If I remember correctly, I remember that there was a period of time when "Yuezi Vendetta" was very popular on the Internet, and the topics of bao moms were all complaining about the terrible behavior of "cruel mother-in-law". There was a lot of commotion.
So how did the "confinement feud" come about?
It is nothing more than why women should be embarrassed by women, and those grudges and entanglements in the confinement period. Because the hormone level in the third trimester fluctuates greatly, resulting in the body can not be properly regulated, the emergence of endocrine disorders lead to emotional phenomena, mainly inclined to pessimism, at this time the mother's heart is very sensitive, the need is the care of the family, the care of the husband. Some mothers-in-law who are obviously people who have come over, but they have to do things, not only do not understand but also have to make things difficult for people, and pull hatred alive, and the grudges they have formed at this time must be remembered for a lifetime.
It is not that the daughter-in-law is difficult to speak, and the mother-in-law is not reasonable. But this is the contradiction of the two reasons for the feud of the moon. Today, let's comment on the mother-in-law's strongest "brutal behavior".
1. Do not respect the privacy of the daughter-in-law.
This is one of the most frustrating behaviors compared to son preference. There is always such a type of mother-in-law who does not know how to grasp the balance between her and her son after starting a family, which not only brings a lot of inconvenience to the son and daughter-in-law, but also makes the atmosphere very embarrassing.
This has to be the arrest of Xiao Xiao's housewife as a "model". Because there is a local custom, that is, the newlyweds want to live with their families for a period of time, Xiao Xiao and his two sons in order not to destroy the customs, specially asked for leave to go back to live with the old two for half a month.
A few days ago, it was fine, and the mother-in-law got along harmoniously, after all, the relationship was still a little distance after just getting married, but in the last few days, Xiao Xiao began to find that her mother-in-law exposed her "fox tail". That day she went out shopping and came back early, and found her mother-in-law lying in her room, rummaging through boxes and cabinets in their rooms looking for things, of course, Xiao Xiao did not dare to tell her husband, after all, it was a family.
Until this one thing happened, Xiao Xiao couldn't help it, that day her husband was bathing in it, and her mother-in-law opened the door so suddenly and went in, she also thought that her mother-in-law didn't know that someone was taking a bath inside, so she said: xx bathed in it. The mother-in-law retorted: I know, my son can't see what he can't see in the bath, I went to rub him in the bath! At that time, they were shocked to be so disrespectful of other people's privacy!
2, super control of the mother-in-law
Most mothers-in-law have a strong desire to control, which should be said to be a woman's desire to control, which is also the original reason for the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
First to urge marriage, and then to promote children. Sometimes together with the house are required to be governed. After the birth of the child, the competition for the control of the child begins. I think living in such a family, it must be very suffocating, such behavior is very brutal.
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