Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Many women's marital misfortunes begin with having children. This also shows that the child problem is an important issue that needs to be dealt with well in the family relationship, and if it is not handled properly, it is likely to affect the relationship between husband and wife.
Women are very fragile in October, and their hearts are also particularly sensitive, especially women will think about many things during confinement after giving birth. At this time, women are particularly tired, she will need the help of the people around her, and also look forward to the efforts of the people around her. But some women can't get care and care for children, and then there will always be some bad thoughts in their hearts, so when women give birth to children, should the mother-in-law pay for it?
There is money to pay, and there is a strong contribution
There are many people on the Internet who show their happiness, and when they give birth to children, their mother-in-law buys this and that for themselves, and spends money on themselves. Then there will be many netizens who comment that their mother-in-law did not pay anything during the birth of the child. In contrast to the two, it can be seen that the difference between different mothers-in-law in different families is still very large. So whether a woman should pay for it during such a special period of childbirth, everyone has their own opinion, most people feel that this is the mother-in-law's own decision.
No one is obliged to ask the mother-in-law to do anything, but the mother-in-law's approach will directly affect the relationship of the whole extended family. In fact, during the birth of a woman," the mother-in-law should still take proper care, give enough care, pay money when you have money, contribute vigorously, and always come up with the same, if you don't pay anything, then it is more difficult to get the care of the elderly.
There is no such thing as a should or should not be in a family relationship, but more whether it is willing or not
In fact, in the family relationship, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate, and if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be handled very well, then the family must be very happy. Among them, men also play a certain positive role. We must understand that there is no so-called should or should not be in the family relationship, more is willing or unwilling, we can not say that the mother-in-law should definitely pay money or labor, but the mother-in-law herself is willing to pay these things from the heart.
Women are very sensitive during childbirth, and if the mother-in-law is not willing to give a little, then the woman can feel that she is not valued. This feeling will make her have a bad psychology in the long run, which is not conducive to the happiness of the family, so the mother-in-law must also think about how to deal with these relationships when facing the daughter-in-law having children.
Ten years of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law wants the daughter-in-law to be good to herself, then she must also learn how to be a person, because the relationship between people is inherently delicate and mutual. If the mother-in-law does not give companionship and support to the daughter-in-law when she gives birth to a child, she may not receive the care and dedication of the daughter-in-law in your old age.
In fact, there are not so many secrets to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as long as each other consider each other a little more, think of things simpler, and men will have more maneuvers in it, then life will naturally be happy and happy.
Uncle Epilogue:
"The mother-in-law who gave birth to a child did not have a penny out, so why should I give her a pension?" Many people are such a point of view, which also reflects the psychology of most women, if they do not get a response when they need the help of the elderly, then they will definitely be cold. On the contrary, if the old man gave her help to her daughter-in-law in the most difficult time, she must also know how to be grateful.