Marriage is like a piano song, there have been stirring tunes, there have been low sorrows, and there have been slow flatness. At the end of the song, some are like the memories of the past, and some are still like the memories of the past, and some are still in the afterglow even if they are lost.
As the saying goes, a couple of one day is a hundred days, even if they are divorced, the feelings in their hearts still cannot be put down, and they cannot be completely destroyed from their emotions. Ex-wives are, after all, his first wife for men, and they have paid real affection for each other, no matter what the reason for the divorce, no matter how time passes, it cannot erase his complicated feelings for his ex-wife. When you hear that your ex-wife is having a bad time, how does it feel? The answers from these divorced men were unexpected.
Mr. Zhao, divorced for 3 years, in love
After I divorced my ex-wife, she moved back to her mother's house, because she couldn't stand the complaints of her parents and the difficulties of her brother-in-law, so she casually found a man and remarried. I heard that the man was very bad for her, and would beat her up after drinking too much. The last time I met her on the street, she didn't look very good, and I guess she was angry with the man again.
Seriously, now that I think of her, I am very sad, I also regret guilt, I feel that I did not give her a happy life, and now she is not happy, I really hate, but I feel that I am not worthy to hate.
Mr. Meng, divorced for 5 years, remarried
My ex-wife and I are college classmates, probably because the time of love is too long, there is no passion after marriage, the days are not a little backwater, and later, even the two people have nothing to say, the time to work is busy, and after work, they are basically busy. Probably because of not having children, we can barely find common topics. In the end, we agreed to divorce.
The last time I had a college reunion, I didn't see her, and I heard that she had a very bad life, and my heart was very unhappy. When divorced, I said yes to bless her, and when I learned that her life was very difficult, I still wanted to help her, but I was afraid of the current tantrum. Besides, I don't know if she can accept my help.
Mr. Shaw, divorced for 7 years, remarried
When I got divorced, my ex-wife wanted a son, although I told her that divorced women are stressed with having children, especially a boy, and asking her to leave her son to me and promise to treat her son well. But she still insisted on taking her son with her. No one will see that the person they loved is not having a good time and is happy now, it was a lot of trouble, but after a few years, those unhappiness will fade into oblivion, but will remember all the good she was to me.
I really hope that she is all right, and if one of us must have a good life and one of us who has a bad life, I hope that I am the one who is not doing well, after all, she is the mother of her son.
Mr. Qian, divorced for 10 years, divorced after remarriage
After my ex-wife and I divorced, we remarried after a few years and gave birth to a son, who seemed to be 5 years old, and not long ago, I heard that her son died of illness and divorced again, and I was particularly sad. If, at that time, we hadn't divorced, she wouldn't have experienced all this pain.
Because the ex-wife could not get along with my mother, to put it simply, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a bad relationship, and there was no way to endure it, and she insisted on divorce. I couldn't keep her anyway, and finally divorced. I know that my mother's temper has indeed caused my ex-wife to suffer a lot of grievances, so I have never hated her in my heart.
I remarried after the divorce, and the current wife has a general relationship, gave birth to a son, life is still OK, mainly my mother likes this daughter-in-law, less troublesome.
Little Black, 33 years old, divorced for 1 year, single
My ex-wife and I broke up peacefully, and in order not to worry our parents, we didn't tell our parents after the divorce. My ex-wife changed her cell phone number and blocked me online, never to be in touch again, and I thought she was going to start her own new life.
It was probably half a year ago that I learned from a friend that she was hospitalized, saying that she had leukemia, and I was confused about my head. I bought fruit to visit her, and the moment she saw me, she reluctantly squeezed out a smile and calmly asked me how I had come, and whether I looked ugly now. Looking at the thin and weak her, there was no trace of blood on her face, and her hair had almost fallen. My heart really hurts. I finally knew that she had been arguing with me in order to divorce me.
Now, I only have one idea, which is to accompany her to fight the disease. In my heart, she is still my most beautiful and beautiful wife.
A hundred years of cultivation to cross the same boat, a thousand years to cultivate to sleep together, life in the world, it is not easy to find a person you like, and it is even more difficult to find what you like each other. Since you have chosen to enter marriage, do not give up lightly, so as not to sigh in the future. I hope that all people who join hands in marriage can harvest happiness!