpose of marriage, are playing hooligans, and it is true that this is the case, but we have ignored the point that the times are different. In the past, young people's love and pulling hands were out of line, but now love that is not for the purpose of marriage abounds, and now girls are not like before, they are pulled by people and enter the palace of marriage with each other.
But the girl above is obviously very simple, his purpose is to find a suitable partner for himself through love, for him is a love for the purpose of marriage, but his object is not so, but when the girlfriend proposed to see her parents, he cruelly left the girl alone, obviously he just enjoyed the process of love, and did not want to enter the palace of marriage so quickly, or the boy may feel that he has not played enough.
It can only be said that the simple girl in the above article did not find a partner with the same interests as him, but this is also a good thing, after all, before getting married, it is only good to distinguish that the other party is a scumbag, there is no harm in itself, it is estimated that you can let yourself eat a long and wise, and you can also polish your eyes when looking for a partner in the future. But this girl stands in the cold wind for an unworthy man and cries and jumps, the reality is painful, although she has been disappointed, but don't punish yourself with the mistakes of others.
Personal opinion:
To tell the truth, marriage is like the second reincarnation, choose a good show that you earned, choose bad then you may regret a lifetime, but also can not get rid of the shadow brought to you by this marriage, so love and marriage are not allowed to be sloppy, before falling in love must confirm the character and morality of the other party, to see if it is worth you to spend time to maintain this love, do not say that the people in love are blind, the general love of blind people are people who believe in each other's rhetoric and lose themselves.
Author's message: The current society is more complex, women are vulnerable groups in this society, so we must not underestimate the evil of human nature, in the name of love and marriage, in fact, do some things that satisfy their selfish hearts, good people abound, that is to say, we must polish our eyes, before understanding each other's character, we must not give ourselves to each other without reservation.
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