The mother-in-law asked about the income, the husband said 30,000 for the sake of face, and after being kicked by his wife, it was said to be 5,000

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As the saying goes, parents are the people who know their daughters best, after all, from childhood to adulthood, children have always grown up around their parents, and their daughters' smiles and every move, as parents, they naturally know their daughters' careful thoughts.

In the same way, as a daughter, because she has been in contact with her parents for too long, she is also very familiar with her parents' thoughts.

Marriage for the vast majority of women, as if a new birth, after marriage, the connection with the original family will be much less than in the past, a wise woman will put her own small family in the first place, even at the request of the original parents, she will also strive to ensure the stability of her small family.

They will know that after marriage, their small family and the original family are two completely different and independent individuals, especially in the face of the intervention of the original family, wise women will try their best to preserve the happiness of their small family.

Especially when faced with parents asking about the true income of their small family, wise women often remind their husbands that everything is important to the overall situation.

01 The woman's refusal to live after marriage was interfered with by her mother's parents

Speaking of her original parents, Ms. Li was angry in addition to helplessness.

When she first married her husband, her parents tried their best to ask for more bride price, and Ms. Li was too young at the time, thinking that her parents were fighting for themselves before marriage.

However, until the wedding day, after Ms. Li and her husband sent away all the guests, Ms. Li returned to the house to look at her dowry suitcase, which contained nothing but some simple new clothes. However, in Ms. Li's heart, she still had a fluke, she thought that her parents forgot or put the dowry in the wrong position, but after Ms. Li called her parents to confirm, when she learned that her bride price was all withheld as a wedding bride price for her brother, Ms. Li's heart suddenly fell to the bottom.

The husband saw Ms. Li's lonely appearance on the side, did not say a word, but hugged Ms. Li painfully.

Ms. Li was in the arms of her husband, her mood was very complicated, she remembered that before marriage, she stood on the same front as her mother's parents and asked her husband's family for what she thought was "so-called" and necessary.

Feeling the warm embrace of her husband, at this moment, Ms. Li finally woke up: although her parents raised her for 20 years, her future life is to live with her husband, and the world is cold and warm, which is closely related to her husband.

After that, Ms. Li put all her thoughts on the small family that she had just formed with her husband, and as for everything on the mother's parents' side, Ms. Li was able to help, not to help, not to force, but all of this was based on the premise that her husband knew.

After all, Ms. Li has always been a little dissatisfied with her mother's parents, in order to prepare for her marriage, her husband's family has exhausted all its savings, so in the period after marriage, Ms. Li and her husband's life is described as "hard" at all.

But even so, the mother's parents still have no intention of reaching out.

Therefore, in the life after marriage, once the mother's parents intervene, Ms. Li will categorically refuse and will not let the mother's family interfere in the affairs between herself and her husband.

For this reason, the mother's parents often say to outsiders: It is really a white child to raise a daughter.

Whenever Madam Li heard these words, she smiled indifferently, and everything went with him.

02 The parents of the mother asked about the income

Of course, life after marriage cannot remain static, and with the unremitting efforts of Ms. Li and her husband, life has gradually improved.

Over the years, although Ms. Li has been dissatisfied with her parents, she has not shown this dissatisfaction, and she also visits her parents on time during the New Year's Festival to express her filial piety as a daughter.

In the blink of an eye, it is about to reach the age of marriage of the mother's brother, and at this time, the husband has worked hard through his own efforts, and his monthly income has reached 30,000.

One weekend, Ms. Li's parents suddenly called to say that her brother's girlfriend had come to the house to visit and asked Ms. Li to go home with her husband.

After arriving at the mother's house, the parents have prepared all the meals, and the family pushes the cups and cups at the dinner table, so it is not lively.

After eating, the brother and his girlfriend went shopping together, at this time there was only Ms. Li and her husband left in the family, at this time, Ms. Li's mother poured a glass of water for her husband, seemingly unintentionally said: Son-in-law, I heard that you have been living very well recently, how much salary is there in a month now?

At that time, after Ms. Li heard her mother say this sentence, she immediately understood her mother's meaning, after all, asking this question at the juncture of her brother's marriage was naturally conceivable.

The husband intends to directly say his income for the sake of face, at this time Ms. Li kicked him on the side, and the husband instantly understood and said his monthly salary of 5,000 without a trace.

After hearing her son-in-law's words, Ms. Li's mother did not feel anything else, but only sighed in a subtle way.

Sure enough, then Ms. Li's parents said: Son-in-law, you see, your brother is about to get married, as a sister and brother-in-law, more or less help.

At this time, Ms. Li took over the stubble: Mom, it's not that we don't help, it's just that you see that your son-in-law's salary is so much, and our family still has to eat and drink, and there is no savings at all. After the mother's parents heard about it, they no longer spoke.

After returning home, her husband looked at Ms. Li gratefully, but Ms. Li did not care about this, she told her husband: Now I just want our family to live a good life, as for everything about my mother's parents, we don't need to ask.

Conclusion: Meeting a wife who is bent on taking care of her own small family is the greatest happiness of every man, just like Ms. Li, although she cannot influence the behavior of her parents before marriage, but after marriage, she is bent on thinking about and considering for the sake of the small family, and when she faces her parents to ask about her husband's income, she reminds her husband in time to avoid a contradiction that is not necessary.

The harmony of the small family is the greatest happiness of women, although face is important, but also to distinguish the occasion, if because of the face and swollen face and fat, it is obviously not worth the loss. The wife is the husband's helper, after the husband makes a wrong choice, pull him in time, so that the married life will be happier.