An American teacher told the story of a Chinese medical school: One morning after the storm, a man was walking by the sea and noticed that in the shallow puddles of the beach, there were many small fish that had been swept ashore by last night's storm.
Although the trapped small fish are close to the sea, there may be hundreds, or even thousands, but it will not be long before the water in the shallow puddle will be sucked dry by the sand grains, steamed by the sun, and the small fish will dry up and die.
The man suddenly noticed that there was a little boy on the beach who kept picking up small fish from the shallow puddle and throwing it back into the sea. The man couldn't help but walk over: "Child, there are hundreds of thousands of small fish in this puddle, you can't save it." ”
"I know." The little boy answered without looking back. "Oh? So why are you still throwing? Who cares? "This little fish cares!" The boy answered as he picked up a fish and threw it back into the sea.
In fact, this story corresponds to a sentence of the elder Tagore, "The purpose of education should be to transmit the breath of life to people." ”
Therefore, the "education" of education should start from respecting life, making people's humanity good, making people open-minded, and evoking the beautiful "good roots" in themselves, that is, allowing students to have a beautiful state of mind of "this fish cares".
Parents can let 1 to 3-year-old babies first understand what are the individuals of life, and then understand the meaning of life, wait until the baby grows up, and then carry out life goals and life and death education.
1. Know yourself
Parents let the baby start from self-knowledge, use the mirror to help the baby know himself and his own body parts, and then tell some small stories, let them understand the process of their birth and growth, and then introduce the members of the family to let the baby know.
2. Respect for diverse lives
When the baby knows life, after knowing himself, parents can take Dingbao out to play, at this time, teach the baby to know other life forms, such as an ant, a flower, in addition to letting the baby know life, but also let the baby look at these lives with a respectful attitude.
Starting from the parents, let the baby see the parents' love for the small life, so that the children will learn the attitude of the parents in their hearts and be full of respect for life.
3. Respect parents Respect others
When children see their parents' respect for others, they will also learn to imitate, so parents are the best model teachers. If parents usually have great respect for their elders, they will look at their parents and accompany their elderly families every New Year's Festival, and the baby will naturally have this concept.
4. Protect yourself and protect your life
Life is very precious, so parents need to teach the baby how to protect themselves and others, starting from respecting life, so that the baby understands that everyone has the responsibility to protect others and protect their own life.
5. Learn to cherish the present
In the movie "Bucket List", the male protagonist was told by the doctor that there were still the last three months of life, and he began to regret that his life was extremely sloppy.
Carter asked Edward, "Have you ever had real joy in your life?" ”
Edward said, "No. ”
By chance Edward stumbled upon Carter's "bucket list", and together they embarked on crazy trips, skydiving, racing, climbing snow-capped mountains laughing to crying, kissing the most beautiful girl in the world, etc. In the process, they have gained unprecedented happiness because they have learned to cherish the life of the moment.
Only when life is gradually lost will you understand the preciousness of life and will you grasp every present time. And only by teaching children to know how to cherish can we find true happiness.
Montessori, a famous educator, said: Only by correctly understanding the laws of life can we better understand the meaning of life, respect life more, and love life.
Teaching children to respect life correctly, learn to say goodbye, learn to cherish, and then love hard is the most precious lesson for them.
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