Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
Wang Meng said:
"Isn't it wisdom and happiness to treat troubles as dust on the face, dirt on the clothes, not to be frightened, to wash at any time, to always be clean?"
People live a lifetime, care more about themselves, worry less, and worry less. Don't bother yourself with other people's mistakes, other people's things. Don't add to your troubles for the sake of unnecessary things.
Other people's worries are too much, and sometimes they will be laborious and unflattering, and it will also distract your energy. The happiness of others has never been related to you, and only by managing yourself well will you have the best harvest.
The reason why people are tired and annoyed is because their eyes see too much, their mouths talk too much, and they worry too much about everything. When you learn to subtract from your own thoughts, you will find that there is a vast world waiting for you, and you will release your happy nature.
People live a lifetime, worry less and worry less. "Those who worry are doomed to suffer": You don't have to worry about these 3 things.
Children's things.
If things have nothing to do with yourself, don't take care of them, other people's hearts, and the result will only make your things more and more annoying!
We often see many parents who have broken their hearts over their children's marriages. But in fact, they can't help at all, but will add to the blockage. You love your children, and they feel that you deserve to give, and they also feel that you can give less and you can give more.
When people are old, just take care of themselves, don't be nosy. If the child's affairs can help, help, don't worry about the things you don't care about, so as not to be laborious and unflattering, and let the children be suspicious. Read books and drink tea in your spare time, and don't worry about it.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, people over fifty, don't worry about their children anymore. Pay more attention to yourself, which is also a reduction in stress for your children.
Someone else's family affair.
In the "Awakening to the Everlasting Word", it is said: "It is not a matter of doing one's own thing, and it is not necessary to speculate and not to force words." ”
It is difficult for a clean official to judge family affairs, and family affairs are often a rotten account that cannot be calculated, "cutting continuously, rationalizing and messing up", and it is impossible to explain everything. Other people's family affairs cannot be mixed, even if you and the other person are very good friends.
Therefore, if you don't want your friends to hate you, you should mix with each other's housework less. Even if a friend asks you to make any suggestions, don't open your mouth, and try to avoid it if you can avoid it.
"Everyone sweeps the snow in front of the door, and does not care about the frost on the tiles of others." In life, it is enough to take care of your own affairs, don't interfere with other people's affairs.
Don't take care of other people's affairs, otherwise, if you don't manage it well, you will still be kind as a donkey's liver and lungs in the end, and you will be thankless. In this way, not only did he save himself, but he also saved himself the trouble of getting into trouble.
Worrying too much about other people's affairs hurts and hurts feelings. Don't bother yourself with things that don't concern you, listen to your heart more, and be responsible for your own life.
There's nothing you can do about it.
Too many promises, in the end can not be done, but will offend people, but also to please people.
In interpersonal relationships, the most important thing is sincerity, and the promises made are not fulfilled, which is no different from lies.
No one likes someone who keeps writing a blank check, and if you don't give it, they want you to never mention it. So, don't easily promise others what you can do, and prefer not to mention what you can't do.
Not making promises casually is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence. If you promise, you must do it, otherwise it is not a good thing to lose faith in others, it is not a good thing for yourself to be himself, and it is not pleasing to yourself if you delay the affairs of others.
Wheat message: Worry less, from now on, make plans for yourself.
Shakespeare said, "A man who thinks too much loses the joy of being a man." ”
In a person's life, if you want to live a little more relaxed, you must do it, talk less, see less, and worry less. So learn to throw away your worries, lose your worries, throw away your entanglements, and give yourself a simple and clean life.
People who like to worry about it, that is, they have to their hearts, and the result is that they are easy to age and their bodies are decaying. If we don't worry about idleness, we will live calmly and comfortably.
To be a person, you should look less, don't see everything too clearly, and some things will pass by turning a blind eye. Other people's things are too much to worry about, and sometimes they will be laborious and unflattering, which affects each other's feelings and distracts your energy.
As the saying goes, salty radish is lightly worried. The claim that the worried have their own life of labor is not unreasonable. Let's stop worrying about it, learn to let go of our troubles calmly, and not be a laborer.
Flowers do not bloom often, people are not often there, only be kind to yourself, with a happy attitude to do what you like to do, is the greatest happiness in life.