Men and women fall in love by feeling, as long as they look at each other and feel happy together, but if they are running towards marriage, then they must seriously think about it. For example, the family background, income, and work of both parties must be more compatible before marriage can be considered.
Of course, these are external conditions, and the internal conditions also depend on the personality, temperament, three views, etc. of the two people are more compatible, and they will be happy when combined, otherwise even if the door is not necessarily happy about marriage.
Now many men and women are busy starting a business when they are young, have no time to fall in love, and wait until they are older to remember that they have not yet tasted the taste of love. But at this time, people of the same age are already married and have children, and it is almost impossible to find a suitable single.
Then if you really want to fall in love and get married, you must go to the marriage market. Just like the following Hao big sister, she is 44 years old this year, but she has not yet fallen in love and married. So will she be able to find the one that suits her?
Hao Dajie, 44 years old, is the owner of a beauty salon, is also an Internet celebrity, and she also does live singing every night. When Hao Was Young, she did not fall in love because she was busy with her career, and now when she is older, she wants to find a suitable person to spend the second half of her life.
The first man that Red Niang introduced to Sister Hao was Brother Liu. Brother Liu is 48 years old this year, once a rich second generation, and now the family conditions are not bad. Brother Liu went to the bathhouse some time ago to take a bath and slipped, and his foot was injured, but in order to find the other half as soon as possible, he still came to the blind date scene with a foot injury.
When Brother Liu and Sister Hao met, the two people turned out to be old acquaintances, friends of Qingmei Bamboo Horse who grew up together. When Brother Liu asked Hao why she was not married at this age, Sister Hao said that it was difficult to find a suitable one.
Big Brother Liu asked Sister Hao what kind of person she wanted to find? Sister Hao said that it must be a man with a sense of responsibility and a sense of enterprise, who does not drink alcohol and takes care of his family, and whose income is relatively high, such a man is really difficult to find.
When Brother Liu heard these conditions put forward by Sister Hao, he said that two people came together by fate, but it is happiness to be able to go down together. Brother Liu said that the most important thing to find the other half is to have feelings, because he and Sister Hao have been known as brothers and sisters since childhood, and they are acquaintances, so there is no such feeling between men and women.
Since Elder Brother Liu and Elder Sister Hao did not call, the Red Lady had to find another one for Elder Sister Hao.
Coincidentally, the second man is also surnamed Liu, but he is only 42 years old, two years younger than Sister Hao. The man surnamed Liu. He is a self-employed man who runs a fish shop in a wet market.
Hao Dajie asked the man surnamed Liu how much money he could make in a year, and the man said that he could earn 100,000 yuan a year, because the business in these years was not as good as in previous years, and the previous few years could be used for three years.
Sister Hao is still a little disdainful of the man's income, because Sister Hao said that if a man does not earn 300,000 yuan a year, then there is no need for him to get married. Sister Hao asked the man what kind of house it was like? Is it a suite in the community, the man said that he was the house he bought before, it is a 5-story old building.
Hao Dajie said that if two people can be together, can you change a house, the man said yes, and the man has no opinion on Hao Dajie's high consumption method, he said that he is willing to take money to Hao Dajie to spend, and women should take advantage of their youth to dress themselves.
The man surnamed Liu still has a good feeling for Sister Hao, but Sister Hao still feels inappropriate, because the annual income of the man surnamed Liu does not reach the more than 300,000 he requires. Sister Hao said that she was also very good, but it was still a bit unsightly in terms of economic income.
The man surnamed Liu asked Sister Hao to leave a contact information, the two people can talk slowly, Sister Hao also agreed, she said that the two people can also be friends. So they exchanged phone numbers with each other.
The blind date also ended in failure.
Netizen views:
Some netizens quite agree with this big sister, saying that when the woman is older, she wants to prefer to be absent and not indiscriminate, and must find a rich one. How old and ugly men are, as long as they have money, they can find young, why can't women ask men to have money?
Some netizens think that Hao Dajie looks quite temperamental, and economically independent, she can completely find a suitable one for herself, and do not want to do it.
Some netizens think that since people can earn 300,000 yuan a year, why not go find a young girl? Still coming to a 44-year-old woman like you? This woman is still living in her dream, wake up.
Editor's opinion:
Hao Dajie has higher requirements for her other half, which can also be understood, because she is financially independent, she does not have to rely on men at all, if she finds someone who will make money without herself, then she will rely on her to support the family, which is not as good as single.
However, if you start from a practical point of view, Hao Dajie's age is not young, and it is very difficult to find a man with such good economic conditions and excellent performance in all aspects.
Because a man who is not married at this age is either in very poor condition, or the conditions are very good, the conditions are very good, and he will not choose a woman like Hao Dajie's age. Poor conditions, Hao Dajie can't see it, so it's really a little difficult to find a suitable one.
In any case, marriage is still about fate, and I hope that Sister Hao can meet a good marriage of her own.