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Some time ago, a friend told me that his sister had gone on a blind date.
That sister I know the basic situation, graduated from high school, and looks very beautiful, but also very enterprising, 28 years old, has not talked about boyfriends, because she put all her mind into work.
In the past few years, as his sister has grown older, more and more people around to urge marriage, the sister had to agree, the blind date arranged by her parents, she has also successively met some, good men.
However, still did not find, the right marriage partner, his sister is not in a hurry, he has money and a house and a car, and the prospects for his career are also very impressive.
Whether it is married, or single, she is not worried at all, any financial problems, for him, a good marriage is the icing on the cake, if a person is single, it is not impossible.
A few days ago, his sister went on a blind date again, and the object of the blind date was the son of a friend whose father and mother had seriously examined.
The blind date, who went out to work in high school, has not been seen for so many years, but both parents know the roots.
The first time the two people met, they made an appointment at a place where they ate spicy hot.
The place where the friend's sister wants to go is originally a café or a movie, but the blind date man feels that the first time they meet, they still take the economical route, and they are next to a school.
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Before his sister went on a blind date, his parents also warned his sister that if this man did not have much ability, did not have much ability, could not make as much money as you and there was nothing, as long as he was good to you and had a sense of responsibility, it was okay to marry later without letting you be wronged.
They don't value men's earning power, they care more about men, whether they will be good to their daughters.
During the blind date, the two talked about some topics, and the sister felt that the two people's three views were inconsistent and could not be talked together.
The man was two years older than his sister, one was 28 years old and the other was 30 years old, which was quite the same in age.
Before the two left, the man saw the woman, did not have the idea of continuing, sneered: "You are too old, really don't be too picky, women are over 25 years old, it is not good to have children, or to get married early, return to the family early, and feel at ease with the husband and children, is the most important thing." ”
The sister did not comment on his words, of course, nor responded, the man laughed and bragged, and he also talked about several girlfriends, one better than one to himself, one more than the other to love himself, one more willing than the other, to spend money for himself.
But men, as for them, can't see it, feel that they don't deserve themselves, only deserve to fall in love and not deserve to get married, so they are still single.
The man was rambling and saying something about himself, and his sister just smiled and didn't answer.
When he knew that his sister's monthly income was over 10,000, or even more than 30,000, he said with a sour grape psychology: "Women, there is really no need to make so much money, there is no need to work so hard, even if you earn 30,000 a month, you are not going to marry a man with a monthly salary of 5,000, otherwise you can only be an older leftover woman."
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When my sister heard his words, she really wanted to spray a mouthful of salt soda on his face, how could this man be so ordinary, but so confident? How did his self-confidence come about?
Therefore, some people's singleness is really doomed, he is not fateful, but too confident.
Some Puxin men, really very strange, they have no ability, no achievements, will only brag about how many girlfriends they have, in order to show their strength, in order to highlight their past achievements are amazing.
What age is it now, and I still think that women should be at home, honestly take children, husbands and children, which set is this playing?
Even men feel that women who are not married at the age of 28 are older leftover women, even if the monthly salary is 30,000, they cannot find a good man, and can only marry a man with a monthly salary of 5,000.
Sigh, I really want to say that some people's faces are so big.
The friend's sister went after this blind date, really had a psychological shadow, and also said to her parents, I really don't want to go on a blind date in the future, I don't want to meet a strange man.
I hope that when parents ask their daughters to get married, they must have the same psychology, and they must hope that their daughters are happy, rather than feeling that their daughters are not married and then lose your face, because compared to your face, the daughter's lifelong happiness is the most important.
I hope that those ordinary, incompetent, and unproductive men, when they are on a blind date, honestly, don't feel that they are particularly cattle, don't feel that they are particularly powerful, and judge women at every turn, thinking how great you are.
A man is truly remarkable and should build on his career, not be able to speak and brag.
I hope that women, when not married, will not affect your choice because of the people around you.
Please polish your eyes, find the real fit, your marriage partner, find the man who can respect you, care for you, and cherish you, instead of looking down on you, thinking that you make a lot of money, and hitting you and denigrating you.
Men are also women, the best feng shui, men can also give women, good energy and nourishment.
Good men can make women, like a spring breeze in marriage, bad men, will only make women suffocate in marriage.
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