If there are no accidents in people's lives, every stage must be experienced, and life in old age is a very worrying stage, some people are afraid that there will be no security after they are old, and they work very hard when they are young, not to save enough money, and live happily in their old age.
Although it is said that there is money, I am full of confidence, if this sentence is too old to walk, even if there is money, can you really let the ghost push and grind?
It is not easy to meet a spouse who does not cherish himself in life, and it is not easy to live a satisfactory life, if the other party has done these two things, don't be too good to him when he is old.
treachery
Many things in life are not so important to outsiders, but they have a great impact on the parties, and if the mistakes made by the other party make us sad, in fact, we cannot be forgiven, because people always have to bear the consequences for their actions.
Aunt Wang, 53, once experienced her ex-husband's infidelity, and more than a decade ago, the ex-husband had many betrayals, when she saved her ex-husband's heart through various means, because she wanted the child to have a complete home, but there was no effect.
Although the daughter is not around, but the children are very filial piety, just during the National Day, the son and daughter-in-law helped themselves to buy train tickets, to the daughter's city to travel, for the current life, Aunt Wang feels very satisfied.
Aunt Wang's life is getting better and better, and she is not as sensitive to her husband's betrayal as before, even if her ex-husband finds herself and wants to remarry, but her mind is very clear, perhaps her husband's health is getting worse and worse, and she needs someone to take care of, and Aunt Wang is a more suitable person.
Their children knew what their father had done, and then gave the right to choose to Aunt Wang, because there were children behind them and did not reconcile with their ex-husbands.
Everyone should have their own principles and bottom line, for example, the bottom line of marriage is loyalty, if you encounter a situation of betrayal, and again and again, this person has not loved you, the other party is so hurt Why should you forgive him?
Just ask for it
The 50-year-old Aunt Li has had a very hard life, working as a free nanny for half a lifetime, and her husband did not quit before taking care of her in-laws' life.
The last days of the father-in-law's life were accompanied by himself, and after his death, he personally took care of the aftermath, and the mother-in-law was half paralyzed, needed to be taken care of, and accompanied her son to study every day.
My husband finally retired in the unit, and I thought that someone could share the heavy responsibility of life for me, but I didn't expect my own efforts, so that my husband thought it was deserved.
After my husband retires, he doesn't care about many things in his life, and even dislikes himself for not serving well, always asking for it, and even refusing to help when he goes to the market to buy vegetables.
Until later, his mother-in-law and husband thought that these things were things they should have done, otherwise they would not marry Aunt Li.
The husband plays cards at home every day, Aunt Li feels exhausted in the face of all kinds of pressures in life, even in the summer and winter vacation, the son and daughter-in-law let themselves take their children, Aunt Li felt very angry and went directly back to her brother-in-law's house.
If you are just treated as a free babysitter, he will not feel pain or understand you in his heart, and the reason for this situation may be that you have endured it again and again.
Thinking back to my life for only a few short decades, having worked hard for most of my life, and completely not being respected and understood by others, what is the meaning of such a payment?
In all marriages, the reason why women are unhappy is not doomed at the beginning, many of them are caused by their own behavior, and they always habitually finish many things without letting the other party participate, so that others do not feel that they are needed.
If you say again and again that it's okay, I don't work hard, over time to let the other party feel that these things are what you should do, and it won't hurt you, and who pays more in marriage will be more reluctant.
When you meet such men in life, you must be cruel, there is no need to take care of their lives for them when they are old, and you don't have to be too good to them.