If you marry a phoenix male husband, are you willing to accept his parents for retirement?
There used to be many people who said that if you marry someone, you don't marry a phoenix man, and if you marry a wife, you can marry a brother and a demon. Marrying someone without marrying a phoenix man is not to despise the phoenix man's native family is not good, nor is it to despise the phoenix man's incompetence, but a lot of trivialities in the phoenix man's native family, which makes you annoyed.
Two people with different views come together because of love. When you were good, you can rely on love to support it. But once the marriage has been long, the three views of the two people are still not consistent, then there will be contradictions and disputes.
Especially when it comes to the parents and pension of both parties, the couple will feel that the chicken is talking to the duck and the duck, and it is completely impossible to communicate. At that time, it not only dragged down his parents, but also delayed his own life.
01, eat soft rice for three years, phoenix man asked to pick up parents to retire
Zhang Ting, who once boasted that she had a good vision and selected a potential stock, after enduring the soft meal of the phoenix male husband for three years, she was no longer embarrassed to say good things for her husband in front of her parents.
Zhang Ting and her husband are college classmates, and it is precisely because of the deep emotional foundation that three years after graduation, the two talents resolutely decided to live together despite the opposition of Zhang Ting's parents. Later, Zhang Ting became pregnant before marriage, and her parents thought that their daughter was humiliated and had to compromise.
In order to give her daughter a lively and decent wedding, Zhang Ting's parents first spent a 500,000 down payment to buy a wedding house, and then under the daughter's pampering, they took out a 100,000 down payment to buy a wedding car for their daughter.
Therefore, when her husband and Zhang Ting got married, they moved in with their bags, and they didn't need to worry about anything, not even the bride price. Although Zhang Ting's parents hate iron and steel, but their daughter is willing, her parents are not good enough to beat Mandarin ducks anymore.
But no one expected that the phoenix male husband who had eaten soft rice for three years was actually eager to move after Zhang Ting proposed to take his parents to live at home, rushing to pick up his parents to come to the home for the elderly, and also known as his parents raising him for so many years, he did not perform filial piety in front of his parents.
02, the phoenix man was cleaned out of the house, angry
In order to convince Zhang Ting, her husband was still soft and hard, and even the divorce was mentioned. Seeing that Zhang Ting was still indifferent, her husband was anxious, saying that it was not easy for my parents to raise me, and I took them to the pension, is it not natural?
Zhang Ting originally did not want to worry about her husband, but as soon as her husband's complaint came out, she could no longer sit still. The husband did not perform filial piety in front of his in-laws, but he sent back 3,000 yuan of living expenses to his in-laws on time every month, and he has not been interrupted once until now.
Zhang Ting said that her husband could not listen to it, but accused Zhang Ting of being inhumane and only caring about her parents, but ignoring his parents. It is also said that Zhang Ting is an only child, her parents have a house, a car and a pension, and there is no need to retire with her daughter and son-in-law. But his parents have nothing, he does not retire, his parents really have no hope.
Her husband's crying made Zhang Ting annoyed. After her husband complained again, Zhang Ting simply agreed to the divorce and asked her husband to get out of the house immediately. After all, the wedding car is paid for by her parents, the in-laws have not paid a penny, and the husband is not eligible to share half of it.
Seeing Zhang Ting really come, her husband immediately panicked. But Zhang Ting is not just talking, saying that divorce will be divorced immediately, and it will never drag mud and water. Even if her husband pleaded and regretted everything, Zhang Ting did not compromise.
03, phoenix man is not willing: it is not easy for my parents to raise me, do I not have the right to take them to the pension?
After being divorced, her ex-husband also tried to beg Zhang Ting to change her mind through various means. Zhang Ting, who originally just wanted to teach her husband some lessons, never mentioned looking back after seeing her ex-husband's performance so unproductive.
Zhang Ting's fierce heart, so that the ex-husband completely no way out, he does not understand, his parents raised him is not easy, he does not have the right to take his parents to his wife's dowry house for the elderly? Why is it that his parents-in-law, who have everything, are eligible to live in, while his penniless parents are not?
The ex-husband was very unwilling, and he wanted to find Zhang Ting to have a good theory. But Zhang Ting was not willing to talk to him at all, and usually her ex-husband pestered her in the name of seeing the child, and Zhang Ting mostly avoided it.
Thinking that she had been so stupid to tie her whole life to such a phoenix man who had no chance, Zhang Ting was eager to slap herself twice. Sure enough, what the parents say is right, the three views are different, the door is not right for the couple, sooner or later will be divorced because of the original family.
Today's Topic:
Do you think that the parents of the phoenix man are eligible to live in the dowry room of the daughter-in-law?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!