The popular TV series "Heart Residence" is very good, and the performances of Haiqing and Zhang Songwen are the most exciting.
Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign daughter-in-law from Shanghai played by Haiqing, said: "In Shanghai, even a foreign daughter-in-law like me who buys vegetables and burns every day understands that the house is a person's face, the inner ring, the outer ring, the central ring, the commercial house, the affordable house, the demolition house, and what kind of house to buy, what kind of person."
Inexplicably sad.
She lives in the same house as her family, but is treated as inferior to them at every turn.
From the first episode to the present, you will find that Haiqing does more housework in one episode than in ten episodes of some other character.
The six members of the Gu family: Grandma, Grandpa, Aunt Gu Qingyu, Gu Lei, Feng Xiaoqin and the little tiger in elementary school.
Only two people are the busiest, the little tiger is busy studying, and Feng Xiaoqin is busy doing almost the whole family's housework.
At the beginning, Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei were married for eight years, but they only had 30,000 yuan in savings. She also thought about borrowing money to buy a house, and the house she liked was more than two and a half million.
Many people complained that Feng Xiaoqin was "not enough for people to swallow an elephant by a snake." But if you think about it carefully, why is there no way for Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin's home to develop? Is it just the reason why Feng Xiaoqin herself did not go out to work?
I found that their whole family was actually very shrewd and lazy.
Gu Qingyu is a rich person, before she married, in her own home, she did not do housework at all, how can not say.
But she was highly educated and capable, and she didn't want to be trapped in housework, so she bought a house and moved out to be a queen in her own home, looking for an aunt to do housework to take care of herself.
This is also one of the reasons why she especially does not want her brother and sister-in-law to buy a house, if even Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin have moved out, who will take care of the two elderly people in the family?
Therefore, in terms of doing housework, Gu Qingyu has his own selfish intentions.
Grandma is so old that taking a pill needs someone else to help her distinguish it. But why did Feng Xiaoqin do it? Taking good care of Grandma is originally Grandpa Gu's obligation.
Every two weeks, this big family of people will have dinner, and it is Feng Xiaoqin who turns like a top before and after being busy.
All the relatives are very good at looking at the face, come to drink tea and chat, so many dishes, after eating there are many dishes to wash, all operated by Feng Xiaoqin alone, the only helper, is her sister who rubs and eats at home, the Gu family is stunned to put the small house, live out of the feeling of the Big View Garden.
After Gu Lei died unexpectedly, Feng Xiaoqin was sad for several days, almost without eating or drinking. The family blindly complained about her, did not call her at the table, and let her go hungry.
But when Feng Xiaoqin figured it out and cheered up, she became the most industrious and desperate person in the Gu family.
Get up early every morning and deliver food rain or shine. At this time, I thought that at least someone in her family would help her, but unfortunately there was no.
There is a line in "The Godfather": Softness without boundaries will only make the other party inch; unprincipled benevolence will only make the other party do whatever it wants.
Feng Xiaoqin ran into the vegetable market, hurriedly bought vegetables, and then hurriedly ran home, not even drinking saliva, not even daring to breathe, and rushing into the kitchen to work.
And her father-in-law, and little tiger's grandmother, as always, sat in the living room watching TV.
Once she was 8 minutes late for delivering food, obviously helped customers throw garbage, and was also complained by the other party, waiting for her is bad reviews and deductions.
In a bad mood, she was even in a car accident and was once knocked unconscious on the side of the road.
However, Grandpa Gu waited until he received a call from the school before he had to pick up his grandson from school.
Feng Xiaoqin arrived home hungry and sleepy, and was complained by her grandmother that she "did not cook and did not clean up." He also summed it up in front of the little tiger: "I will see people's hearts for a long time."
The reason why this Gu family is not developed is really for a reason. They don't know how to be grateful, they only know how to take.
It is hard to imagine, with this grandmother, what kind of life did Gu Lei's mother live before she died? And why did he die so early?
Just because they have a Shanghai hukou, they are on top. But the daughter-in-law is also a human being, and eight years of making cattle and horses is a stone, and it is also hot.
Some people may say that the elderly should enjoy the blessings.
However, this family, except for Gu Qingyu, who has become a rich man, the others add up, and even the middle class is not counted, and they simply can't afford to hire a nanny, so why did they coax Feng Xiaoqin to give up her job 8 years ago?
Families with general conditions should be more energetic to make a place, grandma can simply take care of themselves, grandpa try to help cook as much as possible, let Gu Xiaoqin go out early in the morning to find a job, in order to hug the group to warm, grow together, and live a prosperous life, better and better.
Originally, the old people in this family were still in good health and could take care of themselves, and they had to "do", ordinary well-off families, and they had to become rich people's style. If Gu Lei had not died unexpectedly, the family would have declined day by day.
How much ability you have, what life you live.
Living so tired, Feng Xiaoqin herself also has some responsibilities.
She likes big bags too much, even her sister watched her work hard to help her, she was afraid that her sister would be looked down upon, and said to her: "No, you are also a guest, you also go to watch TV."
Grandpa Gu had advised Grandma to say Feng Xiaoqin in front of the little tiger. But his starting point is still not to care about Feng Xiaoqin, but to worry that if she remarries, she will take the little tiger away.
Let the sister who has found a job go out to rent a house, let the husband who does not want to study share more housework, let the father-in-law help pick up the children, and go out early to find a job. Earn money, earn not only money, but also dignity!
Women don't know how to hurt themselves, and no one hurts you. They assume that you don't need to care.
Yan Lingyang said: This society is not "no woman's share of speaking", but "there is no weak person's share of speaking".
If you are a strong person, others will only see you "strong", but not you "female".
Share. When a woman has taken on too many responsibilities in her marriage and is not respected, please think about it more, you are also the baby of your own parents.