As the old saying goes: there are two chances to change your destiny in life, once for the college entrance examination and once for marriage.
What kind of partner a woman chooses, what kind of life she will have. If the husband is very careful, even if he is very happy at the moment, he will encounter changes in marriage.
What kind of person to marry is obviously not predestined, after all, what is now about marriage freedom, so everyone has the right to choose their own partner, and when they realize that it is not appropriate, they should seize the opportunity to separate, rather than putting themselves in a desperate situation.
Before that, a father with high emotional intelligence had warned his daughter: Men fail in these three aspects, no matter how good they are, they cannot marry, and they must be kept in mind.
Don't be single-minded about feelings
Sociable men, the opposite sex is generally good, if his attitude towards feelings is not serious, and there is no principle and bottom line when contacting the opposite sex, it is easy to rub out the spark of love.
Such a man, even if he is married to you, will not completely put his heart on you, and from time to time will have ambiguous contacts with the opposite sex, and no matter how good he is, women should not easily marry him, because you will eventually pay for your choices.
Marriage is a particularly important thing, especially for women with simple minds, it is simply an unfortunate to meet a man who is not emotionally dedicated, because no matter how sincere the emotions you give, the other party will not be good to you for a lifetime, nor will they always guard you.
Men with complex relationships between men and women are not loyal to marriage at all, no matter how deeply you are trapped, it is best to persuade you to get rid of it in time, otherwise you will face greater harm.
Unqualified character
The key to seeing whether a man is worth marrying is to see if his character is qualified, and if there is a problem with a man's character, then it is difficult for him to give you a happy life.
Men with poor character, the feelings paid will not be sincere, coupled with his moral character problems, it is likely to hurt you in the end, and it is too risky to be with such a man, it is difficult to give you a happy and stable life.
Marriage is not something that can be gotten out of at will, when you come together with a man of unqualified character, it is difficult to break free, and this kind of man is flawed in all aspects, and once he chooses, he is doomed to be hurt.
Male and female interaction, character is far more important than excellent, even if the best people do not have character, you can not harvest happiness, your life will also fall into the situation of endless troubles.
Don't know how to care about and respect your choices
Between husband and wife, the most important thing is respect and understanding, especially for a woman, a man's care and respect is the direct manifestation of his deep love for you.
If a man does not know how to care about and respect you, even after you are together, you will have a very hard time, no matter what you have to consider the man's situation, but he will not care about your thoughts, completely self-centered, simply can not respect you.
However, marriage loses care and respect, for women means the loss of the most basic feelings, maintenance will be very difficult, always a woman alone in the pay, what is the meaning of this unequal marriage?
Do not know how to care about and respect women, even if he is excellent, no matter how rich the life provided, you are just in a state of charity, do not feel love and happiness at all, such a marriage is obviously difficult to maintain forever.
Write at the end
A happy marriage is not based on material and excellent, but on the emotional attitude of the other party, character and whether or not to respect and care for you, these are not superficial things, but essentially mutual needs.
A man with sincere feelings, qualified character, and who knows how to care about and respect you can naturally give you a happy married life, but if he can't do this, even if he is married, he can't be happy.
Here, I also wish that people who sincerely give their feelings can meet the right people and live happily ever after.