Uncle Lover's Introduction:
As the saying goes: "Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." For women, this lifetime marriage is particularly important, because marriage determines the quality of life for the rest of your life. This quality is not only economic, but also spiritual, and we must have a happy and harmonious marriage to be the big winner in life.
Many women also choose carefully before marriage, afraid that they will choose the wrong object because of their eyes. It can be seen that women also understand the importance of marriage to themselves. Before marriage, women should understand not only men, but also men's families. No matter how good a man is, the "family" is not good, and he can't marry casually.
Family relationships
Before marriage, women should not only examine the man's personality, but also the man's family relationship is also a crucial factor to examine, because the family relationship directly affects the happiness of your married life.
Many women marry without understanding the man's family relationship, which ultimately leads to the failure of the marriage. There are countless cases of such marriages, and the root cause of their failure is because the family relationship is too complicated, and they have no way to resist this complex relationship, which eventually leads to the tragedy of marriage.
Family relationships are not only the relationship between the man's parents, but also the relationship between the man's parents and relatives, these relationships do not seem to be particularly important, in fact, when you marry a man, you will be integrated into these relationships.
If you learn not to handle these relationships well, your contradictions and troubles will increase. The sense of happiness in life is naturally reduced.
A woman who wants to live happily and comfortably needs to see these relationships clearly before getting married. If you can control it, then you can enter this kind of marriage, and if you can't control it, leave it early.
Parental concepts
The influence of parents' concepts on marriage is also particularly far-reaching, but many women cannot clearly understand the concepts of parents when they are married, because the concepts of men's parents are reflected in daily life.
If you don't have much contact, it is really difficult to find out, Liu Li and her boyfriend are already engaged, ready to propose the idea of buying a wedding house before getting married. After all, no woman doesn't want to have her own marriage room when she gets married. But the boyfriend's parents said that these were completely unnecessary, that they had their own houses and that they could live with their sons in the future.
The man's parents feel that marriage should be simple, and now the house price is so high, they have a house, there is no need to buy a new house, which makes Liu Li feel that the concept of the boyfriend's parents is incomprehensible, and also makes her understand that even if she marries her boyfriend, she will be affected by his parents, and such a marriage is difficult to be happy.
In Liu Li's view, having a house represents the sense of ceremony of entering marriage, and it is also a concept and attitude of the man's family. But the future in-laws felt that this was a waste. Liu Li's boyfriend also did not express any opinion on this, which made Liu Li particularly disappointed, and finally chose to withdraw from marriage.
Man's attitude
In marriage, the attitude of the man's family is very important, and the attitude of the man himself is an important factor in determining the life and death of the marriage.
If men don't give support when women are wronged, and men don't give satisfaction when women have needs, then what does marriage bring to women?
In marriage, the man's attitude is also particularly important, just like Liu Li proposed to buy a new house. If the boyfriend's attitude is firm and requires his parents to give Liu Li what he should have, then the contradiction will be reduced a lot. Marriage may have another option.
Uncle Epilogue:
The house bride price is just some of the needs of women facing marriage, and it is also a means for women to see the man's family clearly.
If there is not even these basic things in marriage, if women do not get the attitude and response they deserve, then leaving is the best choice.