Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan divorced, which was probably expected by everyone.
People like her are not suitable for marriage, with clear logic, quick thinking, and a short life resume that is too eye-catching.
As Gu Shihong said to his daughter:
"How many women in Shanghai can live like you?" Graduated from a prestigious university, at the age of 36, he became an executive of a multinational company, and his talent and appearance were complete. ”
But being a human being is too lonely and arrogant, thinking that reason can settle all family problems.
Gu Qingyu lives like a fairy, in addition to thinking better than others, the emotional intelligence ability to get along with his family is too poor.
Whether facing relatives or lovers, he always looks like a savior on high, as if his own trip to the human world is to save others from the depths of the water.
In the face of her younger brother Gu Lei, as long as the contradictions and conflicts between Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin broke out, she always helped her brother sort out the pros and cons, thinking that she was good for him, and as a result, her brother died.
Later, when I met Shi Yuan, who had been devoted to him for a long time as a student, he still looked like I could help you balance everything, but the life after the flash marriage was difficult to say.
In her marriage to Shi Yuan, the first stumbling block was Shi Yuan's mother.
In the face of such an excellent Gu Qingyu, Shi Mu is always unable to see, the words are full of ridicule and contempt, the first time I watched the TV series, I was annoyed with her, but after watching the original work, I understood that her reluctance to Gu Qingyu just proved that she was the most transparent person.
Her black face towards Gu Qingyu was not only angry and corrupt counterattack caused by the crushing of her self-esteem, but also for Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan's long pain was not as good as short pain.
I. "Skin and Meat Business"
Gu Qingyu has a successful career, but at the age of 36, she has not yet married, not that she does not want to get married, but her heart has been waiting for the return of the white shirt teenager in middle school.
This teenager was Shi Yuan, and it had been twenty years since the two of them separated at the age of sixteen.
When they first separated, the teenager swore to her, "As soon as I return to Shanghai, I will come to you." ”
Just because of this sentence, Gu Qingyu has always insisted on not getting married, even if she fell in love before, she also wanted the man to wear a white shirt and black-rimmed glasses, and her obsession with Shi Yuan has reached the point of being caught in the fire.
Later, because Feng Xiaoqin was clamoring to buy a house, Gu Qingyu decided to find a man with a "Shanghai hukou, no house and single" to marry falsely and buy a big mansion of his own.
So she was so caught off guard by chance to reunite with Shi Yuan.
Shi Yuan was no longer the spirited young squad leader he had been, although his appearance was as polite as he had been, his behavior had already been worn down by life.
He returned from Xinjiang that year and wanted to go back to Shanghai to take the college entrance examination, but his uncle and aunt refused to accept him, and there was no way to take the exam in the local area, but he was mistakenly added sleeping pills to the milk by his mother, resulting in the failure of the exam, and even the undergraduate was not admitted, and finally he could only go to the specialty, and finally became a tour guide.
Shi Mu's kidneys are not good, every year need to spend a huge amount of medical expenses, Shi Yuan only relies on the work of tour guides, can not afford to pay at all, so in between, in addition to translating a few documents for others to earn some money, but also engaged in fake marriage business, that is, the intermediary Xiao Liu's mouth "skin and meat business".
The reunion of Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu was a joy for Gu Qingyu, but it was a heavy blow for Shi Yuan.
Although Gu Qingyu had a feeling of loss and recovery when he met Shi Yuan again, the reality was more cruel than imagined.
Shi Yuan not only engaged in fraudulent marriage activities, but also owed more than 1 million yuan to the financial company, and these debts were a dime for Gu Qingyu, who was not bad money, so she took the initiative to propose.
For the first time, Shi Yuan refused, knowing that he could not give her anything but a burden.
Rejecting Gu Qingyu is Shi Yuan's last dignity.
But when Shi Yuan learned that every boyfriend in Gu Qingyu's past was following his own template, he knew how deep Gu Qingyu's obsession with himself was, and he got married on impulse.
Gu Qingyu thought that she had become a winner in life, but she did not know that this relationship was just to make up for her regrets, and she was far less loving than her mouth in action.
Second, the emptiness of love, the reality of marriage
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan got married hastily and simply, with a marriage certificate and a diamond ring.
Both people are cut first and then played, and after receiving the certificate, they go home to inform the elders that a marriage between a man and a woman is low, but they have ushered in a completely different attitude of the parents of the two parties.
When Gu Shihong saw Shi Yuan, he remembered that he was the polite little boy he used to be, although his career was now in a mess, but Gu Shihong had always praised him, for the happiness of his daughter and for the dignity of Shi Yuan.
Just as Gu Qingyu said: "The words that fathers often hang on their lips are that if the son-in-law is good, the daughter will be good."
Gu Father knew that his daughter was materially rich, and the only regret was love, so when Gu Qingyu met Shi Yuan and found love, he knew that Shi Yuan was not a good person, but in order for his daughter to be happy, he still made a supportive appearance.
But on the side of Shi Yuan's parents, the father thought that his son had picked up a big bargain, but the mother felt sorry for her son.
She couldn't stop mentioning Shi Yuan's doll kiss, the daughter of Huang Sister, who had long since moved to the United States.
At the beginning, I always thought that Shi Mu's self-esteem was ridiculous, that she was no longer decent, and that she was still thinking of the glory of the past.
However, as the plot deepened, I understood that Shi Mu's Qinggao was protecting her son's life for the rest of his life.
She knew that her son was tired enough to run for the family, and if he fell into a marriage like a moon in the water, the blow would be fatal.
