Can the love given be taken back?
Obviously, sincerity towards a person is like pouring water.
If the other person cherishes you, it is certainly worth it.
If you meet someone who doesn't care about you, all the time and effort you've put in, and even everything you've put in, will go down the drain and be absolutely irretrievable.
In fact, when a relationship ends.
It is a rare thing for a person to be able to come out calmly.
After all, everyone has feelings, and feelings are things that can really be taken but can't be put down. In fact, there is a "Zeynick effect" in psychology that proves this.
If a relationship does not have a happy ending, the relationship will linger in the heart and cannot really let go. With the passage of time, only that moment will be remembered, and it will also turn into pain in the heart.
Do you know? After the couple separates, if a person still loves you, he will often pay attention to you like this.
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Your message will touch his heart.
The depth of fate determines the length of love.
Therefore, separation is a common phenomenon in love.
Even if one day we are separated, in each other's hearts, you never leave.
If that person is still deeply in love with you, he may continue to pay attention to your life, ask for information about you through mutual friends, and get to know your friends through social connections.
He may secretly follow your social media and rely on sparse updates for some comfort.
At a friend's party, he may even bring up the topic of your pretended indifference; This is not hypocrisy, but a sign of his attentive love for you.
So, if a person still loves you, even if you break up, he will remain interested enough in everything about you, and his emotions will change because of your affairs.
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When you are lost, he will care for you silently.
Many lovers break up.
They will choose the way of "preferring life and death not to touch".
While this may seem decisive and cold, it helps people forget the past more quickly and stop dwelling on the emotions of the past.
This way of dealing with it is also the attitude that many people choose when facing a breakup.
Some people feel resentment after a relationship ends, hoping that their ex will not be able to live in peace after they leave.
However, the person who truly loves you will not choose resentment and jealousy because they can't be together. Even if the relationship ends, he will still bless the other person and cherish the love given in the past.
Especially when you are frustrated, he will silently support you.
It is because a heart is still with you that this person will do everything in their power to help you.
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As much as I love you, I won't bother you anymore.
When a relationship ends.
The intimacy between the two is gone.
Since then, there is no longer any fetters between the two, and they have embarked on a long journey of life.
However, in the emotional world, some people, after a breakup, continue to interfere in each other's lives under the banner of love. They live in a state of self-deception.
And the person who truly loves you will choose to protect you silently instead of interfering with you.
When you're single, the people who love you may still be thinking about getting back together. On the one hand, I will treat you well, and on the other hand, I will try to fulfill your relationship, hoping that you can go back to the past.
If it's you, you've met a new destiny.
People who have you in their hearts and want you to be happy will silently pay attention to you. But he is afraid of disturbing you, so he will only hide his thoughts and will not express them.
Because I love you, a person is afraid of affecting your life.
There are conditions for love.
If two people sympathize with each other, and their status is also appropriate.
Then such two people can be together without hesitation, walk hand in hand in the long river of love, and grasp the fate in front of them together. No matter how many obstacles there are, both sides are able to face and overcome them.
Still, if it turns out.
The meeting of two people was just a mistake.
They get along as lovers, but they can't find a sense of happiness and can't get along with each other. In this case, the couple may stop their losses in time or even choose to separate.
But how can you give up someone you've loved?
There is often a person who values feelings very much, but still keeps love in his heart, always silently pays attention to the other person, and even helps that person. However, due to objective factors, I will not continue to bother you.
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