The baby is a little angel in the family, no matter how much trouble and pressure there is in the adult world, as long as the baby has an innocent smile, it can wash away all the unhappiness, of course, when the baby asks for a hug, no matter who has no resistance, direct compromise, immediately pick up the cute baby.
Not only adults like to hold the baby, the baby also enjoys the process of being held, but many times the adult's physical strength and energy are limited, and they cannot hold the baby for a long time, and can only put the baby down.
Babies are often "no one to hold", and the old man criticizes the mother
Holding the baby is a good mood, but in the inherent concept of many parents, sometimes holding the baby will have an impact on the baby's growth.
Kiki is already a full-time mother, every day wholeheartedly take care of the baby's food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and enjoy it, after having a baby, Kiki vowed to cultivate the baby into a talent, can not spoil the baby some bad emotions and behaviors.
The baby seems to be able to perceive the mother's strict standards, so it is also extra independent, only 3 years old is not very dependent on the mother, which is also in Kiki's mind, to cultivate Lele into a person with a strong personality and independence.
Recently, Lele seems to have seen that the children around him often ask their mothers for hugs, and they often ask their mothers for hugs. At first, Kiki thought it was just a coincidence and hugged her a few times.
But when she found that Lele had to hug every day, she was afraid of developing her son's bad sense of dependence, and even appeared ma Bao male psychology, directly ignoring Suo Hug.
The old man in the family was very angry after seeing Kiki's behavior, criticized Bao Ma, felt that he had snubbed the child, and looked at the child's aggrieved little expression and was also distressed. In fact, it is normal for the baby to ask the family for a hug, and it is also beneficial to hold the child appropriately.
What is missing from a child that "no one holds" than "someone holds"?
Holding your baby regularly can bring some benefits, and children who have not been held since childhood will lack the following experiences.
★ Babies who are "no one to hold" are insecure
Many times the baby asks for hugs from parents because there is a certain gap in family affection, lack of security, and want to fill the gap in their hearts through hugging.
After getting the response from the parents, it also makes the inner sense of security doubled, full of a sense of achievement, on the contrary, if the response is not received for a long time, it can only let the few security in the child's heart gradually clear.
★ The baby who is "no one to hold" lacks a good parent-child relationship experience
Hugging is the best way to get close to each other, not to mention parents and children with the same genes, through hugging, you can effectively close the distance between parents and children.
In this way, children can feel the strong love of parents, and then be willing to be close to parents, prefer to communicate and communicate with parents, and promote the integration of parent-child relationships. Babies who have not been held since childhood will not have this experience.
★ Babies who are "no one to hold" lack good opportunities to promote brain development
Before the age of 3 is the golden age of the baby's brain development, this period of parents' embrace can achieve the purpose of fully developing the baby's brain, through external stimulation, can effectively stimulate the baby's senses, and then let the baby's brain get signals
Promote the healthy development of the brain, so that the baby's brain development exceeds that of babies of the same age who are not often hugged, which is a disadvantage for babies who have not been held since childhood.
The baby "has someone to hold" should also pay attention to the method, and parents do this
Although there are many benefits to holding the baby regularly, not all the hugs for the baby should be inclusive, and the baby is also exquisite, and the parents cannot be careless, otherwise the only one who suffers losses can be the young baby.
First of all, the baby made a mistake and did not hold it
When the baby is young, the baby will always make mistakes, when the baby learns that his behavior is inappropriate, if he does not immediately admit the mistake and bear the consequences, but evades punishment by asking for a hug, to show his grievances, at this time parents must adhere to the principle and do not compromise.
It is necessary to make the baby aware of his mistakes, and after the heart is soft, he can only let the baby develop an incorrect way of dealing with problems, which will affect the future standards of life.
Secondly, babies within 3 months are less vertical
Not only pay attention to the moment of holding the baby, but also always pay attention to the way to hold the baby, the baby 3 months before the minimum vertical hug, the baby's spine is not fully mature, can not withstand a long time of vertical hug.
In addition, the child learns to walk without holding, learning to walk is a lesson that the child must learn to walk independently, at this time the child must bear the test, parents can not choose to hold the child because of the pain of the child, so when the child can learn to walk, obstinately can only harm the child.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!