The faster the development of society, the greater the pressure on people, many people think that raising children needs to spend a lot of money, in order for children to have a good future, they are desperately trying to earn money, just to provide a good future for children, but they ignore a point, children's education problems.
Some parents are busy with work, busy with their careers, they give their children to the nanny, to the grandparents to take care of, 12 months a year, a total of not enough time to accompany the children, they only care about earning money, but miss the age when the child needs education, which can not be bought back by any money.
CCTV host Dong Qing once said: "When you choose to make money and ignore your child's education, the money you have worked hard to earn for a lifetime cannot rival his loser for a year!" I believe that when many people hear this sentence, they will have a deep feeling, how many families ignore the education of their children in order to earn money, and finally all the family property conditions have let the children lose, you earn a lifetime of money, maybe the child is lost but it only takes a few years, or even a year.
In some rich people's homes, even if the children do not study well and cannot pass the college entrance examination to a good university, parents will still spend money to send their children abroad for further study, and after the children return, it is a new development.
Many people may say that people's parents have money, can afford to spend money to let their children go abroad to gild, in fact, this has little to do with whether parents have money, the most important thing is that the parents' efforts and vision are the most important, because they think that the child's education is necessary, can not be because there is no money and give up, otherwise the family will only become more and more backward, even if the rich parents, they desperately want to make money, in fact, just to provide a good future for the child.
However, no matter how much money is made, the child's education is ignored, and the speed at which the child spends money is always faster than the speed at which he makes money, so compared with education, education needs to be ranked first. So how do you educate your children?
First, we must be aware of the meaning and importance of reading.
Many people do not realize the meaning and importance of reading, they think that no money can give up reading, in fact, no money to read more, only through reading can make more money. And if the family has money, the child also needs to keep the family's wealth through reading, most of the rich people in society are learned people, and a person who wants to have knowledge needs to be obtained through reading.
Second, we must have our own skills.
Learning may make people progress, but just dead learning will never have a chance to succeed, everyone needs to work after entering the society, and work needs some of their own strengths and skills, if it is only some theoretical knowledge, it is difficult to find a job, for the future of children, we must let children have a skill.
Third, children need the company of their parents.
Some people may think that if they spend their time with their children, who will make the money? In fact, even if everyone is busy at work, they can always squeeze out time to accompany their families to accompany their children, many people are willing to spend time on mobile phones and games, and they are not willing to give time to their children, in fact, this is all an excuse, if they are willing to accompany their children, they will always find time, children can only experience the love of their parents in the company of their parents, and children who grow up in love will love life and be passionate about life.
Instead of making more money, parents should spend more time educating their children, so that the money they earn is more meaningful, otherwise the cart before the horse, a lifetime of hard work but children spend a year.
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