Women marry the man because of love, come to a strange environment to contact strange people, integrate into the family life of the man's family, and there will always be bumps in life after marriage and children!
The same in-laws have a special sense of reason and can be a person; there are also those who mess around all day and do things in the world.
What is the experience of spending time with an in-laws with high emotional intelligence?
1. I'm thankful. I can meet my in-laws in this life, they are really good, from marriage to now, whether it is in the economy or in family chores, they have always done everything for us, after having children, all the children's clothes are rushed to buy, or all bought well, we go out to eat even if we check out, every time the mother-in-law will force money into us, sometimes the mother-in-law will buy me clothes or something. In terms of taking care of children, I also listen to everything, never do it like others in the way of the older generation, really thank them very much, when they are old, I will definitely support and honor them. Although I never say it on my lips, I really thank them from the bottom of my heart and am very content to meet such a family!
2. When you meet a qualified mother-in-law, you must also marry the daughter-in-law of Zhi En Tu Bao! Now there are also many daughters-in-law who only ask their in-laws to blindly pay and pick three or four white-eyed wolves. In addition, the mother-in-law has money and is willing to spend it on you, it seems that no daughter-in-law will say that the mother-in-law is not good! Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, and economic strength also accounts for a certain factor! You see those mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are flying and jumping, and they are not pulling each other's calves for the sake of small things such as rice, oil, salt, chicken and garlic skin!
3, my father-in-law they generally use the downstairs bathroom, once the downstairs bathroom is broken, my father-in-law also asked my mother-in-law, can I go to the upstairs bathroom to take a bath? My mother-in-law said, you go to wash, anyway DanDan they are not at home, not in the bathroom, after washing do not forget to bring out the clothes. This was all told to me by my mother-in-law when I got home.
4, my mother-in-law will buy breakfast in the morning to send us home, into our room to see, my daughter sleeps she will go out to help us clean up the housework, wake up she will go out to coax, never shout to wake us, as long as back to the mother-in-law's house, I will take care of myself to play, the daughter to find my mother-in-law to tell the daughter, you have to hurt your mother, she takes you very hard, let the mother rest. I sometimes say that I'm not tired of taking her, she's very well-behaved! The mother-in-law said, you see what you said, I am a person who comes over, and I am not tired with children! I will also get into trouble with her, but my mother-in-law is actually a good mother-in-law.
When you meet such a good in-laws, you must cherish it! Be considerate of each other! Occasionally some contradictions are normal, who has not yet had a bad mood! They are all people, all have their own tempers, habits! When things happen, think more about each other's good, and your life will go on! If you really can't get together, try not to live under one roof!