Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation.
Marrying a different person will really have a different life. If you choose the right person, every day is Valentine's Day, and happiness is a matter of course; if you choose the wrong person, the rest of your life will be only tormented.
Women can not withstand the torment of emotions and marriage, before entering the marriage, we must know how to filter and filter, open their eyes before marriage, and life after marriage can be guaranteed.
Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, so before marriage, we must not be blindly impulsive, but we must be calm and know how to go to the man's original family to see.
Man is an animal of the environment, the man's original family is directly related to the man's personality and mentality, but also the place where women marry the past, need to run in and get along, to see, naturally there is nothing wrong with it.
A truly far-sighted woman, who knows how to plan ahead, will inquire about these three things in the man's original family before marriage.
What is the relationship between the man's parents
Few people escape the influence of their original family. This is a place where a person grew up, naturally heard and seen, and was influenced by many of the original family.
And how the relationship between parents directly determines a man's mental health and sense of responsibility.
In a family with good parental relations, men grow up in a loving family, naturally know how to take care of women's feelings, and have a sense of responsibility.
In families where parents have a bad relationship, men have not felt love and warmth since childhood, their psychology is more easily distorted, they do not know how to get along with other people, and their personalities are also awkward.
Please do not ignore the inheritance of the original family. The good and the bad are often inherited.
In a family with harmonious parental relations, children are more likely to know love and are more likely to be happy; while families with discordant parental relations will create more misfortune, and you marry the past, but it is just cannon fodder.
Don't take any more risks, don't marry a man because of sympathy, but see clearly in marriage whether his original family is happy, if it is extremely unhappy, no matter how hard you try alone, it will not help.
How is the man's home style
People have character, the family has a family style, not a family, do not enter a door.
Before getting married, be sure to inquire about the man's family style and the character of his parents and relatives, rather than being carried away by love.
Some people look good on the surface, but they have hidden bad habits, learned from the original family, which is enough to leave hidden dangers in your future life.
The neighbor Aunt Xia was a full love brain when she was young, and when her ex-husband pursued her, he was good at rhetoric and quickly chased her.
Aunt Xia only had love in her eyes, where she thought about going to see how his parents were, how the family style and reputation were.
However, after marriage, the man's hidden gambling habits were exposed, and it turned out that the man's father was also an inertial gambler, and later the man lost everything, and Aunt Xia was discouraged before divorcing.
The bad habits of parents will directly affect their children, how the family style of a family is, and the people who come out are really different.
If you only listen to the man's appearance, do not look at the man's family style, do not examine his parents, will often pay a painful price.
The economic basis of the man
Sentient beings will not drink enough water, life after marriage is realistic, food, clothing, shelter and transportation, which does not need to use money?
Money is the foundation of keeping a small home running. Poor couples mourn, if there is no money, the couple who love each other will quarrel every day and will not be able to live in peace.
Talking about money is really not tacky, talking about money is a normal life.
No one is willing to help the poor, and you must know that your poverty alleviation cannot be exchanged for gratitude, and even drag you to the abyss of life. Before getting married, don't be carried away by love, don't dare to talk to the man about economic conditions, and be afraid of being said to be material.
But after marriage, it is already too late to talk about these things.
Before getting married, you must examine the man's economic foundation, whether there is a stable and long-term income, can maintain your normal life, whether the man is self-motivated, so that you can see hope.
If the man's family conditions are poor, you marry the past, that is, poverty alleviation, do not take risks, no one will appreciate you, you are doomed to lose a mess.
Marriage is a very realistic thing, a man can't bear to let you live a poor life with him, itself is not a very responsible thing, obviously talking about money is a very normal thing, but you have to put a gold label on you, such a person is not worth your trust.
epilogue:
Life is a very realistic thing, and getting married is to weigh the pros and cons, because you marry different people, and there will really be different results.
Open your eyes before marriage, and you can have less hidden dangers after marriage. How the man's parents are, how the family style and reputation are, and how the economic conditions are, are all related to the quality of your future life.
Seeing this in advance, in order to avoid being dragged down by feelings, some families directly abandon it, just like "blessed daughters do not enter the blessed home".
Choose a good man, examine his family, and your future happiness will be more secure.