●Author ╳Song Song ●Source public name ╳Wanyang woman
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"Heart Residence" broadcast to the finale, more and more interesting.
Feng Xiaoqin, who once had to buy a house and caused the unexpected death of her husband, actually met the rich second generation who liked her after the widow, and as long as she nodded, she immediately gave her a large villa.
The development of this plot is so mysterious that even Feng Xiaoqin herself said:
"Who is this, how could he make such a joke in my life?"
Unexpectedly, Feng Xiaoqin, who wanted a small house in her heart, resolutely rejected the big villa this time.
Feng Xiaoqin's once mantra was: "When the sky falls, you must buy a house." ”
She has no academic qualifications, and after marrying her husband Gu Lei in Shanghai, she has been a housewife diligently for eight years, and has served the family extremely well.
In the eyes of outsiders, her life is good.
Although he lives with his father-in-law, he is a big house in Shanghai, and his husband Gu Lei is not motivated, but he is obedient, and his father-in-law and eldest sister have money and are willing to often subsidize Gu Lei.
As long as she is willing, she can live a stable life with her husband for the rest of her life.
But she didn't want to.
She forced her husband to learn finance, forced her son to study hard, and forced herself to buy a house:
"I dreamed of owning my own house, taking my parents, brothers and sisters over, and becoming a real Shanghainese."
To this end, she forced her husband to borrow money from her eldest sister, knowing that her husband was soft, and she also wrote a "loan word" for her husband.
The eldest sister does have money, buying a house of 20 million yuan does not blink, she is willing to lend to her brother, but is not willing to lend to Feng Xiaoqin, afraid that Feng Xiaoqin has an outside heart, and her brother is pinched by her.
The house could not be bought, Feng Xiaoqin began to lose her temper, quarreled with her husband without a word, and ran away from home at every turn.
When she ran away from home again, her husband, who was chasing her, was too anxious, rolled down the stairs and hit the glass, and died unexpectedly.
Because of the house, losing her husband, this thing made Feng Xiaoqin regret it very much.
Hate yourself for not pushing your husband so hard.
But she still wanted a house of her own.
Therefore, later, she would refuse the villa sent by the second generation of the rich, which was really surprising.
Fu Er Dai Xiaoding liked her very much, and after more than a month of dating, he planned to take her to see her parents, and also took her to see the marriage room, and said: "As long as you nod, the house is yours." ”
How trench is that marriage room?
Feng Xiaoqin's eyes were glowing: "I have seen a big house, I have never seen such a big house, the lights in the living room are more than ten meters high, there is an elevator in the house, the fitness equipment in the basement I have never seen, the roof can also soak in the hot spring, you can see the church, the scenery is not too good ..."
but! She still refused!
Her sister asked questions for all viewers:
"You married Gu Lei also for the Sake of Shanghai Hukou, and Xiao Ding can have better conditions than Gu Lei."
Feng Xiaoqin's answer was:
"Differently, I saw Gu Lei's heart pounding. I don't feel anything for Xiao Ding, and I'm not happy together. Happy days. ”
It seems, is it because of love?
I don't think so, love is the most hypocritical thing in the face of reality.
In front of the little girl who is not deeply involved in the world, we may be able to talk about the wonder of fate with the drama of the prince falling in love with Cinderella, but people who have really rolled the knife in life know that intimate relationships do have love, but don't just say love, otherwise they are afraid of laughter.
In my opinion, Feng Xiaoqin's change is actually because of the improvement of self-worth.
When she was with Gu Lei, she did not feel her own value.
Although she got up early and took care of the family, she lowered her posture and figure to please and beg.
But the Gu family did not recognize her value.
The Gu family sat around in a group of intimate watching TV, and Feng Xiaoqin was busy like a gyroscope.
Gu family affairs, gu family several people are always locked in the house to talk, the light is avoiding her.
The eldest sister had a birthday, she had the heart to knit the scarf, but also to her liking, pasted the Lv logo on the scarf, but the eldest sister was very disgusted, and gave it to the hourly worker.
So, rather than desperately wanting a suite, she's doing everything she can to long – why don't you see me giving 8 years? Why do you think I don't have the value of buying a house?
After Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin, who had lost her dependence, began to rely on herself.
Her sense of self is also slowly waking up.
As a delivery man, she helped a group of elderly people solve the problem of eating, and after receiving the thanks, she realized her value for the first time: "Their smiles made me particularly satisfied, and at this moment, I felt that I was needed by this city." 」 ”
Later, she discovered the business opportunity for the elderly and persuaded her boss to invest in the nursing home.
The boss has money but a big heart, and the big and small chores of the nursing home are all handled by Feng Xiaoqin.
But it is also this "housekeeper' job, so that she shoulders the staff of the nursing home, supports the physical and mental health of a large group of elderly people, and forces her to take another step:
"I used to force my husband, my sister, my brother, until I had this nursing home, I realized that this was the only thing I was doing for myself in my life." 」
Later, even the boss praised her: "Feng Xiaoqin is also strange, especially shrewd when doing business, sometimes there is a special simplicity, has always stressed that we can not forget the original intention of running a nursing home, I really admire her, her perseverance, worthy of respect." ”
Even, took the initiative to give Feng Xiaoqin 10% of the shares of the nursing home!
Because she was needed, seen, and recognized, Feng Xiaoqin at this time really felt "self-worth".
She no longer needs to use the external house to pray for the approval of others.
Therefore, she began to let go of her obsession with the house and seriously live her own little life.
Remember a story.
A woman consulted the expert: "I have been a full-time mother at home for three years, I really can't stand it, I want to go out of social work immediately, what job can I find, can I make money right away?" ”
The expert's answer was very interesting, he said:
"You stay at home for three years, which shows that your family situation is not so short of money; the reason why you want to make money immediately is actually because you want to quickly find self-worth; this lack of self-worth and want to make money immediately will make you a leek."
So it doesn't matter if you're looking for a lucrative job or not, whether it's a job or a full-time job.
Most importantly, no matter what situation you are in, you have to find your own value. ”
It seems that this story has nothing to do with Feng Xiaoqin's story, but it is essentially the same.
When we self-deny, self-attack, and have no self-worth, it is easy to have some obsessions, such as proving our own value through other external factors such as "buying a house", "making money", "marrying a tycoon", etc. This mentality will make us paranoid and confused.
But when we find ourselves and affirm our own value, we suddenly find:
All the outwards cannot compete with the inner satisfaction.
The ending of "Heart Dwelling" is a big surprise.
After discussing with the eldest sister, the father-in-law decided to buy a suite for Feng Xiaoqin, and the name of Feng Xiaoqin was written on the real estate deed!
The plot reversal, we will not discuss, but this is really ironic.
Once, when she desperately wanted a house, she couldn't get it;
Now, while she was busy being herself, the house was in front of her.
Life is really interesting!
Many people think that there is a house to have a home; later, they found that where the heart is, the home is there.
The so-called heart dwelling, after all, is to find a stable home for your heart!