Recently, a friend asked in small talk, where is the meaning of men getting married now, I really don't understand, and I heard that now the wife does not even have the obligation to take care of her in-laws. This kind of question, I listened, oops. This is a big problem, for a while I can't think clearly and can't say well, friends have been married one after another, and few people will doubt this matter. Later, I went to ask some of my married friends what they thought.
As a result, the words of some friends with a history of marriage have really given me a lot of insight. They will feel that in fact, men are more realistic than women. When talking about marriage, I hope that the woman will not have a bride price, and after marriage, she will have children for him, take care of her parents, and have a stable job, the salary cannot be too low, cannot reach out to him for money, and still think of not paying wages. But he himself can't buy a house and a car in full, so there are many reasons to dislike women for worshiping gold. I have seen countless cases where after a daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, the in-laws treat her like an outsider, as long as she is not good to her grandchildren, she is an enemy, and it is clear that she is a fertility machine plus a nanny who takes care of herself.
If it is to marry a wife and take care of parents, why not go to a nanny? Since you save the nanny money, will you give your wife a salary to take care of? Originally there is no blood relation, taking care of the love of looking, not taking care of is the duty! It makes sense to talk about the law! If there is no point in not getting married, then don't tie the knot! I also have hands and feet, isn't it better to take care of my parents by myself!
Men earn money to support their families. In the future, parents and mother-in-law and father-in-law will need to spend money. Women who have the energy can be properly taken care of. Her own parents want her to be better. Mutual understanding and respect. Men can also help the lining. If the woman is capable. Men can also wash and cook. Of course both are great, so hire a babysitter. Marriage is about mutual understanding, tolerance and equal giving. Mutual distrust and what to do together.
I think this is the responsibility, we ourselves will be old one day, then we also need our own sons and daughters-in-law to take care of, empathy, if we are old and no one to take care of the final result is similar. Now many people just want to be comfortable with themselves, and they don't think about things at all in the future, and live well now. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is selfish, if you are too selfish, under the long-term influence, your children will also be affected, and maybe when you are old, your sons and daughters-in-law are not willing to take care of you, because this is all learned from you.
In fact, everything depends on people, as long as it is worth it, who would not want to take on anything with you? Not only do the man's parents have to be taken care of for the elderly, but don't the woman's parents also need the man to take care of them together? People are really mutual, if one party is selfish, and the whole moth makes people's hearts cold, who wants to take care of you, whether it is in-laws and daughters-in-law, or son-in-law and mother-in-law, any role must have a degree. Two strange families become a family, the middle two contact talent is the focus, you two ways of doing things, determine the future state of getting along.