There is a good friend of more than ten years who got married last year, the husband is a local rich man, the wedding is held romantically and luxuriously, and the little sisters around her say that she has found a good home, all of whom are envious and jealous.
But the other day she came to me to complain and said she wanted a divorce. The first reaction I heard was shocked, and later I learned that her husband didn't care about her at all, an iron rooster, and all kinds of behaviors in life can no longer be called frugality, that is, cutting.
How much to cut it, ask my friend to go to the supermarket to buy vegetables can only buy vegetables in the special price area, fruits can not eat more than 10 yuan a pound, as well as a variety of daily necessities, either to buy special prices, or can only buy cheap, cosmetics can not exceed 100 pieces, clothes can not exceed 200 pieces. Because "all I earn is hard-earned money, I can't spend it casually", and what is even more speechless is that I am not allowed to go to work and take care of all the housework at home, because "a woman who is married should stay at home and manage the family" .
The lavish wedding when getting married is just to not lose face, not to let others see stinginess, and what kind of life after marriage others can't see.
Therefore, whether the husband who marries has money is really the most important thing, will it hurt the talent is the most important!
Marry the right person, he will not be willing to be unhappy, you want to eat what you want to buy, as long as it is not too much, as long as he has the conditions, it will satisfy you, even if he needs to save money for a month.
Marry the wrong person, even if his family is rich, he also feels that it has nothing to do with you, you just need to help him take care of the housework, give him children and children, you can't have too many ideas, if you want to buy something slightly more expensive, he can say that you are a loser.
So I still think that the first condition for many girls to choose a mate now is to have money, everyone wants to live a good life, which is understandable, but it still depends on people, if the boyfriend has money and hurts you, it is naturally the best, but if the boyfriend is useless in addition to having money, or don't take risks, a boy with ordinary economic conditions but willing to pay for you is much more reliable.