Parse emotions
Author: Li Liushen
Typography: Years of Retention
When you meet such a wife, do you continue to endure it?
These aspects of the wife cannot be tolerated, and the sooner they know, the better
Author: Li Liushen
Husbands and wives are walking together on the road of life, to join hands, work together, and make their lives as happy as possible and make the little days sweet.
If you meet a baby who needs to be cared for everywhere and needs to be pampered all the time, how can you spend life together?
So, what aspects of your lover are you most intolerant of?
One woman said that if I met a husband who was in a mess, she would not hesitate to kick it away.
One man said that the most intolerable thing is for his wife to go out of the wall and betray the marriage - this should be unbearable for most people.
Today, let's briefly talk about the bad things that my husband can't tolerate:
First, overconsumption.
The family needs two people to run it together, and if the woman is once squandered, it will make the man very disgusted.
For example, your monthly salary, except for her buying bags, clothes, and cosmetics, is not enough for daily life, or she can spend a month's salary.
When you meet such a woman, are you not afraid?
You may say, or you don't have the talent yourself.
If you are an upstart, a rich man, are you still afraid of her buying clothes and cosmetics?
Buy buy buy buy, is there a degree?
Even if the family is full of pots, even if it is the richest man in the world, if you meet a woman, you will only consume and enjoy, do not want to do anything, do not want to ask about anything, in the long run, can you tolerate it?
Such a hedonistic view of consumption will sooner or later make the family hate, sooner or later will make a family break up.
Second, the distance between the opposite sex and the opposite sex is not well mastered.
The most important thing in marriage is fidelity, even if you don't have a red apricot out of the wall, even if you don't deviant. However, you have too many friends of the opposite sex, the communication tools are precious, obediently shouting, usually traveling around in the mountains, and in the middle of the night, they will drink, play cards, and karaoke together.
You don't care about home, your husband is already bored enough, and you stick with friends of the opposite sex all day, what will your husband think?
What man can accept his own woman being ambiguous with a bunch of men?
Marriage requires mutual respect, you don't respect yourself, you don't respect others, isn't that self-destructive?
Empathetically, would you rather your man be with another woman all day and all night?
Third point, independence difference.
Many women watch more love dramas, always feel that marriage should be a man spoiling themselves, a little discomfort on the mood - treat her badly, treat her not kiss, not love her enough... It's men's fault everywhere.
It may be fine when you are first in love, but once you enter marriage, men will feel very tired.
Family responsibilities should be borne by two people together, and the happiness of small families needs to be maintained by two people together. Loving the family and loving the wife is what a man should do, but doesn't a man need love? As a wife, shouldn't you take care of your husband?
Know that every love between husband and wife is mutual.
No one wants to marry a big lady who is dressed to open her mouth to serve for a lifetime.
Fourth, I don't see myself as a family member.
Married for a few years, even have children, talking to your husband or how your family is, how is your father, how is your mother, when it comes to our father and our mother, it must be her mother's family, which husband is not disgusted by such a name?
Fifth, treat your own family affairs as if they were an outsider's business.
After marriage, the family is jointly owned by the husband and wife, and no matter what happens, the husband and wife can negotiate and resolve it, including differences of opinion. Some wives, as long as the two children have a conflict, they will say harsh words: I will let your family cut off its children and grandchildren and become a family.
Is it just a husband's business to cut off children and grandchildren? He broke off off his offspring, do you still have it?
Such a woman is too hateful, remember, let her stay in her mother's house, cut off the back road.
Sixth, home is not your own.
Entering the mall from early shopping to black is not too tired, playing video play until midnight does not say sleepy, mahjong field has no head and tail, in the outside of the dashing abnormal excitement, and do housework a little tired on the complaints, grievances, as if this home is the husband's, the husband should bear all the responsibilities of the family, the wife is to enjoy.
Seventh, there is always a lack of a piece of clothing.
The house was full of his wife's clothes, and he always said that he was missing one. Some clothes are bought and tried to never be worn, and some clothes are worn once and let it lie in the cupboard for a long time.
Her husband had only two pieces of clothing to change into, but she ignored them.
What exactly did you become with your husband?
Eighth, do not know tolerance, blindly complain.
The older the age, the smaller the tolerance, the more difficult it is, all day long, it is either complaining and selling merit, or complaining and blaming, no matter how small the things they do, they work hard and do high, and no matter how big the things others do, they are full of problems.
After a long time, who can stand it?
The ninth point is not to give the husband the slightest face.
I only know how to care for your mother's family, give your in-laws a face all day, enslave your husband, and drink and rebuke your husband in front of outsiders.
Oh my God, who are you husbands?
Friends, I hope you can see this and be able to correct it as soon as possible.
Of course, there are other aspects that you can also bring up and let everyone take as a warning.
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