The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
Kiki and her husband have been married for five years, in the period of just marriage, she did not have much contradiction with her mother-in-law, but since the birth of the child, the contradiction between Kiki and her mother-in-law has increased day by day, and then the child has grown up slowly, because of the child's education problems, there has been a big disagreement between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and finally, the mother-in-law ignored the opposition of Kiki and her husband, took the child back to her hometown, but after three months, the mother-in-law regretted it.
Kiki married her current husband at the age of 26, and after getting married, she was urged to have children, so in the following year, the couple had a love crystallization, and during Kiki's pregnancy, her mother-in-law moved to Kiki's house to prepare three meals a day for her and clean the housework.
Kiki has always been grateful to her mother-in-law, after all, there are many examples of mother-in-law around her who do not pay attention to her daughter-in-law, looking at the figure of her mother-in-law busy in the room all day, Kiki secretly decided that she must be filial to her mother-in-law in the future.
The mother-in-law has been living in Kiki's house until Kiki gave birth to a child, after giving birth to the child, after the family's consultation, it was decided to let the mother-in-law help take care of the child, and Kiki soon returned to the workplace to help her husband alleviate the financial pressure on the family.
Only on weekends does Kiki have time to take care of the children, and usually the mother-in-law helps to take care of them.
But Kiki is after all as the mother of the child, on the issue of children's education, she has an absolute right to speak, Kiki educates children's attitude is free range, as long as the child likes, Kiki will find a way to meet the child's wishes, usually Kiki will also take the child to some children's paradise, to play with other children, hoping to establish the child's interpersonal skills from an early age.
But as a mother-in-law, Kiki's concept of educating children is completely contrary to herself, and the mother-in-law believes that children should be educated from an early age, cannot be pampered, and must educate him from an early age on the principles of being a person, and like Kiki, children want to give him what they want, which is obviously not OK.
At the beginning, Kiki also patiently advised her mother-in-law, now it is a new era, the mother-in-law's set of ideas has long been outdated, but the mother-in-law does not listen to the advice, has always insisted on her own attitude, so that the biggest contradiction in history broke out between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Kiki feels very wronged, she believes that this is her own child, how to educate is her own problem, and her husband is also in the contradiction between Kiki and her mother-in-law, into a dilemma.
After a few days, Kiki came home from work and saw her husband alone at home, without the figure of mother-in-law and children, and her husband said to Kiki: Our mother is really too stubborn, she took the child back to her hometown.
Kiki was very angry at her mother-in-law's behavior after hearing this, but on second thought, she also had good intentions and for the growth of the child, so, under the consultation of the husband and wife, she agreed to take care of the child for a while.
But unexpectedly, three months later, her mother-in-law called, and in the phone, she expressed her apologies and regrets, and deeply realized that the set of ideas she had taught her children was outdated.
Originally, during these three months, the child suddenly changed from the urban living environment to the countryside, a moment is still a little uncomfortable, the mother-in-law in order to cultivate the child's good quality, according to their own concept to educate the child, but did not expect that things will be reversed, the child did not change because of this, but became a little taciturn, every day to go home to find the mother.
And children his age, he had never spoken to them, and every time he came to him, he bowed his head.
The mother-in-law saw that the matter had reached this point and could not continue, so she dialed Kiki's phone, so there was the above scene.
Soon, Kiki took the child back to the house, and when she saw her mother, the mother-in-law could clearly feel the joy in the child's heart, and the previous low mood was also swept away.
Soon the child returned to his previous carefree, happy and innocent appearance, and began to talk to other children.
The mother-in-law looked at the change of her grandson and couldn't help but sigh: Before, I was indeed too stubborn, and my set of ideas for raising children has long been outdated, so let the children live carefree in the city.
Conclusion: In fact, for the child's education, the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is a very common thing, but there is a need to understand that the generation of rearing is not enough, although the mother-in-law has a wealth of experience in educating children, the daughter-in-law is only a novice mother, but today is different from the past, in this era, the mother-in-law's set of ideas for educating children has long been outdated, obviously not suitable for the education of children today.
Just as the mother-in-law deeply realized her mistake after taking the child back to her hometown for three months, it was from that moment that she decided to take care of the child's life and no longer take charge of the child's education.