"Dear Child" makes people see the anxiety of women after marriage, and also makes people see the helplessness of men after marriage.
From any point of view, marriage seems to be full of chicken feathers for people, but there are actually many warm emotions in the story of the prototype, and it is also a very healing story.
Some netizens broke the news that the prototype story of the TV series "Dear Child" occurred 16 years ago.
16 years ago, the women of that era were able to survive in themselves, not like now, they can go out of the inch of life to work outside, and use knowledge and wisdom to create a new world for themselves. The women of that era were still struggling with traditional ideas, but the woman really loved her children.
In the archetypal story, the woman (we call her A below) is not as lucky as Fang Yinuo, her original family is not rich, there is no economic foundation, no decent job and no considerate lover, but she did not give up, she knew that her son was ill, she was "begging" her ex-husband (we will call him B later) and herself to have another child.
Unfortunately, after the birth of the child, the matching type was not successful, all the efforts were in vain, and in the end, A had to face the dilemma of losing his beloved son to raise two children alone.
Many people see here, coupled with the excessive rendering of the impact of the contradictions in marriage in "Dear Child", they will feel that A lost his life because of marriage, not only suffered a lot, but even the people who wanted to stay were not retained, and in the end they had to raise two children alone, thankless, almost nothing fell. Is this really the case?
Since a statement can exist, there must be a legitimate reason. However, throughout A's life, this experience has enriched her, and her story has just begun.
When "Left and Right" was released, A had returned to the place where she saved her son, where she cried when she saw the director, and also said a lot of warm details.
It turned out that her eldest son was very sensible, knew his mother's sadness and sadness, and specially encouraged his mother to live for his two younger brothers before leaving. This winged angel came to life and experienced the love of his mother, the warmth of his family and the preciousness of his affection. Like his mother, he is reluctant, but he has been able to face it calmly and repay his family with love.
At this time, neither marriage nor ex-husband is actually worth mentioning.
A listened to the child's words, took the two children alone to the present, her children grew up healthy, accompanied by the mother, and slowly smoothed the mother's pain.
A said that because of the eldest son's affair, a hospital also saved "cord blood" for her for free, which is mixed with the great love of the world, and also shows the warmth and justice of this world.
A has experienced the tempering of marriage, life is difficult, but her strength and persistence have received the attention and help of many people, she is a great mother, but also an inspirational woman.
People walk in this world, just like spring and autumn, many are natural laws and phenomena, for the withering of plants is often a matter of obedience to fate, like A can persist until the last moment of life, marriage and ex-husband's misfortunes have been insignificant.
What's more, even without marriage and without an ex-husband, a person's life cannot be calm, and for any life that exists in this world, what is more important is the ability to cope with risks, because risks are everywhere.
Marriage may have a chicken feather, and not getting married may grow old and lonely. Life is not smooth sailing, which road to take has to bear the ups and downs of which road.
A chose to get married, what she lost was the green years, in exchange for the love of her son and the social temperature, but also completed the experience of the heart, such a person, no matter what kind of situation, can be strong to face, and she also conveyed a precious thing to the child, that is, faith.
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