Introduction to this article: Children's academic performance is not excellent, unstable, or even not top-notch, is it because there is no famous teacher in a famous school? Or is it because there are no famous teachers to make up one-on-one lessons?
With famous teachers in famous schools, as well as famous teachers one-on-one make-up lessons, parents have worked hard, spent hundreds of thousands, millions, or even tens of millions, children are also very hard, academic performance is still not excellent, not top-notch, unstable, because children do not have learning talent? Is it because of genetics?
Many times, many parents attribute the reasons for their children's poor academic performance, non-top-notch, and instability to external factors, and push their responsibilities to the ground.
Why don't parents look for reasons from themselves? You have to ask yourself this way, and you may get a different answer:
Did you accompany your child with your heart? Do you have patience to accompany your children? Is your own homeschooling in the right direction?
Are you blindly educating yourself? Guide the child yourself? Is your own family united and harmonious? Is there a harmonious parent-child relationship in your own family?
When you are attentive, patient, and correctly accompany and guide your child, the guidance direction is correct, the family unity is harmonious, the parent-child relationship is harmonious, if the child's academic performance is still not excellent, not top-notch, and unstable, finally you can consider the child's learning talent and genetics.
Homeschooling is the foundation and is the initial velocity;
Schooling is a catalyst, acceleration!
Excellent teachers can accelerate the excellence and excellence of excellent children with a solid foundation in family education!
Home-school co-parenting can produce excellent children.
Parents should learn to correctly accompany and guide their children, guide their children to learn, and take the initiative to acquire knowledge, which is the talent of children's acquired learning; rather than letting children be indoctrinated with a lot of knowledge and passive learning, not to say that the more classes are attended, the better the children are.
"Guiyang Guidance Education Consulting Service Center" (Tsinghua Xueba Dad) guides parents to properly accompany and guide their children, guide children to learn to learn, and strive to tap their children's acquired learning talents. Spend very little money, get the right direction of family education guidance, accompany and guide to cultivate better children, thousands of values!
Guiding parents, what is the guidance, in fact, is very simple, that is, the correct direction of family education tested by the father of the bully with practice.
As long as the direction of our family education is correct, that is, the fulcrum of family education is correct, relatively speaking, parents can use a very small amount of force and spend very little money to accompany and guide the cultivation of excellent children.
On the contrary, if the direction of family education accompaniment is not correct, there is a little deviation, this is the reality, many parents spend a lot of time, spend a lot of money, parents pay, children are hard, but finally from the child, is not excellent academic performance, not top-notch, unstable, and even the child is "rebellious", parents can not find the reason, the vast majority of parents can only say that their children have no learning talent!
It is because there are some deviations in the guidance direction of their own family education, and the child's poor academic performance is blamed on the learning talent! Talent back the black cauldron!
If our family education foundation is not solid, the initial speed is small, and the excellent teacher cannot do anything for your child, or the degree to which the excellent teacher makes your child excellent is limited.
To tell the truth, many parents are very good, but also in the correct accompaniment, guidance of children, children are also all-round development, but children in learning is a little bit worse, this little point, may be the guidance direction problem, parents did not grasp this little bit of guidance direction, directly leading to the child's academic performance will never be excellent, top not, in the middle or middle of the wandering!
As long as parents grasp the guidance direction of learning, the child's academic performance will easily come up and top-
The guidance of children in learning (habits), to start from primary school (before puberty), missed primary school, children enter junior high school, can only be remedied, the summer vacation after the middle school entrance examination to the first year of high school is the last remedy golden period, missed, there will be no golden period, the remedial effect of other times, relatively speaking, may be worse, no matter what, no matter how bad it is, it must be remedied, after all, the child is his own.
The guidance of children's learning (habits) is definitely not a traditional make-up class, a traditional tutor! Learn some problem-solving skills, routines, this is a quick success, good luck, the child may be able to test a high score in a certain exam, if the luck is not good, or the original results, the guidance and cultivation of children's learning habits is of little use.
Specifically, as a parent, you should do the following things in your child's family education:
1, not to force children to learn, but to let children consciously love learning.
As the saying goes: those who know are not as good as those who are good, and those who are good are not as good as those who are happy, so that children consciously fall in love with learning, and their parents' family education is more than half successful. Once the child treats his own learning tirelessly, parents will have a lot of peace of mind and no longer have to worry about their children's learning. So, how do you make your child fall in love with learning?
There are many methods, as long as it is a method that can stimulate children's enthusiasm for learning, such as: guiding children to establish lofty ambitions and have the ideal of reading for the country; stimulating children's strong interest in reading and learning; creating an ideal family environment for children to read, establishing a "book-fragrant family"; using children's shining points, transforming into children's learning motivation, motivating children to study diligently, etc.
2. Stimulate children's learning potential and let children get the best development.
The most important thing in family education is not how much knowledge the parents teach the child, but whether the parents have saved enough "staying power" for the child's growth, that is, whether the child's future development potential is developed. To save enough "staying power" for their children's future development, parents can do this:
First, cultivate children's good living and learning habits. As the saying goes: character determines destiny, habit determines the future. The quality of children's habits determines the size of children's future achievements. Therefore, one of the important tasks of family education is to cultivate a good habit of children.
Second, parents should teach their children some basic methods of doing things, learning, and living, not only to make children love to learn, but also to let children learn, so that children can learn in a pleasant situation, and always maintain an efficient and exuberant learning momentum.
3. Help children improve their academic performance and always maintain upward learning confidence.
To help children improve their success, it is not that parents must force children to learn, but to guide children to prepare, review, and practice homework through effective learning methods, which requires parents to master some basic methods of educating children and grow up with children. Once the child encounters setbacks in learning, parents should encourage the child to actively overcome difficulties, educate the child to be proud of victory, not to be discouraged, to quickly come out of failure with a positive attitude, and to always maintain self-confidence in learning.
Therefore, a family to cultivate excellent children, can not only rely on famous school teachers, can not rely on make-up lessons, need parents to be attentive, patient, correct to accompany and guide children, guide the cultivation of children's good learning habits, guide children to learn to learn, which can improve children's learning efficiency, excellent teachers can make your children accelerate excellent, more excellent.
Home-school co-parenting can cultivate better children.