In "Xiao Min's Family", Xiao Min had a long talk with her mother, and Xiao Min asked her mother why she divorced her father at that time.
Mom replied that her father had a bad temper, but if his father had been alive, the two of them might have remarried.
Because of their generation, marriage is very important.
In fact, as a daughter, in the face of the previous generation, people who have come over also want to get some "failure" experience from them.
I hope I don't follow the wrong path that I have taken for a lifetime.
As a mother, I also hope that my children will not follow the path they have traveled, and they have met many people along the way and experienced many truths.
The mother asked Xiao Min if it was wrong for her to disagree with her marriage to Xiao Chen, and she did not agree that it was selfish, one is that Xiao Min is looking for a small ex-husband, and the mother is worried about being talked about; the other is worried that Xiao Min will be very hard to be a stepmother in the future.
In fact, judging from the encounters of Xiao Min, Xiao Jie, and Li Ping in the play, people have to think of a question that is extremely frightening.
Will the unhappy marriages of the previous generation affect the next generation?
Seeing such an answer on a Q&A website, I think it is very suitable for psychological state -
"I long for a warm, loyal and happy marriage in the future, and I am full of uneasiness, pessimistic about marriage, and I always feel that I am not qualified to be happy."
In fact, many of the current marriage misfortunes are not cheating, but selfishness.
Some people say that the times have shaped a generation, and sometimes, people are like animals pushed by the times, and we will go wherever it commands. It said to plan a family, so I became the loneliest generation, it said to have two children, so we became the more confused kind.
Most of the unhappy marriages of the previous generation will be more or less afraid of marriage, to tell an example of the reality around you.
Classmate A is in the same dormitory in college, in college on a boyfriend, two people can talk very well, A has seen the boyfriend's mother in college, the boyfriend's family is a single parent family, A's family is a very happy kind, parents are working in the unit, family relations are harmonious.
A is not particularly satisfied with her boyfriend's mother, but because she has a very good relationship with her boyfriend, she married her boyfriend as soon as she graduated, and she had children not long after marriage.
The boyfriend's family conditions are not very good, and after marriage, A needs to live with the boyfriend's mother.
The contradiction also arose at this time, the boyfriend's mother had to manage everything in every detail, the desire for control was particularly strong, and even A's courier had to help take it apart to see what it was, and then said a word.
The boyfriend is also very embarrassed between A and his mother, and has been comforting A that his mother regards her as her own person, which is why it is like this.
Later, I learned from my boyfriend that his mother was also married because she had lost her eyes and was deceived, so she later pinned all her hopes on her son.
One day A really can't stand it, with the daughter born back to the mother's house, her mother-in-law felt that his son with the child is not good to find someone again, did not want a child, the child to A to bring back to the mother's home.
Comparing Liu Xiaojie in the drama "Xiao MinJia", I feel that there are many similarities.
Liu Xiaojie's first marriage is also a brain fever, love brain, did not know too much about the other party on the direct marriage, and later married found the real face of the other party, no, in fact, until the divorce, Maybe Liu Xiaojie still does not understand her ex-husband.
They were all divorced, and the ex-husband also came to Liu Xiaojie's house to get money, taking some money that her ex-husband usually hid.
Liu Xiaojie's second marriage is still a love brain, an impulse to get married immediately, did not get along with people enough, it is still very necessary to try love before marriage, and later found that Xu Zheng is actually a potential psychopath.
After watching Liu Xiaojie's two failed marriages, the bullet screen was spitting out - "Liu Xiaojie asked for it!" ”
In fact, there is no way, in reality, everyone is different, some girls are easy to fall in love with the brain, easy to be impulsive, and it is easy to look at people who look away.
Xu Zheng really seems to be reminiscent of Feng Yuanzheng, the domestic violence maniac who lives in the memory of terror...