Text/An Dongyue
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The male and female protagonists in the hit drama "Xiao Min's House" are middle-aged people in their forties, but their love is very sweet and romantic, especially healing.
The male protagonist Chen Zhuo and the female protagonist Liu Xiaomin are divorced separately, and their respective children are twenty years old. Single for many years, they thought that this life was like this, but unexpectedly they met by chance, felt good about each other, and then talked about love.
Because the children of both sides are re-reading to prepare for the exam, the relationship is not made public, for fear that the child will not be able to accept it, affecting the college entrance examination. For more than a year, the two men had been secretly dating like underground workers.
In the first episode, Xiaomin's mother and son suddenly came to Beijing from their hometown, and she had to leave Chen Zhuo to accompany her mother and son, and Chen Zhuo also understood and did not complain at all. In the evening, the two sides settled the child before sending a message to chat.
Chen Zhuo proposed to go to her and get together briefly downstairs from her house, after all, it was the first anniversary of their love. Xiao Min was very happy, and a girlish smile appeared on her face.
In the corner of the community, they sat on the trunk of the car singing champagne, chatting, taking small videos, and imagining a better future together.
Chen Zhuo is a particularly humorous and lively person, who can always make Xiao Min laugh. They have a conversation that is particularly heartwarming.
Xiao Min said: "Chen Zhuo, I want to thank you, I have had a very happy year." ”
Chen Zhuo said: "Actually, I should thank you, this year, when I met you, it was like going back to my youth, as if I had been so happy all these years." In fact, think about it, the two of us at this age, we can still talk about love, I didn't dream that according to normal circumstances, I should be wearing a pulling board, a grandfather in the alley, and actually fell in love..."
Chen Zhuo in the play is forty-six years old, and it is a very luxurious thing for many people to fall in love at the age of forty-six. Most divorced people, looking for more is mostly based on conditions, it is difficult to meet people who are really heartbroken.
Only with the people who really feel the heart can be called love, otherwise it is just a matter of picking up a gang to live a life. Love makes people happy and makes people young, even the love of middle-aged people is also very beautiful.
01. Middle-aged, not pretentious
Young people fall in love, somewhat with a little pretentiousness.
For example, I always like to dwell on questions such as "love or not, how much love", in order to prove love and verify love, you can do a lot of things that violate common sense. In short, noisy, divided and combined, all kinds of tossing.
Admittedly, pretentiousness is sometimes a mood, but in middle-aged people, it is completely unnecessary.
Middle-aged people fall in love, and the pursuit is to get along comfortably, harmoniously, and not to make trouble. After all, there are already too many bad things at work and in life, and if you have to toss emotionally, you are too tired.
Chen Zhuo and Xiao Min in the play, the two people have complementary personalities, one is cheerful, one is quiet, he always has endless words, she likes to listen to him, he speaks both humorous and funny, but also very philosophical. When she looked at him, there seemed to be stars in her eyes, flickering and flickering.
They each have their own children, children are naturally the first, when children have something, love can be put down first, no one will be arrogant, will not complain. This kind of mutual comfort and mutual understanding of the love relationship is what middle-aged people need most.
02. Middle-aged, more considerate
It is generally believed that middle-aged people do not understand romance, or do not have the heart to create romance, but this is not the case.
Middle-aged people do not understand romance, but the definition of romance has changed. Their definition of romance is like the classic lyrics: "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you." ”
The romance of middle-aged people is to support each other and take care of each other, you are considerate of me, I care for you, and I feel satisfied.
Whether it is a middle-aged couple or a middle-aged couple, they will know how to be more considerate of each other than when they were young.
The thoughtfulness of middle-aged people is slightly different from that of young people. The thoughtfulness of young people, somewhat deliberately, is learning how to take care of people and love people. The thoughtfulness of middle-aged people is an instinct, a habit developed after years of study.
People at different ages will have different moods. When I was young, I felt that love should be vigorous, and the more crazy it was, the deeper the love proved. After middle age, I prefer the love of thin water and long flow, although it is plain, it is extremely warm.
Middle-aged, mature, attentive, caring, and secure. Even some young girls like "uncle" type boyfriends. It can be seen that middle-aged people also have certain advantages in gender relations.
03. Middle-aged people, know how to cherish
When you are young, it is easy to be emotional, and it is easy to change your heart, so you follow the feelings, love is together, and if you don't love, you will be separated. In hindsight, I wasn't sure how sincere that relationship was.
After middle age, it is difficult to be emotional with a person, and once emotional, it must be sincere. Because it is difficult to be emotional with a person, once you meet someone who is related and like each other, you will definitely cherish it more.
Cherish a person, you will wholeheartedly be good to him, let him be happy and happy; cherish a relationship, will be careful to operate, will never let two people easily separate.
Middle-aged people, see through the cold and warm of human feelings, know that the heart is precious, can not hesitate.
Middle-aged people, who have experienced clutches and joys, know that it is not easy to love each other, and how can they live up to it.
Middle-aged people, more able to understand, time is rushed, the rest of life is not long, take advantage of the time, opportunity, must be with the person you love.
Middle-aged people have a unique charm called maturity. Mature and full of wisdom, transparency, calm and calm.
The love of middle-aged people, not gorgeous, but warm-hearted, has a gentle power. This kind of strength is enough to make people brave enough to face everything.
The love of middle-aged people does not need to be sworn by the mountains and the sea, but they can cherish each other and firmly go to the depths of the years hand in hand...
04. The love of middle-aged people is also very beautiful
Some people say that when people reach middle age, they still talk about love, which is unrealistic.
In fact, middle-aged people do not need love and do not want to talk about love, but are trapped by real life, and it is difficult to meet love again.
If middle-aged people don't need love and don't want to talk about love, there won't be so many people who betray their marriages.
Of course, it is wrong to betray marriage, but it also fully shows that middle-aged people also yearn for love, so they will find comfort outside of marriage.
Whether there is true love outside of marriage is unknown. But what is certain is that middle-aged people also have beautiful love. The premise is that both parties are single.
Just like the male and female protagonists in the TV series "Xiao Min's Family", when they met, they had been divorced for many years, and they also met the right person at the right time.
Although their love has encountered some obstacles, it is not a big problem. The feeling of watching them together, really sweet and happy.
In real life, there must be such a beautiful love. Although they met in the second half of each other's lives, they experienced happiness that they had never experienced before. Perhaps, the first half of life is going around and twisting and turning, just to meet each other at the most appropriate moment in life...
The love of middle-aged people is also very beautiful, as long as you meet the person who is really right!
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