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Elegant old man
2 hours ago
Invited to answer: Do not call each other's parents "parents" is that you do not understand...
1. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a relationship of marriage, a kind of interpersonal relationship maintained by your marriage relationship with your husband. If you dissolve your marriage with your husband, you call them parents, and they won't agree, because they're not. Now in the marriage relationship, you don't call them parents, they are also your parents.
2. The mother-in-law relationship is the most difficult interpersonal relationship in a combined family. There are many contradictions, but most of them are trivial and trivial, and they are also the things that your mother-in-law should not take care of. She has more daughters-in-law's opinions, no matter that her daughter-in-law also has opinions. Grandma Li did her best to help them buy vegetables, cook, clean up, take care of children, wash clothes, busy from morning to night, tired waist sore and leg pain. The daughter-in-law said to help her wash her bra panties and spy on her privacy, and she was not happy. So why don't you wash yourself? Change the door lock to let the mother-in-law eat the closed door stem.
Mother Wang didn't care about these things, how she lived. Travel, dance, play with self-media. They also disliked her selfishness, laziness, and happiness, and threatened to ignore them when they were old, and what should they do when they were old?
It is reasonable to say that the responsibility of a person is two generations, to honor her parents and to raise her children. Their mission was accomplished. The law does not stipulate that the in-laws must see their grandchildren, nor does it stipulate that the daughter-in-law is in charge of the in-laws, but your husband has an obligation!
3. Your husband was born and raised by your in-laws, and this truth will never change. You and your in-laws are jumping with the flying dog, eating in the middle, embarrassed, confused is not the person you love, understand?
4. You also have children, you will also be a mother-in-law in the future, to treat your mother-in-law well is to be kind to yourself, to be kind to the elderly today, is to be kind to your own Heaven. The in-laws' pension may not depend on you, but you are grateful.
5.. Why, you ask? It is that you can't talk, can't be punished, won't be a person, and has low emotional intelligence, otherwise the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be bad, and it will not be reconciled. If you can do your own things well, don't let your in-laws worry about it. If you smile and greet each other, your parents are commensurate, you have something to learn, something to discuss, what problems can't be solved? I hope what I said will help you a little.