Saying that some women are really unfit for marriage may offend a lot of people, but that's the case in real life.
Now some women are really not suitable for marriage at all, but they do not have the ability not to marry, and may be forced by the pressure of parents, family, and social habits to finally get married again.
It's the same for both men and women, and as long as you're not mentally prepared to take on that responsibility, don't rush to start a marriage.
Not casually marrying is responsible for yourself and also responsible for others, such as the following netizen, just in his early 30s has been about to get 4 marriages, 3 children and 3 fathers, whose fault is it?
First of all, let's take a look at her first marriage, which is probably the kind of mother treasure man that many netizens say, who does not have his own decision and personal judgment in many things, and listens to his parents.
The netizen said that because her first husband was too mom and baby man, she suffered a lot of grievances in her marriage and has been in a disadvantageous position in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Although because I had children, I didn't want to leave at first, but then I thought about the pain, thinking that the long pain was not as good as the short pain, and finally made up my mind to divorce.
Later, it didn't take long to meet the second husband, in fact, this woman was lucky, the second marriage or found a first marriage man, or quite good.
But later this netizen felt that this man was unreliable and liked to mess with flowers and grass outside, and she couldn't stand it before she finally chose divorce.
Then not long after the divorce, she met her third husband and the relationship between the two people was good at first, but she later found that the man had a bad temper.
According to the words of this netizen, this man has a bit of a domestic violence tendency, and she has zero tolerance for domestic violence, so after the two had a conflict, she chose to divorce.
Of course, in addition to domestic violence, netizens said that this man is still a bit unmotivated, so that she can't see the hope of the future, so she chose to divorce.
Now that she has found the fourth person to marry, she is a little hesitant to marry, and she is afraid that the fourth marriage will be the same as the previous three.
Netizens lamented that their vision is too poor, so many good men themselves can not meet one, so that now they are somewhat afraid of marriage.
In fact, when she said this sentence, there was a big problem in itself, if it was the first marriage, it may be that the man did have some problems.
This is true for several marriages, and after each divorce, you can quickly get to the next stop and get married, and three marriages and three children have no mother, and the woman is obviously wrong.
But this female netizen does not admit that she has a problem, she only feels that it is a problem of her poor vision, it is her bad luck, so she meets a bad man every time.
But no one in this world is perfect, and the saints can't say that they are not wrong, not to mention that we ordinary people, a man has some problems is a very normal thing.
It seems that every time there is a divorce, this female netizen can find out the problem, but why did not find out before marriage, it is obvious that a slap does not sound.
The 1st husband is a mommy boy, the 2nd husband is too careful, the 3rd husband is not very good-tempered, and not motivated, then the 4th 5th 6th is no problem?
Will the 4th be the kind of person who likes to gamble, and the 5th is the person who is full of lies, so this is not a matter of their own vision at all, but their own lack of the vision of picking people and the ability to manage happiness.
If this woman's vision is good enough, then she can identify which men can marry and which men cannot marry at the beginning of marriage, and will not be like her who has just divorced and immediately rushed into another marriage.
Only in his 30s have been divorced so many times, and every time it is someone else's problem, it is estimated that children will not believe it, this lie is a bit too clumsy.
Marriage is the need to be humble to each other, work hard together to live a good life, now many people get married to enjoy happiness, and for people selfish, how can they manage a good marriage.
And three children and three fathers, for these children, this female netizen obviously did not fulfill their responsibilities, then the fourth child will continue to have no mother?
It is normal for two people to have contradictions in marriage, the other party has a little problem, as long as it is harmless, don't be too calculating, and stare at that little problem.
Managing happiness is actually an ability, maybe not at the beginning of this ability, but you can learn slowly, rather than getting divorced every time you encounter problems, every time it is the fault of men, so some people are really not suitable for marriage.