When children go to school, they will inevitably be punished by their teachers for some things. At this time, how parents educate and guide their children is very important, because parents' education and guidance of their children will have a very great impact on their children.
If parents guide their children's education well, their children will go in the right direction; if parents do not guide their children's education well, their children will go in the wrong direction, and may even waste their studies.
So, when a child is punished by a teacher, how should parents educate and guide their children? A mother's approach to education is seen as a model.
It went something like this: The daughter was punished by the teacher, and the mother was called to school. After learning that the mistake may not be in her daughter, the mother adopted a two-way approach to education. She first told the teacher that she would communicate well with the child, but when she left the school, she took her daughter to eat delicious food, and said the following paragraph to her daughter.
"I don't tell the teacher because you still have to receive her academic education, but your character does not need her to teach, as long as you know that you are right, and your mother supports you." For your teacher, your mother's advice is: only accept knowledge from her, the teacher is just an identity, not necessarily all right, but learning knowledge can never be wrong. ”
For this mother's way of education, many people think that it can be used as a model of education. Because the mother not only avoided conflict with the teacher in this matter, but also educated her daughter on two levels. One level is to learn something from whom, and the other level is that learning knowledge is never wrong.
However, this story, which is regarded as a model, has triggered a debate among netizens. Many of these netizens agree with the above point of view, thinking that this mother's education method is really good and worth learning.
But there are also many netizens who oppose this view, they believe that the mother made 2 mistakes in the process of educating her children. One of the most fundamental problems has not been resolved, and contradictions still exist. The teacher will still reject the student in the same situation, and her daughter will still make the same "mistake" because she feels that she is right.
Another is that the mother's positioning of the teacher's profession and the advice she gives to her daughter is also wrong. First of all, the teacher does not just impart knowledge, but to "preach and teach karma" to the students; secondly, she only teaches her daughter to respect knowledge, but does not teach her daughter to respect the teacher, and the students who do not respect the teacher will respect the knowledge learned from the teacher? Finally, she taught her daughter "one set before and one set after people" with practical actions.
But can a child really learn the logic of "one set before and one set after"? Some netizens' comments lit up.
A netizen said: My son will tell the teacher, "My mother said that my character and morality do not need you to teach." ”
Another netizen also said: Indeed, if it is my son, he will not only tell the teacher, but also talk to the classmates.
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