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Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
Home should always be a warm presence.
In particular, the harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will make a family harmonious and happy. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, which will make the whole family uneasy.
Only when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are harmonious, the family will be happier and happier. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship wants to get along well, it requires two people to have a tolerant and generous heart. If both people are preoccupied, then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be bad.
After many daughters-in-law enter the door, they treat their mother-in-law as a mother-in-law, and as a result, some mother-in-law treats their daughter-in-law as an outsider. It can be said that this is a very unwise behavior.
As women, why bother with each other? Whether it is a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, we must treat each other sincerely. After many years of daughter-in-law becoming a mother-in-law, after becoming a mother-in-law, she should be more considerate of her daughter-in-law from her heart.
As a person who has come over, I still want to say that. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are good mother-in-law, there are good daughters-in-law. The truth of a person who came over: whether the mother-in-law really treats you, through these three points, you will know at a glance.
Whether you are consistent or not.
The mother-in-law wants the daughter-in-law to treat her sincerely, first of all, the mother-in-law must treat the daughter-in-law sincerely, and the appearance is the same. As the saying goes: planting melons gets melons and beans get beans, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, which is also the truth.
A good mother-in-law is the mother-in-law of a more "eccentric" daughter-in-law, and does not want you to be wronged in this new family. When there is a conflict between the two young people, they will defend the daughter-in-law. In this way, the son will not only have no opinion but will be happier, the daughter-in-law will be more filial, and the smart mother-in-law will do the same. Therefore, the really good mother-in-law is a bit "eccentric"
Because she wants to see you and her son get along and stay happy. If you meet such a mother-in-law in life, you must cherish it.
Whether to take care of you during the month.
Women are the most vulnerable when confinement, and a good mother-in-law is to be good to her daughter-in-law at a critical time, to understand and tolerate them.
You feel that you have truly come to a family of your own, because your mother-in-law is in the confinement, and your mother, she can always really love you.
Sincerity cannot be disguised, the mother-in-law carefully serves your confinement, and is sincere to you. When we meet a mother-in-law who is good to you, we must know more about gratitude and treat her old age well.
Respect your lives.
There is a problem in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which accounts for a large proportion, that is, the mother-in-law has no sense of boundaries and likes to interfere in the life of the little two.
A good mother-in-law knows the sense of boundaries, after marriage, there will inevitably be some unpleasantness between husband and wife, quarrels and mouths are definitely a common thing, and the attitude of the mother-in-law is very important at this time.
Mothers-in-law who really treat their daughters-in-law well know how to let go, treat themselves as "outsiders", and cannot participate too much in the lives of their sons and daughters-in-law. In daily life, you will not be kidnapped by morality and forced to accept what she calls good.
Because she understands that she should not manage so much as a mother-in-law and can respect her daughter-in-law, this shows that her mother-in-law is really good to her daughter-in-law.
Wheat message: When you meet a good mother-in-law, you must know how to cherish it.
The harmony of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly determines whether the family is harmonious or not.
A good mother-in-law relationship is the best feng shui for a family. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, the family will be harmonious and happy, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and there are naturally many quarrels in the family.
Mother-in-law good family, happy offspring. The mother-in-law should understand that only if you truly love your daughter-in-law and truly treat your daughter-in-law as a family, will you let your daughter-in-law respect and love you from the bottom of your heart!
First there is a good mother-in-law, there is a good daughter-in-law! All that is said is the truth. If you want your son's family life to be good, the mother-in-law must first truly love her daughter-in-law.
Wondering if your mother-in-law is serious about you? Look at 3 points to know, can not put it out. Most of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who often quarrel are mother-in-law who do not treat their daughter-in-law as a family.
Ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law. A good mother-in-law is not only the lubricant in a happy marriage, but also the source of family prosperity, and it is not unreasonable for parents to have virtue and three generations of blessings.
The mother-in-law should understand that only you truly love and protect your daughter-in-law and truly regard your daughter-in-law as a family. Only then will the daughter-in-law be convinced, and only then will the daughter-in-law truly respect and love you from the bottom of her heart.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes text coffee, is very happy to meet you in my text, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.