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Home is the source of our happiness and the warm harbor that we can rely on when we are sad and wronged.
As long as you have a happy and harmonious family, even if you encounter grievances outside, or have a lot of pressure, when you return home, you can feel the warmth, and calm down and readjust yourself.
Of course, a happy family is not innate, but needs people in the family to maintain and protect. For women, choosing a marriage means starting a new family and embarking on another journey in life.
Whether the family is happy or not has a lot to do with women; whether the family is prosperous or not also depends on how women will operate.
Lawrence said, "The family you will have is more important than the one you came from." ”
With a happy native family, a woman can feel a lot of joy and happiness in the twenty or thirty years before marriage. However, after having a marriage, a woman's life will change a lot.
When getting married, every woman will hope that the family she is about to have can still be happy and stable, can be carefree, can prosper, and make life better and better in the future.
Women hope so, naturally also know how to run this family, married life can develop in the direction they want.
Whether a woman can run a family well, the most direct way is to see how the woman "spends money", and naturally know that the family can prosper.
01 When spending money, it is a whim or reasonable consumption.
When faced with marriage, we all have a lot to think about. Not only will they consider the personality, personality, and other external conditions of the other party, but also analyze the appearance of the other party's "spending money".
Especially for men, they will want to marry someone who knows how to run a family.
If you meet a woman who spends money very casually, even if she has a good feeling at the beginning, she will slowly lose this good feeling when she gets along.
Even if a man chooses to get married because he loves this woman very much, in the married life, the woman's casual behavior of spending money will make it difficult for the family to prosper.
Before marriage, women can spend as much as they want with their own pleasures. But after marriage, life is no longer just the woman's alone, and the woman needs to take into account the common interests of this small family.
In order to make the married life happy and satisfying, when spending money, women have to spend it reasonably, rather than spending money on a whim.
Tolstoy said: "All happy families are very similar; and each unhappy family has its own misfortunes." ”
In a happy family, when a woman spends money, it must be a reasonable consumption, and the economic situation of the family will be taken into account, so that the family can prosper.
02 Whether to consider the long term and control the balance of payments.
Generally speaking, when we choose marriage, we will consider the long term and consider many things. After all, marriage is not a child's play, since you have chosen, you must go on well and make the marriage more fulfilling.
When we marry the person we love, we all have only one purpose, that is, two people work hard and manage the marriage well, so that the future life will be more prosperous, happier and more harmonious.
For women, love is a lifelong career, after marriage, they will only want to guard their marriage and create their own happy life.
It's just that for some women, it is difficult to control themselves in the matter of spending money, and sometimes they don't think too much about what they like, and they just feel like it and buy it.
But in the end, it was not very practical at all, or it was not liked after a while.
In short, this kind of consumption that only considers the present will often cause a waste. If we want a family to be more and more prosperous, we must try to make money while also knowing how to spend it.
Smart women tend to stay calm when spending money, and consider the long term in order to control the balance of the family,So as to prevent panic when encountering accidents and reduce a lot of trouble.
03 A woman who runs a family can balance the relationship between husband and wife by "spending money".
George Bernard Shaw said: "The relationship between husband and wife after marriage is not a unilateral demand and giving, and each must do his best and get what he wants, so that he can play to the extreme." ”
Couples want to get along more harmoniously, in many things, they must know how to balance the relationship between husband and wife, spend money, naturally is also one of them.
We often meet women who love to dress up, or shop, or play. However, while they enjoy life, they ignore their husbands' feelings.
It's like they always like to buy clothes for themselves, but they won't buy them for their husbands for a long time, and they will control their husbands' problems of spending money.
For such a thing, although men will not say anything on their lips, in their hearts, there will be times of disappointment. The more selfish a woman is when it comes to spending money, the easier it is to destroy the feelings between husband and wife. Such a woman will also make men feel that women don't care about them at all.
Women should know that the better the relationship between husband and wife, the more motivated men will be when they work. If you want to balance the relationship between husband and wife, smart women will definitely consider men when spending money, and they will be a good family.
Johnson said: "The joy of the home is the ultimate goal of all ambitions, the end of all career labor." ”
If a family wants to prosper, first of all, the atmosphere of the family must be harmonious and joyful, even in the matter of spending money, it must not affect the feelings of husband and wife.
How a woman spends money often directly affects whether the family can thrive or not. Women who know how to spend money must understand these truths, not only can they maintain a good family, but also maintain a good husband and wife relationship by spending money.