Shi Mu's initial impression of Gu Qingyu was that little girl when she was a child, with a general family situation, and the only advantage was that she had a Shanghai hukou, which was a dream she had been looking forward to all her life.
Therefore, when Gu Qingyu married into the Shi family as a savior, Shi Mu's previously only remaining self-esteem was completely trampled by Gu Qingyu's achievements.
The shi family's former sense of superiority is now a joke in the eyes of the Gu family.
Shi Mu did not want her son to live in the pitiful eyes of others, and she did not want her family to become the laughing stock of the Gu family after dinner, so she always held an attitude of rejection towards Gu Qingyu.
She knew how successful Gu Qingyu was now, and she was even more afraid that the sincere bamboo basket that her son who had nothing would be empty.
However, Shi Yuan always believed that his mother only refused to accept Gu Qingyu because she was immersed in the past.
In the original work, it is written: "He spoke to his parents, his voice was more dull than usual, and he seemed to be a little impatient, 'Where do people live?'" Where do we live again? Shi Mu said, "You know, I'm not talking about this. Shi Yuan sighed, as if he were laughing. ”
It can be seen that Shi Yuan himself has always believed in his heart that this marriage is the life-saving straw that Gu Qingyu gave to himself.
Knowing the son Mo Ruomu, Shi Yuan's humility in this marriage, Shi Yuan can see it clearly, which is why she strongly opposes Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan.
Love is illusory, like an illusory dream, but marriage is implemented into the trivial days of chai rice oil and salt, a woman like Gu Qingyu, in the eyes of Shi Mu, it is impossible to live a hard life, and Shi Yuan does not have the strength to give Gu Qingyu the happiness she wants.
So she was afraid of her son's suffering in life and wanted to go again in marriage.
Shi Mu's seemingly unkind, right and wrong is unknown, but in fact, it is a mother's most transparent view.
Third, separation is the best ending
Regarding the marriage between Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, Li Anne commented:
"She said that Shi Yuan had a strong nerve, 'If you change someone else, even if you are a Heavenly Immortal, you will not marry you.'" Gu Qingyu understood the meaning. For married men and women, 'origin' is not necessarily a plus. Knowing each other's past too well, especially when the 'past' and the present form a huge contrast, in this case, instead of meeting again, it is better to be like the poem 'people do not know where to go, peach blossoms still smile spring breeze', leaving some regrets, it is better than seeing the light and dying. ”
But the reality is that it is not shi yuan's nerves that are strong, but that he also wants to have a touch of sweetness in his bitter life.
After marrying Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan was improving compared to the past days.
No longer having to squeeze in the old house with her parents, her mother found the kidney source, and she also relied on Gu Qingyu's relationship to find a decent job and pay off the debt owed to the lending company.
But the hearts of the two people were getting farther and farther apart.
Gu Qingyu hated that Shi Yuan was too clear with himself, and Shi Yuan could not stand Gu Qingyu's charity to himself.
In fact, the obsession of this marriage is not enlightened, for Gu Qingyu, it was once unwilling, she was not willing to be so good that she could not marry the man she had in mind when she was a child.
Therefore, even after marriage, her relationship with Zhan Xiang has always been ambiguous.
She obviously knew how infatuated Zhan Xiang was with herself, but she did not pay any attention to the sense of proportion of the two people, and every time she had a conflict with Shi Yuan, she always looked for Zhan Xiang to relieve her depression.
It can be seen that she regards Shi Yuan as a difficult project to win, and when the process is not smooth, she needs to reflect on the revision plan, and when the plan is implemented as scheduled, she will feel full of achievements.
In the end, the relationship between the two people broke out because of a project.
Cindy of Aimong Company has always wanted to work with Gu Qingyu's Hydrogen Peak Pharmaceutical project, but this project Gu Qingyu has almost negotiated with another company and is about to sign a contract, so Cindy can only start from Shi Yuan.
She saw through the unbalanced marriage of Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu's strong women and weak men, so she used half a million yuan as bait to instigate Shi Yuan to help the company take down Hydrogen Peak Pharmaceutical.
In order to pay off the debt, Shi Yuan took the half a million, and originally wanted to peek at the plan book in Gu Qingyu's computer, but at the last moment he changed his mind and won the project with his own strength.
As a result, his conversation with Cindy was recorded and made public, hindering the relationship between Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu, which Shi Yuan could not argue.
Gu Qingyu was implicated in this, even if he was forced to leave his post, and even said to Shi Yuan that he would forgive his mistake.
But the fact is that Shi Yuan has not moved the plan at all, but Gu Qingyu does not believe it, she would rather think of it as Shi Yuan's villainous behavior than listen to Shi Yuan's explanation.
In the end, Shi Yuan proposed divorce, and this short marriage ended in a misunderstanding between them.
As the saying goes, some things are beautiful because of regret.
If the two had not entered the marriage, they might have become friends with each other, but after getting involved in marriage, they could only become strangers.
Write at the end:
The father and son of the Shi family are happy that Gu Qingyu has become a member of the Shi family, and only Shi Mother can see clearly that this marriage is basically a gorgeous bubble, brilliant for a while, but it cannot last.
The existence of Gu Qingyu always reminds Shi Yuan's downfall, and it is also a constant reminder to Shi Yuan, who could have been on par with Gu Qingyu, because of his own faults, life fell from the sky to the ground, and he could never turn over.
In marriage, this sense of imbalance is the biggest killer of happiness.