Children crying in kindergarten not only upset the teacher, but also parents will complain.
After going to kindergarten, it is very normal for children to have anxiety about entering kindergarten, and it is precisely the performance of kindergarten anxiety that proves that the baby's intellectual development is very good.
And, over time, this crying behavior will be greatly reduced. Many kindergarten teachers said that as long as the child overcomes this barrier, the problem will not be big in the future.
More boys than girls cry in kindergarten?
Since graduating, Kiki has entered a public kindergarten, and she really worked hard to pass the kindergarten's entrance exam successfully, but the final result was good.
In this blink of an eye, she has been in this kindergarten for 5 years, can be regarded as a senior teacher of this kindergarten, coupled with her own hard work, has been successfully promoted to an excellent teacher, every year when the kindergarten enrollment, her class always has to reject some children and parents. Most of them are boys.
When the rejected parent asks why, Kiki will say that if your son is not more than 3 years old, I will not recommend him to go to kindergarten. Whether it is mental or behavioral, there is a certain negligence, or stay at home for a while!
Such an explanation is naturally only suitable for boys who are not up to standard, if the age is also up to standard, the relationship is still hard enough, Teacher Kiki can only accept it hard.
If there are too many boys in the class, Kiki teacher can conclude at the beginning of the new semester that these children are not good! Be sure to choose a more experienced matching teacher.
The reason is that, in her experience, the daily performance of boys is far inferior to that of girls, especially in learning concentration, which is a world of difference!
Mostly because of these 3 points, the right medicine can be done
Becoming the darling of the family, being overly spoiled
Even if the idea of son preference is no longer desirable and is attacked by many people, there will still be many people who hold such ideas, including many young people, who do not know when they were affected.
In this way, boys born in such a family will naturally receive a lot of attention and protection, and they will be afraid of melting in their mouths and afraid of falling in their hands. Well protected.
Over time, their arrogant personality will be infinitely magnified, what they want must be obtained immediately, they cannot wait for a minute, they have no patience, and irritability is also a common manifestation.
Physiological causes, the left side of the brain in boys is delayed
According to the research of relevant scientists, the left brain development degree of boys in kindergarten is far less than that of girls, and even a large part of the gap is generated, and the part controlled by the left brain is language expression ability, arithmetic analysis ability, logic and so on.
Aren't these abilities exactly what is needed for kindergarten learning? It is also an important indicator for parents and teachers to measure the level of children's development at this stage. Nature is sloppy.
Therefore, in the process of kindergarten, many times it is not that boys deliberately want to make trouble, lose their temper, or even fail to learn, but because of their own limited ability to perform well.
In addition, I will not be able to get along with other children. They obviously want to make friends with each other and play happily, but because they can't express themselves, or they don't express well, they let each other be hurt and feel tortured.
At this time, the boy himself will also be annoyed because he has messed things up, crying loudly or venting his temper, which will make the unsuspecting teacher feel that this child is difficult to manage!
Boys' emotions are ignored, and they consciously attract the attention of their parents
The boys in this situation are the opposite of the coddled boys, who are not only not taken seriously, but are always ignored. Because he is a boy, the mother will be informal, and let the child develop freely.
Boys who grow up in such an environment will be aware of even the nerves! They also want to snuggle in their mother's arms like other children, sharing what they see and hear every day with their mother, but always receiving impatient feedback from their mother.
In this way, they will try to use their own way to ask for their mother's love and attention, and they naturally know that their tears are the best choice.
If the mother can make up for the shortcomings in the child's heart in time, the boy's frequent crying behavior will soon be solved!
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