Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
People's hearts are cold, so why overestimate themselves.
Some things have been experienced, and they have been understood. The more you expect, the more disappointed you are
These days, true friends are really difficult to find, and the intersection of interests is everywhere.
Camouflage in front of people, cold guns behind people. Human nature is really cold, how enthusiastic it is when it uses you, and how cold it is when it doesn't use you.
Don't always think how important you are to others, when you are down, you are nothing in other people's hearts.
Don't tempt people's hearts, they can't hurt. Some people have been sincerely opposed, but in exchange for indifferent treatment; some people have been devoted to each other, but what they get is indifferent disregard.
If you put up with others too much, others will hurt you. One day you will know: people's hearts cannot be exchanged for people's hearts, and seriousness cannot get deep affection.
-02-
Miyazaki once said: "Sometimes you have to give up some people, it's not that you don't care, it's that they don't care." ”
Don't encounter things, don't know who is sincere, don't fall into trouble, don't know who has warm hands.
Sooner or later, you will understand that there are more interests in this world, and more hypocrisy. If you don't get paid back, you must know how to stop at the right time, otherwise you will hurt yourself.
In the adult world, we are all passers-by. In the eyes of others, there are not too many of you, and one less is not too little.
There will always be a moment when you will suddenly find that you are really not as important as you think in your heart, and not many people will take you to heart.
Stop being nice to everyone, and don't give all the good to others. Instead of expecting a lot from others, it is better to rely on yourself.
-03-
Mr. Zhu Deyong once said:
"Your goodness is like a piece of sugar to others, and when you eat it, it is gone, and your badness is like a scar for others, and it will remain forever, which is human nature." 」
Self-indulgence, mostly wishful thinking, self-pleading is not interesting. People live a lifetime, and it is better to please anyone than to please themselves. When others look down on you, you must look down on yourself.
Once in a lifetime, not all emotions must be held tightly. If others don't take you seriously, they don't curry favor. People who ignore you, don't take care of them. Your feelings are very real, always leave it to the person who has you in their hearts.
Since ancient times, amorous has always been ruthlessly hurt. Not being sentimental is protecting yourself.
Don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's opinions. Take yourself too seriously, and others don't necessarily take you seriously. Being a person who pleases you and living a life you like is the most correct open-ended person in life.
-04-
Life is a game of chess, win or lose uncertainly, play your own chess, play your role.
There are thousands of people in the world, most of them passing by, or making friends in general. You feel indispensable in the other person's world, and most likely it is just your own wishful thinking.
No one is anyone's, so why overestimate yourself. Overestimating your relationship with others will lead to unrealistic expectations of others.
There are not many people who are willing to care about your emotions, and even fewer people can make you happy from the heart. When you succeed, what do you say is what you say; when you fail, what do you count?
Tao Xingzhi once said: "Those who respect him must first respect himself." ”
People in this life say short is not short, long is not long, let yourself be happy is the most important. There is no need to lower the bottom line and principles in order to please others.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.