College students read at night
"The first three rows of the classroom are suitable for hard work, and the last three rows are for laissez-faire people", such a concept seems to be from our elementary school into the campus, the teacher for us to line up seats, began to sit in the classroom to study, slowly developed and existed.
Nagging parents will repeatedly tell their children to sit close to the podium, to listen to lectures well in class, and to study seriously. And now, after going to college, I don't know if anyone has noticed that the seats in the first row of the classroom are not sitting, or who is sitting there?
Xiao Yu would never sit in the first row. He said sitting there made him feel uncomfortable, always noticed, and would be perceived by other classmates as deliberately acting. "Often the first row is empty, everyone will sit in the back row tacitly, and most of the students who listen carefully choose to sit in the second and third rows."
Xiaoyu said, "Especially in those relatively 'boring' classes, there will be fewer students who are willing to sit in the front row." In fact, it is understandable, after all, if you sit in a more conspicuous place, it will always feel a little uncomfortable to be deliberately stared at. Sitting in the back seat is not so stressful, who wouldn't like a relaxed and harmonious environment. ”
So in every class, after Xiaoyu arrived at the classroom, he would naturally go to the back row and then put down his backpack to listen to the lecture. Sometimes he arrived a little later, and when he was not close to the back, he would move forward a few rows in embarrassment. Sitting back, it became a matter of course for him.
"The position in the first row is the closest to the teacher and the most convenient to communicate, so if you want to study well, it will be a good place to sit there." Yaoyao said that she would sometimes sit in the first row, but most of the time, she would still choose to sit in the back with most of her classmates.
"I feel that it doesn't matter where I sit. If you want to listen carefully, you can learn a lot by sitting at the door of the classroom. So there is no need to deliberately pursue seats. ”
"Moreover, the position in the first row is too obvious, and there are few students who are willing to do it, so I will still sit in the back with my friends." If there are any exceptions, it should be a class of a teacher I like, or when I go to class late and have no place. ”
"Maybe it's human nature, if you don't follow the trend, you will always feel a little nervous." 」 She laughed and teased herself, saying, "In fact, I still think it is strange, before I went to college, I felt that the more I sat forward, the more active and serious I was, maybe the embodiment of self-motivation was not so rigid." In short, who says that if you want to listen carefully, you must sit in the first row? ”
This is Yaoyao's attitude, and she is indeed like this, preferring to sit in the middle of the most classmates, as for the first row, it seems that not many people care.
"To say that sitting in the first row makes others feel like they're deliberately doing something is trying to make excuses for their own little laziness." Kiki doesn't agree with this view, contrary to most people, she doesn't like to sit in the back row, "not to mention sitting in the back row and looking at the screen will be unclear, listening to the lecture will also be disturbed, avoiding the position of the first row, preferring to bury her head behind, maybe it is a kind of laziness." ”
"If you want to study seriously, do you care what others say?" It is nothing more than sitting in the back row to desert more freely - even if you may have to listen to the lecture well in this lesson, but still leave a way back for yourself that may appear lazy. Kiki said, "At the end of the day, I still don't want to step out of my comfort zone." This kind of psychology is exactly what we have to overcome. ”
Not only that, Kiki did the same. Sometimes, the whole row was just her sitting there. "What's wrong with the first row?" Kiki concludes, "The worst part is probably that you feel 'not safe enough.'" ”
I have to admit that at some point, maybe we all had this idea: sit back in a row, there is no teacher's intentional or unintentional sight, and there is no need to sit up straight and listen to the lecture at all times. Maybe, even if I'm going to listen carefully, maybe, I can take out my phone and glance at the screen, I can lie down and take a nap, and sitting in the back row always have these feelings of security that don't seem unnecessary.
In the long run, such an idea may slowly breed inadvertently, and it becomes a matter of course. When you see a row or more of seats empty at the front of the classroom, do you think, when did you ever think about sitting there?
In a letter to young writers, Coron McCain wrote: "Stay ardent, be sincere, subvert comfort." "Maintain a keen desire to learn about life, maintain a sincere attitude towards acquiring knowledge, and more importantly, subvert your heart that you want to take a step back and sit in the back row and enjoy the comfort and relaxation under the cover." This is true not only for young writers, but also for us. The first row, perhaps, is reserved for those who are serious and disciplined.
For this lesson, you walked into the classroom. Now, which row do you decide to sit in?
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The author | Jing Yuyue
Editor| Zhang Cangran
Review | Wang Longlong
Review | Wang CenYu
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