As the saying goes, couples quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed.
In the married life of men and women, it is inevitable that two people will have conflicts, and small quarrels are still very pleasant, but you must know that no matter how good the feelings of husband and wife, do not touch these bottom lines, otherwise marriage is easy to divorce, especially remarried couples over fifty!
People know the taste of loneliness when they are old, young couples come to mate, old and remarry, is to find a person to accompany the conversation, so the single old man wants to find a wife, this is not strange, everyone is rational to face it.
But remarried couples, we must remember these three bottom lines!
01. Don't insult each other's family
Marriage is a matter of two people, and even if there is a quarrel between you, it is only a contradiction between your husband and wife; never involve each other's family.
Because in the process of arguing, if you insult each other's family, it will only make your partner feel that you are very disrespectful to his family, and the family is a person's bottom line, if this bottom line is touched, then it is difficult for your relationship to continue.
02. Don't covet each other's property
For the property of both sides, there must be principles, and no one should be greedy!
People's hearts have always been unpredictable, no matter how good the couple's feelings are, they must also prevent the other party from parting ways with you after getting the property, and finally end up in a situation where the personal wealth is empty.
When people are old, having money is king.
If the remarried partner doesn't have a house, you can let him live in your house, but never give him the house.
Because of the greed for property, your children and each other's children will quarrel, if necessary, you can sort out the property under your name before remarrying, so as not to "chicken fly dog jump" in your feelings.
03. Keep your distance from each other's children
The old man should understand that after remarriage, no matter how reasonable the children are, but after all, they are not the biological parents of the children, and the habits and family situations between them are different.
Originally it was two unrelated families, because the love between you came together, it was originally a matter of more relatives, holidays or important days, get together, there is no need to be together every day; this kind of unrelated relatives, can not withstand the quarrel, a few times down will turn their faces; finally the relationship between you is also awkward.
At the same time, do not complain about each other's children to your partner, although your partner may only complain about it, but you can comfort and forgive, that is, do not say bad things about them, after all, they are flesh and blood relatives, and when the anger subsides, you will feel that your heart is thinking of his child.
People are old, they have experienced the vicissitudes of the world, children have a family and a job, can not accompany, so eager to meet a person who can accompany themselves to talk, but the real problem can not be ignored, should maintain reason, the family affection, love, money distinguish clearly, although it is ugly to say in front, but will make the family life later more warm.
Finally, may you and I have companions by our side, and the warmth in your heart is infinite!