Wen | Ashap
In the blind date circle, there is a strange phenomenon that if you don't have money, it is difficult to find a partner, and even if you are lucky enough to get married, two people will argue endlessly because of their poor days.
Because marriage is based on mutual understanding and love between the two parties. However, in real life, there will always be some people who just need money.
Just like some women want a sky-high bride price to get married, some women have to buy a house and a car, and some men want to get it for free, find a very rich woman, and live a comfortable life.
In short, for money, for less struggle, there are all kinds of people. So, it makes it difficult for some people who want to really get married to meet a true lover.
01. Don't get married, AA buy a house
Xiaofei (pseudonym), originally had a girlfriend who loved each other, but the girl's mother saw that Xiaofei did not have a house and no car at that time, and did not agree with them to be together.
The girl's family came together, making them unable to work and live normally, and the two had to break up.
Xiaofei was heartbroken, so he went to work in other places, he was capable, and after just a few years, he achieved wealth freedom and saved a sum of money for himself to buy a house.
His mother began to give her son Zhang Luo objects in her hometown, and after being introduced, Xiaofei met with the blind date girl Xiaohua (pseudonym).
At the first meeting, Xiaohua asked about his situation from the inside out, and heard that Xiaofei earned 9800 yuan a month, and his eyes were straight.
Because Xiaofei's hometown is in a remote town, their per capita salary there is generally about 3,000 yuan, and Xiaohua works in a supermarket, only 2500 yuan a month.
So, when she heard that the salary was so high, she wanted to catch this man.
At that time, Xiaohua made a decision. She said to Xiaofei: "We are not small, listen to the family's arrangements to settle the marriage as soon as possible, so that you can also work with peace of mind, and, please rest assured, our family does not want a bride price, when we buy a house, I will take 50,000 yuan and you AA." ”
Such a "good girl", Xiaofei met for the first time, he was also a little moved at the time, who did not want to find a woman who made herself spend less money.
02. Girl: The house writes my name alone
I thought I was a lucky man, but as a result, Xiao Hua's next words made Xiao Fei feel like a deflated ball.
Xiaohua's family conditions are more difficult, her parents are patriarchal, she came out to find a partner, first of all, to see the money, and secondly to fight for the greatest interests of her parents.
The reason why she wants to bear part of the money for buying a house with Xiaofei is because she wants to take her parents and brother's family to the new house after marriage.
She felt that she was the daughter of the family, and the premise of marriage was to seek benefits for her mother's family.
XiaoFei is an only child, the monthly income is so high, and his parents have retirement wages, compared to Xiaohua's parents have nothing, this condition is really very good.
Mainly Xiaohua has a lot of blind dates, has not met high-income men, and some of the conditions are very good and do not look up to her.
According to Xiao Hua's thoughts, she also retreated to Xiao Fei to seek second.
She was already realistic, and did not bend with Xiaofei, and said bluntly: "I take 50,000 yuan, only ask the house to write my name, and then I will bear the mortgage with you, the house in our hometown is a bit broken, when the time comes, my parents and brother and sister-in-law are taken to our new house to live, you can't have an opinion." ”
Xiao Fei looked at her alone with conditions, he laughed at himself for being too naïve, thinking that he had met a good girl who knew what was reasonable, and it turned out that he had come with a purpose.
03. Girl: You give me 5,000 yuan a month
Xiao Hua's demands had already made Xiao Fei feel cold, and she was still complacent, thinking that Xiao Fei did not speak to agree to what she said.
Then, she said again unreasonably: "After getting married, you give me 5,000 yuan a month for family expenses, my mother's family of five plus us, a total of seven people's life, 5,000 is not necessarily enough, but it doesn't matter, we are husband and wife, we don't need to calculate so clearly, the living expenses are not enough, I will make up for it." ”
Xiao Fei asked her, "If I take my parents over, do I have to buy the biggest house?" ”
XiaoHua is proud, she feels that she and Xiaofei can succeed, and she did not hear Xiaofei's unspoken meaning at all, which is a satire on the two people getting married and living with their families.
She also answered Xiaofei's question very seriously: "Your parents don't have a house, you don't have to let them live, do you think it's all my family to live, it's unfair to you, I didn't say it, I will also pay 50,000 yuan." ”
Listening to Xiao Hua nagging for a while, Xiao Fei's patience ran out, and he stood up directly and said: "No, we are not suitable, and there is no point in discussing the purchase of a house." ”
When Xiao Fei left, he didn't look at Xiao Hua, he felt that he would definitely meet a woman who really loved each other and did not marry for money.
04. Only by understanding the nature of marriage can we achieve true happiness
The premise of marriage is that two people love each other.
The essence of marriage is that both men and women rely on each other and play a role in helping each other in life.
If one of the parties is running before marriage and bringing more benefits to themselves, then even if the marriage is established, the future days will be a chicken feather.
Because you don't live your life sincerely, you won't do your best for the sake of your family.
People who marry for the sake of profit, in life, only want to get more money for themselves and work less.
People who aim to get married are meant to live a good life, not only to love each other, but also to get happiness for themselves.
With the reality and selfishness of human nature, it is becoming more and more obvious that most women use marriage as a tool for profit.
However, people who truly love each other are becoming more and more difficult to find, and many people can only find their favorite objects through blind dates.
However, female friends on blind dates basically look at the conditions first, and although some people care about the conditions, they are only guaranteed for their future lives.
And some people, just like Xiaohua mentioned in the text, go purely with purpose and strive for the greatest interests of their mother's family.
Because these women don't understand the nature of marriage, it's ultimately hard to meet men who are willing to give everything for her.
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