My family is urging marriage again, and as a post-95, I am not young. I talked about an object at work, and it was also her first love, but I was not her first love. After three years at work, I found that her temper was not as gentle as when I first met, and even a little bad, but I don't know if she was very good at hiding before, or if she had a chance outburst. I don't distrust her because he gave me the feeling that, like the previously written article, was real, not fake, though harmonized.
The family urged marriage very tightly, saying that the materials such as money and house require you not to worry, but what I was worried about was never these, because marriage was not the two marriage certificates, and the bed after the fact. What exactly does marriage bring us? In the previous society, most marriages were door-to-door, it was the love of two people, it was two people living together, and now I don't know much about what marriage is. Before I thought that marriage was the friendship between two people just right, after acquaintance, acquaintance, love, marriage, having children, I understand that you do not have good intentions, you know that I am plotting against you, and then in this mutual passion, it is all whitehead. But this may only be the ideal view of love.
In today's social situation, there are very few people who fall in love at first sight, and most of them are suitable, living together, in order to give an account to their parents and family. In this relationship, it's just that there are you just right. Just like for me now, what I think about is not only how much the bride price is, how much flat the house is, what the car wants, but also what the character of this girl is, whether I will marry home, whether I will not be compatible with my parents, whether I will not be compatible with my relatives. Because, our parents have been working for us all our lives. Our current family, really and truly, has just stepped out of the mountains after the reform and opening up, and I don't want to let my parents suffer the uneasiness brought to them by my marriage in their later years after a lifetime of hard work, and also bear the little economic vacation they have left because of my wedding. Bringing them more troubles and pains, I don't want my uncertain marriage to affect my entire hard-won family. Because I know my family, I know that behind the harmony is my parents who are silently suffering these sufferings.
Marriage is not only the two documents, not just the life in that bed after marriage, but also the pressure brought about by the follow-up, the economy, materiality, the state of the child's life, the impact on the previous family and the quality of the family formed, I mean the character, not education, because this we can learn, the day after tomorrow can change that is not a problem. So I'm afraid of marriage, I'm afraid because I don't understand, because my choices cause too much misfortune